Nervousness

[kwo0504]

For me, a smile, and a warm hug from a lady always does the trick of calming me down to some extent. I'm not a very chatty guy so if a given lady is a chatterbox that just can't stop talking, that calms me down even further. By default I get a little bit anxious about meeting strangers especially from the female side, after visiting escorts for 3 years now that anxiety isn't as strong as it used to be but it's definitely still there. Overall, I think all that anxiety and nervousness comes from the fact that I'm not too good at keeping the conversations going so I'm always worried about not being "a good company". As I said, the more closer a given lady is to a chatterbox, the better for me

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[JustAnotherGuy]

How do nervous punters expect us to ease their nervousness?

■ cuddling and other tender physical contact
■ chatting about their nervousness
■ chatting to distract them
■ jokes and other silly crap
■ massage and other intense physical contact
■ something else

I'm sure it's usually a combination of these, but I want to hear what works for you specifically with a bit more details. I presume the most nervous clients are too nervous to post, but maybe reading this gives them an idea to understand themselves better.

What about nervous escorts?
There's a small forum group, but no activity in it, so I wondered how you deal with it if it arises.

1- Don't get cranky if some honest mistake arise like the client not being able to figure out the address/location easily, like which building/block/door
2- Provide VERY clear instructions to prevent the anxiety of getting there and reducing unwanted attention to a minimum
3- Make him feel wanted and desired, he picked you, make him feel like you also picked him, especially if you advertise GFE
4- Act like you give a damn. For some of them he's just another client and it's purely transactional, even if it is act like it isn't. Everyone have a different reason why they do this, and it's a job, people that succeed at their jobs put their hearts and souls into it and in my opinion this should be no different

[MikeJ36]

I've visited a good few ladies, but still get nervous each time I'm visiting one for the first time because I internally over-analyse things and I don't know how it's going to go.

Some ladies have a lot of rules - like no touching of certain places and in particular no kissing, which is fair enough - their prerogative... but for me, it breaks the illusion and brings the nerves back. Kissing is essential for me, anyway.

Some ladies are almost robotic in how they provide the service - again, that's their prerogative,- and some guys are grand with that, but it does nothing for me. It needs to be a bit more emotional, passionate and believable to put my over-active mind at ease.

In my experience, the more friendly, easy-going and girlfriend-like the lady is, the better... the more natural the experience, the less nervous I'll be & the more likely I'll want to come back again.

[Blue60]

I've visited a good few ladies, but still get nervous each time I'm visiting one for the first time because I internally over-analyse things and I don't know how it's going to go.

Some ladies have a lot of rules - like no touching of certain places and in particular no kissing, which is fair enough - their prerogative... but for me, it breaks the illusion and brings the nerves back. Kissing is essential for me, anyway.

Some ladies are almost robotic in how they provide the service - again, that's their prerogative,- and some guys are grand with that, but it does nothing for me. It needs to be a bit more emotional, passionate and believable to put my over-active mind at ease.

In my experience, the more friendly, easy-going and girlfriend-like the lady is, the better... the more natural the experience, the less nervous I'll be & the more likely I'll want to come back again.

Let's face it , the vast majority of women in civvy street would be more than very uncomfortable with providing escort services. There is always the suspicion that some escorts are also uncomfortable but feel they need to escort for various reasons.Therefore, where the escort acts in a robotic type manner, it signals a negativity to the client and can be very off-putting. When you have met someone like Alice Evans , nothing but positivity and ease flows. I have no doubt whatsoever that this is the major reason for her extraordinary success ( along with her obvious beauty of course ! ).

[Thehappypenls]

Isnt it good to be nervous when we go in ,im always nervous when i start but i build in confidence the longer im there usually if the girl recieves me friendly and chatty i become more comfortable.