Nervousness

[Harry68]

Great to see practical jokes alive and well. I’m a huge fan .

[Dieve]

[IAmLIAm]

Just give me 30 mins to relax and I'm fine then.

I know there are guys who like to book 30min for first visits, but this is why I would never book for less than an hour (I'm an idiot with nerves at first, I need those 30min too). I don't think I'm outwardly nervous (shaking or sweating or anything) but I do get in my head and become shy and quiet even though we've just been texting or chatting. Even in social settings I tend to hang back and listen/observe for a while before I engage.

On my first "proper" escort visit, after emerging from the shower... a hug, a kiss, she disrobes and climbs atop the bed. I put my towel away and the words that come out of my mouth are "what should we do now?" 🤦 Seriously, what the fuck brain?

She replied with "Algebra homework.". We had a good laugh then spent the rest of the time finding ways to turn 2 into 1 (second visit went a bit better {I think 🙃}).

As others have stated; a warm smile, soft touch and comforting words go a long way. Quick wit and a sexy, naked, blue haired, (current ethnicity) goddess goes even further.

Great thread it is. Still have that “thank” button blocked, so i just thank all of yous for that valuable insight.
Good to know i’m not the exception when it comes to nervousness…
Other things which paralyze me is the prospect of being stopped by you know who afterwards and being asked for…literally anything.

3 more posts for the "thanks"

[Larrii]

Nervous excitement maybe, but no need to be nervous-nervous.

Why nervous, because a total stranger is about to play with your wiggly bits?

At the end of the day, you're making a visit to be entertained. It's her gig, her gaff, it usually works out grand, nothing
to be nervous about.

[Obbyone]

One and a half hours minimum two hours most times.

[Averageatbest93]

Obviously having a pleasant and friendly demeanor is the easiest way to break the initial nervousness , bit of small talk about whatever to settle the nerves. Extreme nervousness is usually based around some form of performance anxiety - the build up to physical intimacy - easiest way to dispel that is to start off with casual touches first. Can be hard if if it's just sit on the bed and let's get going.

One thing that has always helped me was when ladies helped me undress. You get that first initial closeness, maybe some kissing etc , stroking of the arms etc - basically it's a great icebreaker - even if it's just undressing before going for a shower it always really put me at ease and then all nervousness was gone when I came back to get down to business, that initial contact is great for settling the nerves.

Funny you are the one to make this thread Dieve since you are the master already , I remember our first meet after undressing and heading for a shower you gave me a serious smack on the arse as I was heading for the bathroom, I knew straight away I was in for a good meet and the nerves were gone 😂

[danny1man]

Lmfao I'm going about it all wrong then. I'll have to try it xx

I wouldnt say that after meeting you a few times

[Noregrets]

A nice kiss in arrival and if possible holding my arm.as we walk to the bedroom/ bathroom. Just tender touching before a shower, and afterwards a kiss and cuddle to start with

[IrishJohnSmyth]

a relaxed and professional manner works well

[Moocher]

Question for the guys . Purely from the client side only, on a scale of 1-10 ( 1 being difficult /a lot of work for the escort, 10 being very easy/undemanding for the escort), where do you rate how easy/difficult you feel the escort will find you to please and have a good time with you ?