Meaning of Life

[Harry68]

Playing devils advocate and No disrespect to any escort but I think there are emotional and psychological supports being in a “good” stable and fairly long term relationship with a wife or partner that you will never get from an escort. Nor should you expect them either. It’s difficult to get where you want to be in your life without someone by your side and willing to go to war with you. It’s not all about sex but it’s obviously a huge factor especially as couples age and interest or desire wanes between them.

[TommyH123]

Playing devils advocate and No disrespect to any escort but I think there are emotional and psychological supports being in a “good” stable and fairly long term relationship with a wife or partner that you will never get from an escort. Nor should you expect them either. It’s difficult to get where you want to be in your life without someone by your side and willing to go to war with you. It’s not all about sex but it’s obviously a huge factor especially as couples age and interest or desire wanes between them.

100% agree, an escort should be the missing 5% of your life not the whole show, she’s brings the fun and the fantasy that you naturally lose in a civvie relationship over time.

God help them if they had to listen to all the humdrum day to day moaning that my missus has to put up with🤣

[Untamed]

Future grandbabies and occasions to go to, shared pets, shared wealth, someone to share milder interests like watching telly, someone to do things for, someone to keep you on track, someone who does the things when you're bate, a housemate you don't want to kill so much because they're an extension of you...suffer together/succeed together, someone to holiday with and when you retire, body heat, shared talents...you technology, me snacks, you set alarms, me talk to customer service agents.

Yep, companionship ❤️

[TheFalcon]

I still have not given up on the idea of marrying a former escort, she never asks me do I still visit other providers (I guess she doesnt want to know)

I think at 40 plus and your not married-which is where Im at - I think if she does not marry me- well ill marry someone for companionship and keep seeing providers for the extra thrill and their incredible beauty

to answer your question- the meaning of life- Life is defined by the choices we make- if we make the wrong choices on a 50-50 decision it can have lifelong consequences.

[Harry68]

I'm a gambling man but I'd never enter into anything as serious as marriage on a 50-50 decision. You would want to be far more certain then that of your feelngs for the other person to even consider it.

Act in haste. Repent at leisure.

I think it is an easier decision to marry someone when the likelihood of kids decreases. I think I would find it easier to get married a second time than the first if the other party didn't want (or preferably couldn't have) kids.

Marriage much like life in general is about compromise and accepting up to a point anyway all the things about the other person that drive you crazy.

[IrishSarahBarra]

I think he's been mulling it over for years.

Be indecisive in unhaste. Repent at leisure.

Falcon, your 40 plus, your girlfriend doesn't need to be perfect, she just needs to love you and not be a basket case. Do it.

[TommyH123]

I think he's been mulling it over for years.

Be indecisive in unhaste. Repent at leisure.

Falcon, your 40 plus, your girlfriend doesn't need to be perfect, she just needs to love you and not be a basket case. Do it.

Those two basic requirements alone are setting the bar fairly high these days.

[IrishSarahBarra]

I think he's been mulling it over for years.

Be indecisive in unhaste. Repent at leisure.

Falcon, your 40 plus, your girlfriend doesn't need to be perfect, she just needs to love you and not be a basket case. Do it.

Well Im not married yet- Im less convinced that present partner is marriage material having thought all along she was,

Im not sure escorts and gambling and craic with mates is enough to sustain me,

reckon I will still need companionship ( a womans) particularly in the years ahead

Ok, well, at least 5 months

I'm here for the love stories.

[Harry68]

We’ll agree to differ on this Sarah. If you’ve doubts don’t do it in my view. My brothers wife left someone pretty much at the altar to marry my brother. They’re pretty happy 15 odd years later. Hardly scientific sample and the one drunken time I asked her why she said she wasn’t sure about the guy she jilted.

[FredBiscuits]

Sure after the referendum next week, and some recent high court decisions, there will be no reason to get married.