Nervousness

[MidlifeCrisis]

The more relaxed and friendly the escort seems, the quicker we will be comfortable. It's easy to say "relax and be yourself" but if you can that is what works.

I think the last thing you want to do is talk about a client's nervousness - that would only make it worse.

As someone else said smiles go a long way. Some girls have a gift of chatting and breaking the ice and will find something for us to have a laugh about early on, but if that is not your personality, don't try to force it. If you manage to give the client a feeling that you are happy that he is here, that is probably the most important thing.

From what I remember, Dieve, this is not a set of skills that you need to worry about!

[EdmundStown]

That's a really considerate question.
Just be as natural as possible in demeanor and dont rush things. Maybe take the lead tho in a gently teasing way.

[Palatine]

Mr Sweet Guy. Your moment has come.

[Blue60]

The lady should take the lead, if a fella Is that nervous the meeting will never happen, thinking about it my 1st appointment I was extremely nervous, If it’s his 1st time being with a lady it’s a venture into a whole new world where he doesn’t know the ropes.

Good point. Very few ladies do.

[TommyH123]

I’m always nervous, doesn’t matter if it’s an escort new to me or a reg but it’s more a nervous excitement than anything else, I think it adds to the experience, I find that once the lady gets naked It’s not an issue anyway

[koopa98]

No fake GFE act please and thank you. still got Vietnam flash backs to getting called "daddy" in a put on little girls voice.... think my dick lost a couple Centimetres that day.

Bluntness and being genuine is all I want during a meet, Don't try and pretend it's nothing more than a transaction, but still try to enjoy each others company I have noticed the girls I have seen that haven't done the whole GFE end up being more genuine to talk to before and after.

[thehighwayman]

A smile from the escort when greeting does wonders to ease the nerves. A few minutes chat helps too.

[bigthiefmasterpiece]

A smile and friendly greeting, a little contact like a hand on the shoulder or an arm squeeze. My first ever punt, she did this and it put me at ease straight away. A little normal chat and then ease into things and those nerves just disappear.

[TheFalcon]

For a nervous guy I must acknowledge , tend to not feel nervous or I get over the nerves pretty quickly in the company of the ladies here,

I am almost entirely a massage enthusiast these days, however I am not adverse to the occasional extra naughty,

should I venture for a mainstream visit again- Dieve you will be top of my list! (no we have not met)

[WeeJimmy]

few shots of JD with some Coke, blow the head off ya