Nervousness

[bananabox999]

I was EXTREAMLY nervous, hardly spoke a word, practically shaking

I think best course of action i just dont draw attention to it. Tell me im nervous.... well im going to get more nervous haha.

I still get a little nervous, but not the shakey mute guy i was.

[Atreyou]

Great thread it is. Still have that “thank” button blocked, so i just thank all of yous for that valuable insight.
Good to know i’m not the exception when it comes to nervousness…
Other things which paralyze me is the prospect of being stopped by you know who afterwards and being asked for…literally anything.

[Davina]

I always kiss on the cheek as my guest comes in. Always smile unless you've seriously pissed me off when you come in by just grabbing my tits or arse. You'll be going straight back out the door so I don't care if you're not relaxed. My regs are allowed to give me a squeeze but as a rule they don't. I always have a big smile which is genuine I usually joke about something normally myself. I do tend to take the lead as my new guests are sometimes intimidated by me god knows why. I do a lot of touching before and after running my fingernails gently up and down the chest. If I spot your ticklish you may get tickled little. I listen and I chat as I'm pretty chatty which I do try to rein in as if you're not chatty I will chat shit so much so you cannot wait to leave. Unless I can feel you don't want any closeness then I back off. I like to think I'm funny I crack myself up anyway. Those of you who know me know I've always have a funny story about a mishap that has befallen me.
Hugs and kisses at the door. Maybe a little tap on your butt

[danny1man]

How do nervous punters expect us to ease their nervousness?

■ cuddling and other tender physical contact
■ chatting about their nervousness
■ chatting to distract them
■ jokes and other silly crap
■ massage and other intense physical contact
■ something else

I'm sure it's usually a combination of these, but I want to hear what works for you specifically with a bit more details. I presume the most nervous clients are too nervous to post, but maybe reading this gives them an idea to understand themselves better.

What about nervous escorts?
There's a small forum group, but no activity in it, so I wondered how you deal with it if it arises.

When i started many years ago in the UK i used to be nervous - always booked a mature escort to overcome that. The best ones walked in, grabbed my cock through my trousers and kissed me - after that you just don't look back!

[Davina]

Lmfao I'm going about it all wrong then. I'll have to try it xx

[WellDressed]

I used to get extremely nervous and still do from time to time, I find a nice chat beforehand really takes the edge off. That and getting naked helps, you tend to forget about nerves once you have a beautiful woman nude in front of you, other emotions take over.

[MarkM2020]

I always kiss on the cheek as my guest comes in. Always smile unless you've seriously pissed me off when you come in by just grabbing my tits or arse. You'll be going straight back out the door so I don't care if you're not relaxed. My regs are allowed to give me a squeeze but as a rule they don't. I always have a big smile which is genuine I usually joke about something normally myself. I do tend to take the lead as my new guests are sometimes intimidated by me god knows why. I do a lot of touching before and after running my fingernails gently up and down the chest. If I spot your ticklish you may get tickled little. I listen and I chat as I'm pretty chatty which I do try to rein in as if you're not chatty I will chat shit so much so you cannot wait to leave. Unless I can feel you don't want any closeness then I back off. I like to think I'm funny I crack myself up anyway. Those of you who know me know I've always have a funny story about a mishap that has befallen me.
Hugs and kisses at the door. Maybe a little tap on your butt

I remember the first time seeing you for an overnight. I was pretty nervous, you told me to let myself in and you hid behind the door and jumped out at me.

Done well for the nerves not so much for the heart 😂

[Davina]

I remember the first time seeing you for an overnight. I was pretty nervous, you told me to let myself in and you hid behind the door and jumped out at me.

Done well for the nerves not so much for the heart ��

Haha yes I can be mischievous. Your shock was hysterical you actually jumped and screamed. I’ll have to be careful who I do that too ���� You’ll also never forget chicken popcorn pizza xx

[Davina]

I do have to add tho that Mark isn't a wuss I'm just great at scaring or should that be scarring people

[MarkM2020]

I do have to add tho that Mark isn't a wuss I'm just great at scaring or should that be scarring people

Thank you 🤣🤣🤣