To ask or not?

[Averageatbest93]

Personally, I have never asked for reviews. My strictly personal opinion is that it doesn't matter if you have 10 reviews or 500. What matters is that they are positive. And u have plenty of positive reviews so if I would be you I would not bother, honestly .

Regarding explicit reviews versus discreet ones, I believe it all comes down to the education of the reviewer. A gentleman with good manners will never delve into intimate details; they will consider it private and intimate. Those who are more descriptive, I consider them lacking respect towards the respective escort because, with a bit of common sense, you know that women, in general, are not pleased when a man gives intimate and private details about their time together in bed. You can express in elegant and respectful words that you had an excellent experience without describing her body piece by piece and every move she made, turning it into a pornographic novel. I find it ugly, in poor taste, and cheap to be extremely explicit; it only shows a lack of education and low class.

Some ladies deliberately ask for explicit reviews , if they are catering to certain kinks and fetish's they want people to know these are on offer. Suggesting a punter who leaves a explicit review is stupid and low class is probably one of the most narrow-minded things I have ever read on here and that is saying something.

[Averageatbest93]

I allways wondered how you like the girl to proceed, I am not shy to offer or to give but i am shy to ask.

Do you like to be asked to leave a review or is bettet that girl leave it on your will?

I have 2 years in ireland and maybe i would have had more reviews if i was asking for them, of course i am happy and i appreciate when i recieve a review and also like to be surprised, i remember once last year i was very close to win escort of the month being the most reviewed of the month but not enough to win, maybe becouse i didnt force it and all the reviews was recieved by surprise and on peoples will without me to ask.

Some people dont leave review without being asked and some ask me if i want them to leave a review or if they are allowed to,but still i dont think i will be able to ask for it, of course i dont think any girl will get mad or upset if see good reviews about her thats why they have reviews open.
What are the factors that makes you leave a review without being asked for?
And there is something else that wanted to ask, why some of the guys give so many details in the review as how many orgasms they had or how deep was the kiss or where was the finish is kinda awkard to read such review.
Have a good weekend! You get to know me better with such writing and also i hope i did not offend anybody is something in my head since long time.

Don't be afraid to ask! Every lady is different, some care about reviews some don't seem to be bothered. Same with punters , but if someone's just had a nice time with you and you ask to leave a review I'm sure most will only be too happy to help.

Some will leave reviews with being asked if they've genuinely had a nice time and think you deserve it. Others will always leave a review because it helps them keep score or to inflate their ego. I generally only see well established ladies at this point who have lots of reviews already and if it's just an 'average' meet I wont bother to leave a review. But if it's a good meet where they really engage and make an effort and have a nice personality then il leave a review.

I always find it amusing that some ladies are a bit prudish when it comes to a review. That's how reviews work , you describe your experience no matter what you are reviewing. This was a topic before, reviews are supposed to be an indicator by punters for other punters to let them know if the lady in question is worth going to see and if her advertised favorites were available and performed well. Admittedly some people do go into maybe a little too much detail but that's part of the game.

As an advertiser , depending on your goals of course , you should encourage more detailed reviews. From a punters perspective if I'm reading reviews of a lady in considering going to see , and I'm reading things like 'Very passionate FK! her OWO was out of this world! Etc it's much more likely to sway me to go for a visit than things like 'She was very nice what happened between us will remain a secret' kind of bullshit non reviews. They do nothing for you as a provider and nothing for other punters.

Every lady is different though which goes back to the original point , don't be afraid to ask for reviews , and whatever your preference for a type of review is it gives you an option to mention that also. Some ladies have asked me to leave explicit reviews , others have said they prefer if I keep the details out and I'm always happy to oblige whatever the ladies wishes are , but if you don't say , then your customers won't know!

[beautyaddict]

Not read thread , I do not like being asked to review , its difficult if your asked knowing your not going to .

[Harry68]

Once, I encountered a reviewer whose reviews disgusted me to the point of revulsion

Hard cases make bad laws as the saying goes and this type of vile review is almost non existent.

I do find some reviews that veer into what you describe off putting but then.I don’t know whether the profile are explicit or not. I’ve only visited one person who allowed explicit reviews. I may have been more detailed than usual but who knows.

A certain level of detail is good and welcome I think but it doesn’t need to be cut rate self published erotica either. We should all have an idea of the terminology that describes the basics without going into what part went where and when.

I also think it’s reasonable for a caller to say that advertised “service x” was not provided. The provider has the right of reply and final word and given some of the beatdowns I have seen it can be powerful. The right of reply I recognise may be difficult for someone with poor English or who may not even have seen the review in question.

Courts all over the world have struggled with defining “obscene” and “explicit”. I don’t think it will be solved here either.

[Thoreau]

Don't be afraid to ask! Every lady is different, some care about reviews some don't seem to be bothered. Same with punters , but if someone's just had a nice time with you and you ask to leave a review I'm sure most will only be too happy to help.

Some will leave reviews with being asked if they've genuinely had a nice time and think you deserve it. Others will always leave a review because it helps them keep score or to inflate their ego. I generally only see well established ladies at this point who have lots of reviews already and if it's just an 'average' meet I wont bother to leave a review. But if it's a good meet where they really engage and make an effort and have a nice personality then il leave a review.

