Managing your expectations- how often is too often?

**Nononsense111** · 02-03-24, 20:07

Originally Posted by Obbyone

The only eejits are all of us including your good self no offence intended but thats just the way it is.

A big club of eejits so we are

**DamoEI** · 02-03-24, 20:13

I do not see the same girls more than once only because I love meeting new girls and the anticipation of how it might go. I have no doubt I will see some girls a second time soon, some girls I've seen have been just magnificent, but I will always be drawn to those new experiences!

**Paddy739** · 02-03-24, 21:06

Guilty as charged here, seen a girl for years now, we’re like a couple in certain ways, I’ve learned to keep my distance but it’s very easy to get comfy with a girl and into habit. Not only that the safety of knowing where I have to go to get to her (busy street, correct door, working alone) all a big bonus when you’ve a SO at home and not wandering around like a headless chicken on your phone.

**TheFalcon** · 02-03-24, 23:35

Interesting one,

Its possible perhaps a brother/sister type relationship could develop notwithstanding that things started on quite intimate grounds,

I suppose you accept well- your not going to make babies with her - but you could aspire to being her brother,

**irishjp** · 02-03-24, 23:51

I don’t think so.
Never had a relationship with a lady that I or they didn’t think of a sexual at one stage or another.
Don’t get me wrong I have friends that are girls but there’s always that thought.
I’ve been very fond of some of the ladies here. But isn’t that there job.
Yes I have fallen hard at times so am very wary.
Call bs on anyone that says they haven’t.
Note to self don’t drink and text.

**bobbyj** · 03-03-24, 08:42

You want to watch it lads, you could end up in a durable relationship !!

**Harry68** · 03-03-24, 10:56

😂 that net is so wide and vague having a coffee with someone a second time probably counts.

**Harry68** · 03-03-24, 13:55

Update 😂😂😂. I’ve decided to ignore all the eminently sensible advice unfortunately and go “no guts no glory” with something this Tuesday and an early long booking for my upcoming birthday. I could offer a defence for rare recklessness on my part but for time being going to put it down to the joys of spring.

You’re only young(ish) once.

**ford pefect** · 03-03-24, 18:21

I was lucky enough Today to have a bit of time to myself and I visited 3 ladies and I will visit them all again, one has opted out of reviews Emily in Dublin 3 and I don’t know why because she is fantastic.

**Nononsense111** · 03-03-24, 18:22

Originally Posted by ford pefect

I was lucky enough Today to have a bit of time to myself and I visited 3 ladies and I will visit them all again, one has opted out of reviews Emily in Dublin 3 and I don’t know why because she is fantastic.

You've had some Sunday so

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