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    I allways wondered how you like the girl to proceed, I am not shy to offer or to give but i am shy to ask.

    Do you like to be asked to leave a review or is bettet that girl leave it on your will?

    I have 2 years in ireland and maybe i would have had more reviews if i was asking for them, of course i am happy and i appreciate when i recieve a review and also like to be surprised, i remember once last year i was very close to win escort of the month being the most reviewed of the month but not enough to win, maybe becouse i didnt force it and all the reviews was recieved by surprise and on peoples will without me to ask.

    Some people dont leave review without being asked and some ask me if i want them to leave a review or if they are allowed to,but still i dont think i will be able to ask for it, of course i dont think any girl will get mad or upset if see good reviews about her thats why they have reviews open.
    What are the factors that makes you leave a review without being asked for?
    And there is something else that wanted to ask, why some of the guys give so many details in the review as how many orgasms they had or how deep was the kiss or where was the finish is kinda awkard to read such review.
    Have a good weekend! You get to know me better with such writing and also i hope i did not offend anybody is something in my head since long time.
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    Quote Originally Posted by EllaBella View Post
    I allways wondered how you like the girl to proceed, I am not shy to offer or to give but i am shy to ask.

    Do you like to be asked to leave a review or is bettet that girl leave it on your will?

    I have 2 years in ireland and maybe i would have had more reviews if i was asking for them, of course i am happy and i appreciate when i recieve a review and also like to be surprised, i remember once last year i was very close to win escort of the month being the most reviewed of the month but not enough to win, maybe becouse i didnt force it and all the reviews was recieved by surprise and on peoples will without me to ask.

    Some people dont leave review without being asked and some ask me if i want them to leave a review or if they are allowed to,but still i dont think i will be able to ask for it, of course i dont think any girl will get mad or upset if see good reviews about her thats why they have reviews open.
    What are the factors that makes you leave a review without being asked for?
    And there is something else that wanted to ask, why some of the guys give so many details in the review as how many orgasms they had or how deep was the kiss or where was the finish is kinda awkard to read such review.
    Have a good weekend! You get to know me better with such writing and also i hope i did not offend anybody is something in my head since long time.
    Hi Ella Bella...please come back to Dublin soon, I really wanna meet you...

    So I always ask, would you like me to leave a review for you, only if the meeting was good of course, if it wasn't I just say thank you and leave.

    Personally, I don't really go into great detail about the meeting, just a general stuff.

    So there's my 2 cents...

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    Good to see you posting Ella.

    I presume that at the end of a meeting , you will have a good understanding as to whether the client really enjoyed himself. if the answer is yes, then I don't think there is any problem whatsoever in asking the client to leave a review. Perhaps you might instead send him a text afterwards stating that you enjoyed meeting him and asking would he leave a review. Nothing wrong with that all.

    When a client leaves a really good meeting, he is on cloud9. That is the time to get him, he will do what you want. This is the window. Once 24 hours passes, he just might not bother.

    If the meeting does not go well, then don't ask. I had a booking recently which was absolutely terrible, the escort must have known that I was uncomfortable but it didn't stop her from asking for a review and to see me again. She must have been on another planet, maybe the moon in IrishSarahBarra's post !

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    Some girls ask, some don’t. As long as they’re not too forceful about it, I don’t mind at all when they ask.

    Saying something like “If you enjoyed your time with me, I would really appreciate it if you can leave me a review” is perfectly fine imo 😊

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    The second escort I ever saw through here I saw 6 or 7 times before she left to go home. She had maybe 40 or 50 reviews when I started seeing her and a year later was into the low 70s. I never left a review for her. I don't know exactly why - a combination of shyness and trying (in my mind anyway) to be a gentleman. She told me about 3 or 4 weeks before that date that she would be going and I think I saw her maybe twice in that. The last time as I was saying my goodbyes I could see she was annoyed about something and she asked why I had never left a review for her. I was pretty thrown to be honest. I mumbled something about she had so many great reviews why did she need another but she basically said every good review was important and she didn't mind multiple reviews from the same person either. She actually said she was insulted I hadn't bothered to write one. Even a few lines would have been good.

    After that I decided I would review everyone I met unless the experience was a negative one (with a few exceptions). Unless I have been actively deceived or the experience was terrible I do not write negative reviews. There are 3 or 4 well reviewed ladies that I have visited that I didn't have a particularly good time but I haven't left a poor review for a number of reasons - firstly people aren't machines and if someone has 40 good reviews the issue is more likely to be me than them as my visits tend to be to lovely petite Asian ladies (and my male model days are a bit behind me). Secondly the reasons are sometimes obvious and understandable - too tired to be working being one I have had twice. One time someone was obviously sick (someone entertaining with a cold wasn't what I wanted for example). Finally I'm not going to jeopardise someone's fraught livelihood over what at the end of the day is my discretionary spend that if I didn't spend on a visit I could just as easily put on the 4.40 at Kempton.

    I see mainly Non English native speakers but I do get asked to review I would say 1 in 3 times mainly be message or Watsapp after. The few English speakers ask - On a second visit to someone she got highly vexed I didn't leave a review the first time but I had just missed the week deadline as I was away. I also view the reviews as a little diary for myself so sometimes I can remember the lovely sunny day I saw "X" by just looking at the date of a review.

    I think its fine to ask especially given the importance of good word of mouth and also the fact that so few callers proprtionally do review.

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    I never mind being asked at the end of visit - the first time I meet someone I will almost always review anyway - but I don't see anything rude about asking.

    For subsequent visits, if I have not reviewed them for a while I would usually ask if they would like me to post a repeat one - some girls don't like many reviews from the same person.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Moocher View Post
    Good to see you posting Ella.

    I presume that at the end of a meeting , you will have a good understanding as to whether the client really enjoyed himself. if the answer is yes, then I don't think there is any problem whatsoever in asking the client to leave a review. Perhaps you might instead send him a text afterwards stating that you enjoyed meeting him and asking would he leave a review. Nothing wrong with that all.

    When a client leaves a really good meeting, he is on cloud9. That is the time to get him, he will do what you want. This is the window. Once 24 hours passes, he just might not bother.

    If the meeting does not go well, then don't ask. I had a booking recently which was absolutely terrible, the escort must have known that I was uncomfortable but it didn't stop her from asking for a review and to see me again. She must have been on another planet, maybe the moon in IrishSarahBarra's post !
    Under no circumstances send unsolicited texts afterwards.
    Certainly ask before he leaves and if he texts you first or indicates hes ok receiveing texts then its ok to do so.

    Personally i don't review, but i also dont mind texts as im single.
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    You should ask if you want one. Anyone who has a problem with it isn't interested in you. Anyone who is interested in you won't have a problem with it.

    "Please review" isn't enquiring into their business, it's just a request.
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    I have no problem being asked for a review, but I would probably write a review anyway if you ask me or not. I dunno how people who don't like writing reviews would feel.

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    Ok, i am not brave enough to ask, as i see in your answers, i did wrong for not asking, thank you very much i do appreciate.
    Well i invite with this ocasion everybody to review me if they met me someday or they will meet me in the future hihi
    Last edited by EllaBella; 17-02-24 at 16:49.
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