I always find it amusing that some ladies are a bit prudish when it comes to a review. That's how reviews work , you describe your experience no matter what you are reviewing. This was a topic before, reviews are supposed to be an indicator by punters for other punters to let them know if the lady in question is worth going to see and if her advertised favorites were available and performed well. Admittedly some people do go into maybe a little too much detail but that's part of the game.

As an advertiser , depending on your goals of course , you should encourage more detailed reviews. From a punters perspective if I'm reading reviews of a lady in considering going to see , and I'm reading things like 'Very passionate FK! her OWO was out of this world! Etc it's much more likely to sway me to go for a visit than things like 'She was very nice what happened between us will remain a secret' kind of bullshit non reviews. They do nothing for you as a provider and nothing for other punters.

Every lady is different though which goes back to the original point , don't be afraid to ask for reviews , and whatever your preference for a type of review is it gives you an option to mention that also. Some ladies have asked me to leave explicit reviews , others have said they prefer if I keep the details out and I'm always happy to oblige whatever the ladies wishes are , but if you don't say , then your customers won't know!

This detailed viewpoint captures everything about the system review process in my opinion and won't bother reading anything else on this emotive topic from all sides - enough said!

[rockonallnite]

I allways wondered how you like the girl to proceed, I am not shy to offer or to give but i am shy to ask.

Do you like to be asked to leave a review or is bettet that girl leave it on your will?

I have 2 years in ireland and maybe i would have had more reviews if i was asking for them, of course i am happy and i appreciate when i recieve a review and also like to be surprised, i remember once last year i was very close to win escort of the month being the most reviewed of the month but not enough to win, maybe becouse i didnt force it and all the reviews was recieved by surprise and on peoples will without me to ask.

Some people dont leave review without being asked and some ask me if i want them to leave a review or if they are allowed to,but still i dont think i will be able to ask for it, of course i dont think any girl will get mad or upset if see good reviews about her thats why they have reviews open.
What are the factors that makes you leave a review without being asked for?
And there is something else that wanted to ask, why some of the guys give so many details in the review as how many orgasms they had or how deep was the kiss or where was the finish is kinda awkard to read such review.
Have a good weekend! You get to know me better with such writing and also i hope i did not offend anybody is something in my head since long time.

Hi Ella:

I think you need to do whatever it takes to increase visits, (stories, intereacting in the forum, or ask for reviews)
Not many clients leave reviews, but there is no harm in descretly asking at the end of the meeting. "Would you consider leaving a review? Feedback is very important to me to improve my services "

Reviews are the cornerstone of this business. A happy customer is a returning customer. Lots of punters choose to visit a girl based on her reviews and services provided, not just on how good she looks. You can ask not to be explicit, mods will edit the review in case they are too descriptive anyway, so don't worry.

Just be aware many clients will not review even if you ask them, and has nothing to do with your service, it's got to do with their privacy. Discretion is a must in this business.

I always leave a review when meeting a girl for the first time, unless it was a below par meeting, i dont leave a review in that case and I don't bother to visit again. If the meeting was a no service or bad service ( which rarely happens) I would warn others.


If you are meeting a client for the first time, and you provided the best service you could, that will increase the chances of him leaving a positive review, but make sure to remind him just at the end of the meeting and don't send him any unsolicited texts after the meeting.

Hope it helps. Good luck

[FetishCherry]

Some ladies deliberately ask for explicit reviews , if they are catering to certain kinks and fetish's they want people to know these are on offer. Suggesting a punter who leaves a explicit review is stupid and low class is probably one of the most narrow-minded things I have ever read on here and that is saying something.

I appreciate your perspective, but I still maintain my belief that leaving explicit reviews may not reflect positively on someone's character. For me, it's not about being narrow-minded; it's more about respecting privacy and choosing more refined language to describe the experience. We all have our own standards, and I prefer to uphold mine. Wishing you a wonderful day ahead ��P.S and btw I didnt called the punters who leave explicit reviews stupid. Thanks

[Averageatbest93]

I appreciate your perspective, but I still maintain my belief that leaving explicit reviews may not reflect positively on someone's character. For me, it's not about being narrow-minded; it's more about respecting privacy and choosing more refined language to describe the experience. We all have our own standards, and I prefer to uphold mine. Wishing you a wonderful day ahead ��P.S and btw I didnt called the punters who leave explicit reviews stupid. Thanks

Certainly some reviews go a bit over the top but explicit does not always mean vulgar in the sense you are implying it here. As mentioned each to their own, I wouldn't be looking down my nose at either ladies who encourage explicit reviews or punters who provide them , again some might be in poor taste in terms of the language used but again that's vulgarity as opposed to explicitness.

You said punters who leave explicit reviews show a lack of education - implies stupidity, particularly in line with calling them low class also. But we can agree to disagree I just think it's in poor taste to brand punters who leave explicit reviews - as mentioned some ladies actively encourage clients to do so - as low class etc

[Mr Cuddles]

Oh no that's no good.
There is a change here and the new moderators are much better.
I think you should consider contributing again

Sorry, I haven't made myself clear, I was referring the new law making it a criminal offence to pay

[bananabox999]

I wouldnt mind being asked.

I review to say thanks really, i suck at expressing myself in person.

A text after the appointment? Me, i wouldnt mind, i do understand why some would tho so best to tread carefully with that.

I dunno, do what you feel comfortable with but i see no issue asking in person