mutual respect

[oldfool]

Recently i tried to book an appointment. The lady ony works via text and so i answered her questions truthfully including age.
She agreed and confirmed time. It was an early morning meet but when i got up that morning she had cancelled, with no reason given
even after i requested one.
Same lady returned to area and again i tried. NO RESPONSE at all despite me suggesting different times on three occassions.

My points are
1. if she wants to work via text she should reply. I waited for one and missed a chance to visit another girl
2. if age is an issue, just say it. We oldies get it

By behaving in this way it may have saved me a few euro, but i missed the chance to meet an alternative. Not fair on me or the alternative
as i wont double book

[Harry68]

I’ve never been asked my age by an escort or masseuse. I think it’s a pretty disrespectful question to be honest. If they have an age limit it should be stated in their profile to avoid having you waste your time if you are outside those parameters.

I’m old(ish). Im not dead. Things work most of the time. Most ladies I hope don’t mind one’s age as long as you are a reasonable caller in terms of hygiene and attitude.

I’d say you met an outlier and probably the non meet was a good thing.

[AmorInfinito8]

Recently i tried to book an appointment. The lady ony works via text and so i answered her questions truthfully including age.
She agreed and confirmed time. It was an early morning meet but when i got up that morning she had cancelled, with no reason given
even after i requested one.
Same lady returned to area and again i tried. NO RESPONSE at all despite me suggesting different times on three occassions.

My points are
1. if she wants to work via text she should reply. I waited for one and missed a chance to visit another girl
2. if age is an issue, just say it. We oldies get it

By behaving in this way it may have saved me a few euro, but i missed the chance to meet an alternative. Not fair on me or the alternative
as i wont double book

Not very good for your self esteem I'm sure!!
Very unprofessional so you've probably dodged a bullet

Mark it up to experience, you'll have better luck next time 😉

If it's any consolation a lot of girls have told me they prefer older men, less hassle and know how to be a gentlemen

Although they make exception for younger good-looking me 😄😆😂

Not as young as I was or would like to be!!
nor as good-looking ☹️🤫

[Davina]

Why couldn’t you get an alternative?
We don’t actually have to give a cancellation reason nor do you. Would you believe it anyway?
I’ve had to cancel at really short notice as there has been a crisis with water washing machines blocked drains all sorts landlord’s everything

It could be something totally beyond her control. I would only message and possibly only in the morning I’m sure you wouldn’t appreciate contact at awkward hours when you’re in bed with a partner. We have to make judgement calls that’s al

[jessicabp]

When I worked in Dublin I cancaled many bookings cases of boiler. It was super annoying.

On this week I needed to cancel appointments more times, the first time was a last min cancellation, the client was here already. Luckily he could see I need to cancel for his discretion and a little bit later he could come back.

Yesterday was a nightmare day, from nowhere 8 workers at my entrance ( ground floor apt ) and they closed the all str and even
opened the asphalt and changed something under the road.
I am sure one of the client didn’t believe why I can’t take him. But it’s not my fault I lost almost the all day.

About the texts, I am working on this way, I can organise my bookings 100 times better and I am sure I don’t do double bookings or I don’t forget a booking but when I go in a new place it’s impossible to answer every text. & 4-5h later I don’t want to answer because I can’t know who is married and who is not.

[AmorInfinito8]

Why couldn’t you get an alternative?
We don’t actually have to give a cancellation reason nor do you. Would you believe it anyway?
I’ve had to cancel at really short notice as there has been a crisis with water washing machines blocked drains all sorts landlord’s everything

It could be something totally beyond her control. I would only message and possibly only in the morning I’m sure you wouldn’t appreciate contact at awkward hours when you’re in bed with a partner. We have to make judgement calls that’s al

When I worked in Dublin I cancaled many bookings cases of boiler. It was super annoying.

On this week I needed to cancel appointments more times, the first time was a last min cancellation, the client was here already. Luckily he could see I need to cancel for his discretion and a little bit later he could come back.

Yesterday was a nightmare day, from nowhere 8 workers at my entrance ( ground floor apt ) and they closed the all str and even
opened the asphalt and changed something under the road.
I am sure one of the client didn’t believe why I can’t take him. But it’s not my fault I lost almost the all day.

About the texts, I am working on this way, I can organise my bookings 100 times better and I am sure I don’t do double bookings or I don’t forget a booking but when I go in a new place it’s impossible to answer every text. & 4-5h later I don’t want to answer because I can’t know who is married and who is not.

Possibly put in response to initial text

Is it safe to text at any given time if required

I've noticed in the past some girls use a template for first time responding
Favourites/Extras etc so if this was added at the end it would be up to individual clients to advise if it was ok to contact them or not?

most guys will have either two phones, hidden app or your number saved discreetly and on silent mode as a safe guard

Just a suggestion

[jessicabp]

Most of clients are not registered here and don’t use 2nd phone, I see the family pics on the Watsup

Possibly put in response to initial text

Is it safe to text at any given time if required

I've noticed in the past some girls use a template for first time responding
Favourites/Extras etc so if this was added at the end it would be up to individual clients to advise if it was ok to contact them or not?

most guys will have either two phones, hidden app or your number saved discreetly and on silent mode as a safe guard

Just a suggestion

[AmorInfinito8]

Most of clients are not registered here and don’t use 2nd phone, I see the family pics on the Watsup

I understand but it shouldn't matter if they are registered or not
I'm not sure if you use a template!?
but adding

Is it safe to text before appointment if required

at least you know if something out of control crops up you could advise them and possibly make alternative arrangements?

This doesn't really come into consideration with me being single
girls know they can contact me anytime whether we are due to meet or not

[jessicabp]

Always we have to answer around the appointment, this is not a question.

I am not answering when we don’t have appointment and I am busy for hours and I don’t find for discreet to answer.

I understand but it shouldn't matter if they are registered or not
I'm not sure if you use a template!?
but adding

Is it safe to text before appointment if required

at least you know if something out of control crops up you could advise them and possibly make alternative arrangements?

This doesn't really come into consideration with me being single
girls know they can contact me anytime whether we are due to meet or not

[reflex]

I don't mind when a lady has to cancel and they let you know. Shit happens, I can understand.

What I do mind is when they ghost you. You confirm an hour or whatever before the appointment as requested and then you don't hear anything back. No reply to say they have to cancel or reschedule, just completely ignore you.

Twice this has happened to me in the past week. Second lady in particular has almost 200 glowing positive reviews so I thought she'd be more professional. I already started driving to her place after I sent the confirmation text. 40 - 50 minutes later still heard nothing back so I just cut my losses and turned the car around