Older gent

[Moocher]

Yeah I think most providers can keep up their provider facade just fine, most of the time.


But, "touch the nerve", as they say?

Loco!

And, I speculate that working women ESPECIALLY don't like that when they're on the job.

I can only relate my own experiences of course but, hit that nerve, and it can be a "Dr Jekyll and Mr Hyde" type situation for real.

You would not believe the craziness, and quite honestly, the vindictiveness I've had the misfortune to come into contact with.

And the funny thing is, with some providers, you can see it in their eyes, like they're proud of it, or think they're being "extra naughty" or something.

lol

Based on the individual of course they'll have individual experiences but, I think I've mentioned it before;

Being men, it's easy to be naturally skeptical or condemnatory of the client, but let me tell you, some of the "sweetest looking ladies" (again, why I hate photoshop, the damn duplicity of it all).......... yeah, spiteful, underhanded, malicious........ sounds about right.

I would guess that there is an element of both parties going on auto-pilot at a meting and by and large, the lady is the boss of the situation and conflict should just be avoided. where things look like they might go wrong, Leave.Fortunately, personally I have encountered very few difficult situations.

Where I do regularly come across your "touch the nerve" is in pre-booking contact with the escort , the tone of which, is very often at complete odds with the tone of communications at a meeting. If you put a toe wrong , you can get hammered or ignored which is completely out of kilter . Short fuse, comes to mind.

[InsidiousCid]

I would guess that there is an element of both parties going on auto-pilot at a meting and by and large, the lady is the boss of the situation and conflict should just be avoided. where things look like they might go wrong, Leave.Fortunately, personally I have encountered very few difficult situations.

Where I do regularly come across your "touch the nerve" is in pre-booking contact with the escort , the tone of which, is very often at complete odds with the tone of communications at a meeting. If you put a toe wrong , you can get hammered or ignored which is completely out of kilter . Short fuse, comes to mind.

Oh yeah what I meant by "touch the nerve" was, being able to make the provider actually feel aroused, stimulated and be responsive during the sex.

I get the feeling some providers really don't like that, maybe cause they like to keep it strictly business?

That's why I was saying, a providers work is much less complicated when they simply get easier clients, and an older gent that shows up clean, respectful etc., that's probably their ideal setup.

[Moocher]

Oh yeah what I meant by "touch the nerve" was, being able to make the provider actually feel aroused, stimulated and be responsive during the sex.

I get the feeling some providers really don't like that, maybe cause they like to keep it strictly business?

That's why I was saying, a providers work is much less complicated when they simply get easier clients, and an older gent that shows up clean, respectful etc., that's probably their ideal setup.

Then again, that could be just your own personal experience.

If a client is concerned as to whether the escort will get all responsive ,hot and bothered, then he's likely to feel let down most of the time. As long as she seems relaxed and content, I'll settle for that. I'm of an age where thankfully I don't have to be worried about performance.

[jeeves2023]

I’m only getting back to this thread now and it certainly sparked off a good chat. A bit more context, I’m widowed over 5 years, have dated a few times but maybe not ready for a relationship but do miss the physical fun! I’ve been on this site a while but have never plucked up the courage to make a call, though seem to be getting closer to it. I certainly don’t want to party all night but an hour or 2 exploring what I’ve missed would be most enjoyable.

[Thoreau]

I’m only getting back to this thread now and it certainly sparked off a good chat. A bit more context, I’m widowed over 5 years, have dated a few times but maybe not ready for a relationship but do miss the physical fun! I’ve been on this site a while but have never plucked up the courage to make a call, though seem to be getting closer to it. I certainly don’t want to party all night but an hour or 2 exploring what I’ve missed would be most enjoyable.

Go for it Jeeves from a pensioner!!! Wooster would also advise, because any valet worth his salt should be experienced to pass on his knowledge to himself!!!

[Moocher]

I’m only getting back to this thread now and it certainly sparked off a good chat. A bit more context, I’m widowed over 5 years, have dated a few times but maybe not ready for a relationship but do miss the physical fun! I’ve been on this site a while but have never plucked up the courage to make a call, though seem to be getting closer to it. I certainly don’t want to party all night but an hour or 2 exploring what I’ve missed would be most enjoyable.

My advice would be to choose to meet a really nice and professional independent escort , one who is very well reviewed. A difficult first booking would put you back and undermine your confidence. I have the perfect answer for you if you are in Dublin.

[jeeves2023]

I am indeed mooched if you want pm me. I’ll update on my adventures in due course.

[InsidiousCid]

Then again, that could be just your own personal experience.

If a client is concerned as to whether the escort will get all responsive ,hot and bothered, then he's likely to feel let down most of the time.

As long as she seems relaxed and content, I'll settle for that. I'm of an age where thankfully I don't have to be worried about performance.

Yeah not to sound conceited but, I'm not really concerned about whether a provider is going to get hot and bothered.

I KNOW they're gonna get hot and bothered.

It's the response to getting hot and bothered that's more so the consideration.

It can be what's known as "polarizing", kind of a "love you" or "hate you" thing.

I've come through the door sometimes and I can literally see the provider go, "OMG!! Instant horny!".

And then as per my anecdote on the previous page, some providers are like, "Instant horny, but no! No no no! .......... I hate you! Bastard!", lol.

My thinking is, they're on the job and determined to keep it about business?

I had this girl one time, she waited until I paid her to put on a g-string, comes back in the room and lays out on the bed like, "take me!!".
Admittedly I wasn't on my best that day, performance wise, so her been aroused, turned to being crazy..... etc etc. (i.e. the "I love you" turned into "I hate you")

[InsidiousCid]

Then some unfortunate cases are like, pathologically obsessed with being "in control" of their clients, showing them who's in charge.

They're the "Dr Jekyll and Mr Hyde" type deals, the hypocrites, the photoshop queens.

You get that idea.

The anecdotes go on and on.



Just say the word, I'd be happy to go all day.

[MichelleFox]

As a maturer gent (50-60), what are the ladies opinions about the more rounded and hairier type of customer, but clean and respectful.

That they are very welcome and one of the best customers ♥️