What do you love?

[Blue60]

Things I love / like:

- Fairly quick responses to messages. I know many of you are busy and you get a lot of time-wasting messages, but the best escorts (including you, Michelle!) make the effort to get back asap to polite sensible messages. Responding to a confirmation message is particularly important - it lets you know that the appointment is almost certainly happening.

- A smile and friendly greeting on arrival. It should go without saying, but if we are slightly apprehensive, getting the feeling that the lady is actually pleased that you are there makes a lot of difference.

- A bit of humour to break the ice is great. Some girls are naturals at this and will always find something to lighten the mood, but I know not everyone has this confidence, especially if their English is limited.

- My best visits begin (after a shower) with some gentle kissing that slowly escalates to intimate touching. This gets me going far more than a fast and direct approach.

- I love it when escorts show genuine (or at least convincing) interest in me, and when they are happy to share some information about themselves and their lives. I understand that some girls will prefer to keep their real life secret from clients, but its nice when they are willing to share a bit

Most things I hate / don't like are just the opposite of these:

- When girls under-communicate. Even if your time does not end up being wasted, it can put you through unnecessary uncertainty and unease.

- When they move quickly to bj, condom etc. This can make it feel as exciting as a dental procedure, and in the worst cases, you are in the middle of the action without feeling properly ready.

- I don't mind girls sharing stuff about their working life - a few girls that I have visited many times would share stories / frustrations etc (without naming names) and that can be very interesting. What I don't like is feeling like part of a production line. The worst response to "Can you see me at 10.30 for an hour, please" is "Well I have a ten o'clock and a 12.30, so I could see you at 11".

Having said all that, by a combination of good luck and looking very carefully at profiles and reviews, I have had much much more of the positives than the negatives - otherwise I would not still be around.

Wot he said .

I love to know that I am actually communicating with the escort herself and the quality of good ore-meeting communications is important. A nice welcome and attitude make a huge difference.

Dislike, after many earlier detailed communications to be asked ' how long you want' or 'what do you want'.