Review system - again

[Bruce 4play]

So I fell for another bait and switch today. My fault for going to someone with 2 reviews. Tried to review it, but the review is suspended because I went through with it even the person didn't look like the one advertising.

So the issue is this: I get that you can't review the girl if that wasn't the person you met, hardly fair on the person in the photos. The thing is, not allowing a review means that nobody else gets warned about the fact that that person isn't real. So everyone else gets to make the same mistake, again and again. If we can't review a false advertiser, then is there a system in place to help let others know that that profile has fake photos or is misrepresenting entirely who the person is? If you decide to go through the meet anyway, coz hey, you've just travelled so far/are so horny/have waited so long/insert reason here/etc, then you should at least be able to flag that the person wasn't the one advertising, so that way others know there is A person there, but just not the one they're expecting. After a certain amount of flags are given to a given SP, everyone would at least know the deal.

Simple rule, if she's not as advertised then walk....

If your small head over rules then be it at your own risk.
Don't report the pics, the website will do nothing.
Rate the pics 1 star in the review, people can read.

Finally, do not bad mouth her on the forum, that will null and void your review.....if posted.

[IrishSarahBarra]

This is such a man thing.

I can't imagine in any world getting to a door where the guy I meet isn't the guy I've been messaging and I think - well feck it, I'll complain hard about it later but right now I want to put my vagina in him and give him some money.

[TheHappyPenguin]

Yeah, well the preparation that goes into this kind of thing is sometimes not easy to just ignore. If you've made phone calls, washed and groomed, went to get cash out of an ATM, driven for upwards of an hour (and have another hour back again afterwards), possibly taken time off work or made excuses for it, and basically set your day up around having this meet, then by the time you get there the idea of walking away sucks. Pretty much the same as going to a barber only to find the person you booked to cut your hair suddenly isn't available and you're being handed off to someone else you know nothing about. Do you just up and leave? Or take a risk and get your hair cut? If you do and it turns out you were given the trainee, yeah, you'd be pissed off too, as "haircuts" can be expensive.

Anyway, it's not so much about the switch I'm "complaining hard about", it's the fact I can't report it and the next guy gets the same treatment, also gets pissed off, and ultimately leads to less trust in the website and photos. As an SP yourself, I'm sure you can see the harm in that to your own business?

[PhilPhilPhil]

This is such a man thing.

I can't imagine in any world getting to a door where the guy I meet isn't the guy I've been messaging and I think - well feck it, I'll complain hard about it later but right now I want to put my vagina in him and give him some money.

I laughed and yet it also sounds very hot!

[Thoreau]

This is such a man thing.

I can't imagine in any world getting to a door where the guy I meet isn't the guy I've been messaging and I think - well feck it, I'll complain hard about it later but right now I want to put my vagina in him and give him some money.

Oh bollocks - cat flew out the window at my reaction - trust you ISB - has to be the next POTM!!!!!

[IrishSarahBarra]

So the problem really was that it was a bad appointment and not that it wasn't the person? (Like if it wasn't the hairdresser you wanted but if it was a great cut you'd be happy.)

I suppose there was this one time, the only time I think of a situation coming close...

(And, it's probably still a man thing really because I've been in yer horny fantasy world adopting traits. Happily because you guys are naturally funny and horny and life can be boring. You know? I have to find horny Sarah or else go be in an office 9 to 5.)

I drove to innishannon, a 3/4 hour chunk out of my day no matter how I look at it, met him at some garage and followed him back to his house.

He was stupified (I don't know how he thought things would pan out) > He told me that he didn't think I was real and that he didn't have any money, he thought he'd been messaging a fake profile.

In my head, I was thinking - ffs, I washed my hair for this. I was livid. Told him that I'm here now, I'll take a lick out.

He was obviously horny and kept begging to have sex and climb a little further up me.

I kept pushing him down and getting licked until I came.

