‘Normal’ behavior ?

[EllaBella]

Just focus in A & B like Stephanie said, been in C situatution, not comfortable for a women /girl to be in that place without any discution first at least!

[Mrbean76]

Ahh , right .

As a preface - I am not talking about your quick-quick-like , slam-bam Bend-over-Sally encounter ,

nor of the ones who’d do Anything for a dollar .

Here I’d be asking about the One Hr Plus meetings . Girls who make themselves available not at a

moment’s notice , but by appointment ; girls who’d be a Destination , and Not a Convenience !


Right . So getting That out of the way :

What would be Your ‘normal’ behavior ?

: you’ve had a bit of a chat , now you’re coming out of your shower , your lady ( likely , preferably ,

possibly ? ) splayed on the bed at attention , awaiting you .. she might rouse for a splendid bit of

passionate kissing .. You will :


A. Take charge , Ravish her ( obviously Consensually )

B. Follow her lead , lay back and enjoy her administering to your needs and pleasure / and to hers




C. Without invitation to do so - Roll yourself into a ball with your ankles next to your ears thereby presenting

your wide-spread cheeks and gaping hole into the face of a girl / woman without any prior discussion ,

into the face of a Person who does Not have any such thing ‘listed’ as a Favorite ?





What is ‘Normal’ behavior ??


*maybe let us try focus on A , B ? X

Always B for me until we get to know each other better, then A but never C .

[Barney Rubble]

Ahh , right .

As a preface - I am not talking about your quick-quick-like , slam-bam Bend-over-Sally encounter ,

nor of the ones who’d do Anything for a dollar .

Here I’d be asking about the One Hr Plus meetings . Girls who make themselves available not at a

moment’s notice , but by appointment ; girls who’d be a Destination , and Not a Convenience !


Right . So getting That out of the way :

What would be Your ‘normal’ behavior ?

: you’ve had a bit of a chat , now you’re coming out of your shower , your lady ( likely , preferably ,

possibly ? ) splayed on the bed at attention , awaiting you .. she might rouse for a splendid bit of

passionate kissing .. You will :


A. Take charge , Ravish her ( obviously Consensually )

B. Follow her lead , lay back and enjoy her administering to your needs and pleasure / and to hers




C. Without invitation to do so - Roll yourself into a ball with your ankles next to your ears thereby presenting

your wide-spread cheeks and gaping hole into the face of a girl / woman without any prior discussion ,

into the face of a Person who does Not have any such thing ‘listed’ as a Favorite ?





What is ‘Normal’ behavior ??


*maybe let us try focus on A , B ? X

The cheeky pup !

I'm afraid to ask where he visited before Stephanie !

[mascol]

Ahh , right .

As a preface - I am not talking about your quick-quick-like , slam-bam Bend-over-Sally encounter ,

nor of the ones who’d do Anything for a dollar .

Here I’d be asking about the One Hr Plus meetings . Girls who make themselves available not at a

moment’s notice , but by appointment ; girls who’d be a Destination , and Not a Convenience !


Right . So getting That out of the way :

What would be Your ‘normal’ behavior ?

: you’ve had a bit of a chat , now you’re coming out of your shower , your lady ( likely , preferably ,

possibly ? ) splayed on the bed at attention , awaiting you .. she might rouse for a splendid bit of

passionate kissing .. You will :


A. Take charge , Ravish her ( obviously Consensually )

B. Follow her lead , lay back and enjoy her administering to your needs and pleasure / and to hers




C. Without invitation to do so - Roll yourself into a ball with your ankles next to your ears thereby presenting

your wide-spread cheeks and gaping hole into the face of a girl / woman without any prior discussion ,

into the face of a Person who does Not have any such thing ‘listed’ as a Favorite ?





What is ‘Normal’ behavior ??


*maybe let us try focus on A , B ? X

Normal misbehaviour would generally be dictated by the lady in my case- not dominated just led. I'm her guest after all. The best ladies can seem to read the situation and adjust the pace of the meet making it feel natural and unscripted, but we are all individuals with varied likes and dislikes. But option C... weird, very weird.

Generally I like if she is standing so that I can put my arms around her for a bit. I love just getting my hands all over her and nuzzle into her, kissing around her neck and ears. That warmth and closeness is actually one of my favourite parts of the whole experience and, when that gets rushed on, it kills the mood a bit for me.

Some girls need to understand, mostly younger ones, that I can get an orgasm for myself in about 5 minutes at home if I want to. I'm with you because I'm after something else, something only a partner can offer. It ain't all about the orgasm.

Well said my man, very well said. But standing holding and caressing and as mentioned elsewhere on here, with a mirror nearby is incredibly erotic, simultaneously stimulating all your senses.

Stephanie you say you had seen this guy before, I presume since you had accepted him as a repeat client that he had used approach B and A to date, then suddenly decided to escalate things along some. Sadly I don't know you personally but judging by your postings on here, I'm guessing the date ended rather abruptly, I've been sniggering to myself all afternoon, thanks Steph your tale has made my day.

[IrishSarahBarra]

I hope my last client didn't go home and try to bum his wife with no warning ��

[bmw528]

Always B for me until we get to know each other better, then A but never C .

Sure ye practice C on yerself all of the time , even when your on yer own ye big dirty Fecker.

[IAmLIAm]

I'm in full agreement with the idea of being met standing.

A soft touch on the arms, a warm embrace, a bit of kissing that leads to some gentle groping... All much more intimate and satisfying than jumping right into the "main event".

Personally; I like for the above to then lead into more intimate foreplay, specifically me performing oral on her (which reminds me, I need to check on a poll). I find going down on a lady actually calms my nerves, it's like my version of a zen garden (I think that analogy has been used here before). It allows me to clear my mind and just react to her reactions to me...

...some stuff in the middle...

Then, cuddling. I'm a big fan of the cuddling (especially with some light caressing and a bit of chat). I will extend for the cuddles if need be. I think the postcoital engagement is almost as important as the foreplay for me. It's all the little interactions that make it memorable, and drive the desire to return.

[Blue60]

Wholeheartedly agree with standing up ! I have yet to meet a lady who takes control and sets the agenda, so that you can 'go with the flow'. It would be interesting to go through a booking from start to finish in a way that I would like it to go but I doubt if any lady would be up for/ bothered with a personal take , albeit a paid session.