To ask or not?

[EllaBella]

I think all girls who has reviews open has expectations like Hary said in his reply,if the man is visiting the girl more than once is logic he did like the girl and would revisit her again, why to not say few nice words about her in a review to let people know is a girl you would revisit and was acording your expectations and why need to be pushed from the back to do it?
Somehow they are very few who write reviews on theyr will, some got used to be asked for and supose if the girl doesnt ask they just dont do it.
Like Lancelot said, the reviews says a lot about the reviewer aswell and some doesnt have the confidence that he did write well and think what other people will say after read what they were writing.
And MrTony i also thought if the meeting went well i will get review and i didnt becouse i didnt asked for it, acording with all the answers here if the girl is asking for the member get the confidence that he is doing right writing down few words about the meeting.

In conclusion if i am not brave to ask they are not brave to write review!

[Thoreau]

I think all girls who has reviews open has expectations like Hary said in his reply,if the man is visiting the girl more than once is logic he did like the girl and would revisit her again, why to not say few nice words about her in a review to let people know is a girl you would revisit and was acording your expectations and why need to be pushed from the back to do it?
Somehow they are very few who write reviews on theyr will, some got used to be asked for and supose if the girl doesnt ask they just dont do it.
Like Lancelot said, the reviews says a lot about the reviewer aswell and some doesnt have the confidence that he did write well and think what other people will say after read what they were writing.
And MrTony i also thought if the meeting went well i will get review and i didnt becouse i didnt asked for it, acording with all the answers here if the girl is asking for the member get the confidence that he is doing right writing down few words about the meeting.

In conclusion if i am not brave to ask they are not brave to write review!

Fair play to you EllaBella for raising a different point on my favourite topic! Come to Cork and you will get one of my 3,000 word soliloquies! All replies/comments/views are worthy of note. Personally, I always write a review (too long mostly) but then when I value the encounter, I think this is appropriate. Of course, I also value some of the lovely and genuine replies I have received over the years and have been told several times that the escort (on repeat visits) say they tend to get more clients as a result of my review - so both parties WIN!

[Barney Rubble]

I've never met you unfortunately EllaBella but after seeing your profile and your video I wish I had. You look amazing !

I see you're in Belfast later this week and unfortunately I am unable to travel .

But if you decided to stop off in Dundalk for a day or 2 I'd make a point of getting there !

(And you wouldn't have to ask for a review !)

[Larrii]

... acording with all the answers here if the girl is asking for the member get the confidence that he is doing right writing down few words about the meeting.

In conclusion if i am not brave to ask they are not brave to write review!

Always ask, hun, at the end of a meeting.

I gave up on reviews after posting 50, that have slimmed down over the years to 41, but they are generally helpful.

[AmorInfinito8]

I allways wondered how you like the girl to proceed, I am not shy to offer or to give but i am shy to ask.

Do you like to be asked to leave a review or is bettet that girl leave it on your will?

I have 2 years in ireland and maybe i would have had more reviews if i was asking for them, of course i am happy and i appreciate when i recieve a review and also like to be surprised, i remember once last year i was very close to win escort of the month being the most reviewed of the month but not enough to win, maybe becouse i didnt force it and all the reviews was recieved by surprise and on peoples will without me to ask.

Some people dont leave review without being asked and some ask me if i want them to leave a review or if they are allowed to,but still i dont think i will be able to ask for it, of course i dont think any girl will get mad or upset if see good reviews about her thats why they have reviews open.
What are the factors that makes you leave a review without being asked for?
And there is something else that wanted to ask,
why some of the guys give so many details in the review as how many orgasms they had or how deep was the kiss or where was the finish is kinda awkard to read such review.
Have a good weekend! You get to know me better with such writing and also i hope i did not offend anybody is something in my head since long time.

I think no matter what their job everyone likes to receive some words of appreciation

I see no problem in girls asking about a review if they feel things have went well

I agree with Amy that it can be about pride, also asking a client to post feedback can put a girl in an awkward/uncomfortable situation and so most won't

In my opinion most first time reviewers probably only reviewed because they were asked by a girl they like

That was the case for me or I most likely would never have joined E.I to review

so by asking you may be encouraging more clients to join and start reviewing

I also agree with limiting the explicit details in reviews and many other girls on here have previously stated the same in their posts so you're not alone

I personally find it a little cringe worthy
to read, why some guy's feel it necessary to give a step by step detailed account of events in their reviews when it's uncalled for!?

Although I'm sure others might find my reviews too fluffy or less informative
but the girls I've left them for seemed happy so I guess that's all that really matters

Always nice to see you posting Ella xx

[Nononsense111]

I allways wondered how you like the girl to proceed, I am not shy to offer or to give but i am shy to ask.

Do you like to be asked to leave a review or is bettet that girl leave it on your will?

I have 2 years in ireland and maybe i would have had more reviews if i was asking for them, of course i am happy and i appreciate when i recieve a review and also like to be surprised, i remember once last year i was very close to win escort of the month being the most reviewed of the month but not enough to win, maybe becouse i didnt force it and all the reviews was recieved by surprise and on peoples will without me to ask.

Some people dont leave review without being asked and some ask me if i want them to leave a review or if they are allowed to,but still i dont think i will be able to ask for it, of course i dont think any girl will get mad or upset if see good reviews about her thats why they have reviews open.
What are the factors that makes you leave a review without being asked for?
And there is something else that wanted to ask, why some of the guys give so many details in the review as how many orgasms they had or how deep was the kiss or where was the finish is kinda awkard to read such review.
Have a good weekend! You get to know me better with such writing and also i hope i did not offend anybody is something in my head since long time.

I generally would leave reviews. Just genuinely enjoy writing them and let me reminisce.

I don't think its cheeky to ask. If you had a good time I think its a no brainer to do it.

I do appreciate most punters aren't even on the site, I like being part of the community and reviewing.

Just my own two cents

[patpz]

In my opinion most first time reviewers probably only reviewed because they were asked by a girl they like

That was the case for me or I most likely would never have joined E.I to review

This was the same with me, I was asked to leave a review, so joined.

I certainly did not mind been asked.

[AmorInfinito8]

This was the same with me, I was asked to leave a review, so joined.

I certainly did not mind been asked.

For me it seems a natural progression
probably why I can be a little skeptical of members who don't review

a girl shouldn't have to ask but with guys who have never reviewed before its probably best to mention it
or they'll never even consider it as they don't really understand the value of reviews to girls

[Moocher]

You never know what people's insecurities may be.
If they tell you, it's best to respect it instead of downplay it

I meant no disrespect at all.

Ella, if you felt a meeting went well, I see absolutely no loss of dignity at all in saying to the client that you would appreciate a review.

[IrishSarahBarra]

The Who: clients, other escorts, self
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Some possible negative emotions/positions associated with an escort's request for a review and who could be holding them:

Being judged as (desperate, egotistical, weak, not knowing ones place) by; clients, other escorts

Holding power; clients, other escorts

Feelings that other escorts are "better than" or self is "better than" because they do or can operate in a particular way; clients, other escorts

Suffering a power imbalance: self

Being judged/feelings of being judged; self

Shame; self

Loss of pride; self

Loss of dignity; self

Fear (from various impacts but reviews related); self

Embarrassment; self

Weakness; self

Financial loss: self
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Do you want to work in a place where your coworkers are the subject of any of this? No. Is it easily remedied by removing the power that requesting a review has? Yes.