Nervousness

[Dieve]

How do nervous punters expect us to ease their nervousness?

■ cuddling and other tender physical contact
■ chatting about their nervousness
■ chatting to distract them
■ jokes and other silly crap
■ massage and other intense physical contact
■ something else

I'm sure it's usually a combination of these, but I want to hear what works for you specifically with a bit more details. I presume the most nervous clients are too nervous to post, but maybe reading this gives them an idea to understand themselves better.

What about nervous escorts?
There's a small forum group, but no activity in it, so I wondered how you deal with it if it arises.

[Blue60]

How do nervous punters expect us to ease their nervousness?

■ cuddling and other tender physical contact
■ chatting about their nervousness
■ chatting to distract them
■ jokes and other silly crap
■ massage and other intense physical contact
■ something else

I'm sure it's usually a combination of these, but I want to hear what works for you specifically with a bit more details. I presume the most nervous clients are too nervous to post, but maybe reading this gives them an idea to understand themselves better.

What about nervous escorts?
There's a small forum group, but no activity in it, so I wondered how you deal with it if it arises.

Very easy.

1. have a quiet discreet incall --good clear directions
2. friendly, easy pre-booking communications
3. Smile and pretend you are happy to see us
3. Wear a pair heels

[TonyB]

How do nervous punters expect us to ease their nervousness?

■ cuddling and other tender physical contact
■ chatting about their nervousness
■ chatting to distract them
■ jokes and other silly crap
■ massage and other intense physical contact
■ something else

I'm sure it's usually a combination of these, but I want to hear what works for you specifically with a bit more details. I presume the most nervous clients are too nervous to post, but maybe reading this gives them an idea to understand themselves better.

What about nervous escorts?
There's a small forum group, but no activity in it, so I wondered how you deal with it if it arises.

Jokes are not silly crap. Lol

Massage would be good, I think.
And a friendly attitude.

If I think a woman is nervous, I'll chat and just be nice and friendly.
Women don't tend to be nervous, not around me, and it's not that I'm anything. I just think women tend to be better in social situations than most men.
A sexist belief perhaps, but seems right to me.

[DamoEI]

"Service with a smile" is basically the first rule of doing business with the public, and for good reason. A smile goes a long, long way to putting customers at ease.

I have only encountered nervous escorts once or twice and I just try to keep things light and friendly, seems to sort it pretty quick.

[Paddy739]

The lady should take the lead, if a fella Is that nervous the meeting will never happen, thinking about it my 1st appointment I was extremely nervous, If it’s his 1st time being with a lady it’s a venture into a whole new world where he doesn’t know the ropes.

[westerner04]

I was incredibly nervous for a long time after I began, and I eventually worked out that it was essentially based on feeling the pressure to perform. Like, the pressure to be the best client she’s ever met!

Ridiculous I know now, but basically I was consumed about being ‘good’. ��

I eventually wised up and focused more on picking ladies who I felt I could connect with personally. The nerves reduced as I realised that I could have a better sexual experience with a woman who I knew I actually liked, and who I felt genuinely liked my company too.

I still get nervous before a visit, but the nerves disappear pretty quickly thankfully.

[Marmitecuff]

How do nervous punters expect us to ease their nervousness?

■ cuddling and other tender physical contact
■ chatting about their nervousness
■ chatting to distract them
■ jokes and other silly crap
■ massage and other intense physical contact
■ something else

I'm sure it's usually a combination of these, but I want to hear what works for you specifically with a bit more details. I presume the most nervous clients are too nervous to post, but maybe reading this gives them an idea to understand themselves better.

What about nervous escorts?
There's a small forum group, but no activity in it, so I wondered how you deal with it if it arises.

Great thread this.

I'm sure we all have a range of different needs, desires and ways of breaking the ice.

Personally speaking I'm not the most confident.

I'm terrible at breaking the ice and in general garbage with my own assertiveness. My first meets, I normally allow the lady to dictate the proceedings, sometimes for the better, sometimes for the worse.

It's quite difficult to gauge what would be best to ease my own nerves. As a general rule of thumb I tend to be near panic mode if a lady seems uninterested from the moment of arrival.

If I notice a smile from her upon greeting me, it allows me to assume she's happy to see me. So I feel slightly more at ease.

If I go through her routine I tend to notice if it helps put her eat ease.

Going with a more natural flow tends to work better with me.

Chatting, smiles, giggles are normally more my comfort zone to initiate comfort.

From that point forward having her physically engaged softly, let's me ease into things easier.

(High maintenance I know)

I don't expect this at all, but if it does happen it just sets a more natural relaxed meet.

[Irelandbeautyyy]

Iam always nervous in my first working day after my break. I feel like i never did it before… but it’s probably more natural then lol. And what does make me less nervous? I start to be confident when you give me a feeling iam the best and there doesn’t exist any other woman untill your leaving. I need to know you like me.

But i have some guys with who iam nervous in every appoitment. But it’s probably some nice excitement. I enjoy it.

If iam nervous in sense something feels wrong inside me. I don’t meet them. The day, when i decided to meet only guys with who i feel alright, it was probably the best day in my work.

[IrishSarahBarra]

Just give me 30 mins to relax and I'm fine then.

[reflex]

How do nervous punters expect us to ease their nervousness?

■ cuddling and other tender physical contact
■ chatting about their nervousness
■ chatting to distract them
■ jokes and other silly crap
■ massage and other intense physical contact
■ something else

I'm sure it's usually a combination of these, but I want to hear what works for you specifically with a bit more details. I presume the most nervous clients are too nervous to post, but maybe reading this gives them an idea to understand themselves better.

What about nervous escorts?
There's a small forum group, but no activity in it, so I wondered how you deal with it if it arises.

- Nice friendly greeting at the door, maybe a hug. (A kiss is optional)
- Have at least a little bit of light in the hallway. Completely dark hallways make some people nervous AF
- Try to smile as much as possible
- Engage in some small talk first and not just straight to business. Ask about their day, etc..
- Don't stand like 10 feet away
- General friendly attitude

Those usually helps calm my nerves