He offered that he might have some money in his wallet to give me. I think it was a hundred? I ripped in into little pieces and blew it all over him.

Off I went happy out thinking of him at home with his roll of sellotape and a horn.

We stayed in contact
Lemons, lemonade. It could have been different. It did make me change how I work because I won't have another situation like that, it's only good the one time.

I suppose it's not at all similar to your situation because I had the option to make it a good experience for me and to just move forward acting differently. Whereas, you could only end up with a negative outcome unless the appointment was good. You'd feel negative if you had left, and you'd still feel negative if you'd have been able to leave a review about it.

[oldguy]

Oh bollocks - cat flew out the window at my reaction - trust you ISB - has to be the next POTM!!!!!

So the problem really was that it was a bad appointment and not that it wasn't the person? (Like if it wasn't the hairdresser you wanted but if it was a great cut you'd be happy.)

I suppose there was this one time, the only time I think of a situation coming close...

(And, it's probably still a man thing really because I've been in yer horny fantasy world adopting traits. Happily because you guys are naturally funny and horny and life can be boring. You know? I have to find horny Sarah or else go be in an office 9 to 5.)

I drove to innishannon, a 3/4 hour chunk out of my day no matter how I look at it, met him at some garage and followed him back to his house.

He was stupified (I don't know how he thought things would pan out) > He told me that he didn't think I was real and that he didn't have any money, he thought he'd been messaging a fake profile.

In my head, I was thinking - ffs, I washed my hair for this. I was livid. Told him that I'm here now, I'll take a lick out.

He was obviously horny and kept begging to have sex and climb a little further up me.

I kept pushing him down and getting licked until I came.

He offered that he might have some money in his wallet to give me. I think it was a hundred? I ripped in into little pieces and blew it all over him.

Off I went happy out thinking of him at home with his roll of sellotape and a horn.

We stayed in contact
Lemons, lemonade. It could have been different. It did make me change how I work because I won't have another situation like that, it's only good the one time.

I suppose it's not at all similar to your situation because I had the option to make it a good experience for me and to just move forward acting differently. Whereas, you could only end up with a negative outcome unless the appointment was good. You'd feel negative if you had left, and you'd still feel negative if you'd have been able to leave a review about it.

Well, if the last post was not POTM this one certainly is!

[TheHappyPenguin]

So the problem really was that it was a bad appointment and not that it wasn't the person? (Like if it wasn't the hairdresser you wanted but if it was a great cut you'd be happy.)

I suppose it's not at all similar to your situation because I had the option to make it a good experience for me and to just move forward acting differently. Whereas, you could only end up with a negative outcome unless the appointment was good. You'd feel negative if you had left, and you'd still feel negative if you'd have been able to leave a review about it.

Well that's just it, I was the one who got scammed, I tried to make the best of it in the hope it would turn out okay, had a bad experience anyway, and now can't warn others.

Basically if the hairdresser I wanted came recommended, that's the reason I booked them - I was expecting a good experience based on that recommendation. After giving up half my day for it, I didn't walk away on the off chance it was still good. I wouldn't have reviewed if it was good though, as it was for a different person and that wouldn't be fair either. But on the flipside, I also can't tell others it was a bait and switch.

I tried to tell others that not only is it not the person, the person who was there isn't good at what she does either. Now none of that info is available to others. Ah well, we live and learn. Like I said, my own fault for going to someone with just 2 reveiws (even if both were positive), lesson learned.

[Palatine]

Why can you not just give a 1 star accuracy of photos review?

[IrishSarahBarra]

As an SP yourself, I'm sure you can see the harm in that to your own business?

If I gently put it to you that the system as it is is what protects non-bait and switching advertisers from the bait and switchers?

If you can only review bait and switchers if you haven't gone through with the appointment, it might make you less likely to risk the appointment with any at all?

Though, I do think there should be the message on stories or somewhere to let clients know more clearly that the rule is not to dip the bait and switch if you want the option to negatively review.