Sharing a bad experience. Stay safe

[gjetson468]

Insane that she followed you onto the street. As someone with social anxiety that would destroy me for weeks.

I wonder if the man leaving the building was another punter or her partner.

The last time I visited an opt-out it was incredibly bad and I think cured me of opt-outs for life.

It's a good point. I waited for 30mins and the other guy's exit was right on clock so I assumed it was a client but who knows.
If it was her partner/receptionist then that might explain the volatile behavior, bad timing. But the sense I got was that it wasn't her first time. She lied without hesitation, shoved at will, screamed to scare. Of course all this dawned on me two days after my nerves settled lol (social anxiety indeed).

[gjetson468]

I guess it's just about proceeding with the upmost caution, awareness, and I think doing as you're doing now. Not staying silent about it after the fact.[/QUOTE]

Appreciate it 🙏🏽. That really was the intent of my post. Absolutely agreed. Knowledge and caution are everything in this business, on both sides of the table.

[gjetson468]

Let he who has not visited an opt out cast the first stone as the Good Book says (I think).

All bar the ultra disciplined calllers have at some point I would imagine rolled the dice . I’ve done 2/3 times myself. Only the most recent one was truly terrible. The other one/two were fine but not one for return visits.

It’s your money and your time at the end of the day and you’re free to spend both as you wish. Better research and preparation leads to better outcomes.

I don’t think I’m telling you anything you don’t already know.

Going back to the Good Book - “the spirit is willing but the flesh is weak”.

We agree Harry. Your money your bet

[gjetson468]

I did contemplate. My being a softie aside, I also don't think the issue is as black and white. As they say, look back before you shoot.

[Airbusdriver]

Thanks for sharing. That was a truly horrible experience for you. It does remind us to be ultra weary of those who opt out of reviews.

[bobbyj]

Fair play for sharing and caution note to all. Thanks,

[HandOfGod]

Thanks for sharing, sounds awful and completely unwarranted.

Those who are suggesting you deserved it are clowns of the highest order!

[InsidiousCid]

Looking back on this, it's kind of a refreshingly honest accounting of events.

Based on my own experience, this type of thing doesn't happen entirely infrequently.

I was just commenting on a media article in that subforum recently and when it comes to policy determination, associated law enforcement provision for the sex work, it reliably focuses almost exclusively on workers.

Perhaps rightly so? (I mean, that there's good provision for them)

I mean, no one wants to conceive that a woman would do this against her will (and again, the popular narrative would convince you that 90% are).

But policy and media commentary RELIABLY neglect client and public safety, despite the fact workers can, on occasion, feel entitled to conduct themselves as per the OP (honestly it's happened to me so many times I've lost count, and there's never been a single occasion I haven't handled it like a boss), and of course the filth that support and facilitate many working women........ I mean say an escort really had a "set" on some client for one reason or another;

And not only engaged in a situation as per the OP, but perhaps even engineered it?

Where's the policy and oversight provision to prevent that from happening?

[TonyB]

(1) This site isn't the only site!

(2) I tried another site before E.I were there isn't any verification and got horribly catfished twice
I would have given up if I had a first bad experience here

(3) I don't risk opt-outs!!
I know some Girls from these other sites
aren't getting clients and have moved over to E.I with opt-out profiles

(4) you wanna take the risk?
Your not telling anyone anything they don't know!!

(5) stick to established girls or on occasion if a girl has just joined and allows reviews you might find a diamond

(6) this site can either take it's own credibility seriously or allow fake profiles to scare off clients to the point that girls won't advertise here!!!?

I know what I'd do as far as a business perspective!!!

I do agree with you

I just wanted to add that there are some decent girls that don't allow reviews
However it's hard to justify meeting them given the number that are a waste of space

[markrey86]

That word only applies to the 1st time you visited an opt out advertiser. If you're an adrenaline junkie and get off of your Russian roulette punting style, own up to it. Tfb, it sounds exciting, the will she won't she. Just know when you complain, many an eye will be rolling.

No sympathy here. You should know better.

Can I ask why do people opt out? The obvious answer is so they don't want to get bad reviews but at the same time they won't get good reviews, guessing they are more than likely expecting more bad reviews than good?