Regular vs One Visit

[Paddy739]

Been seeing a regular lady for the last 3 years, lately I’m nearly going once a week lately or as funds allow, I know exactly what the arrangement is and it will never be anything more but I really like her, defo a pitfall of seeing the same lady on a regular basis.

However if I seen a lady once and only once i wouldn’t be in this situation, no attachment or feelings, no personal chats just business.

I’m not really asking a question here just venting my feelings on the matter lol.

[FetishCherry]

Been seeing a regular lady for the last 3 years, lately I’m nearly going once a week lately or as funds allow, I know exactly what the arrangement is and it will never be anything more but I really like her, defo a pitfall of seeing the same lady on a regular basis.

However if I seen a lady once and only once i wouldn’t be in this situation, no attachment or feelings, no personal chats just business.

I’m not really asking a question here just venting my feelings on the matter lol.

Consistently visiting the same escort can cultivate trust and intimacy, yet it may lead to routine and potential emotional attachment. Establishing a consistent relationship with the same escort ensures a known quality of service and minimizes the risk of disappointment, as both parties have had the opportunity to discover each other's preferences and desires. This familiarity allows the escort to intuitively understand how to cater to the client's needs, pressing all the right buttons for maximum satisfaction.

On the other hand, exploring new escorts regularly can offer excitement and discovery, but it also carries the risk of uncertainty regarding service quality and compatibility, as well as potential concerns about safety/discretion of location.

[TheFalcon]

Its probably the personal connections that keep a person in the game,

hard to believe its 16 years since my first visit, (in saying that I am sure there are lads at least twice that)

if I hadnt made any connections with any of the ladies in that time would I be finished with it now,

maybe- but then again maybe not,

well Id definitely be more occasional without the personal element.

[Irelandbeautyyy]

It depends probably on the preference. Anyway i would say most of guys would agree with you. My favourite sentence is something like you really can have a sex with everyone but it never feels same like with someone who you like in some way.

[morelovin]

Being a regular is one thing but I would try to avoid it being to the extent of weekly. That would just begin to feel weird and would mean you have developed a dependency.Of course some chemistry and emotional connection helps make the experience better for both parties.It’s important to remember there an emotional limitations to this.I would try and have that need met outside of this activity.

[cooldub]

Yeah I think regular can be great but not to extent where she thinks you’re a stalker!

I do like to see some girls regularly but then also see the odd new one occasionally too

But can’t beat the personal connection built up with regular visits, both know what each other likes then too

[MrGold]

I think sometimes people just click and the chemistry is there, you just get each other and know what you both like without saying a word, its like a dance I suppose. In my experience if it is there then I tend to visit more than once, but theres few I have seen numerous times and still counting.

[Paddy739]

Thanks for the responses, she’s a lovely lady she takes care of me and I of her, as lads have said there’s limitations to this type of arrangement. Before every time I meet her I always say I’m going to a new lady, but knowing she’s independent, dosent smoke, In a clean appartment and know how to get to her is another big bonus, I’ve been up some providers and my clothes do be stinking and nearly meet another punter on the steps on the way up. I think I’ll try someone new next time and take a chance.

[AmorInfinito8]

Been seeing a regular lady for the last 3 years, lately I’m nearly going once a week lately or as funds allow, I know exactly what the arrangement is and it will never be anything more but I really like her, defo a pitfall of seeing the same lady on a regular basis.

However if I seen a lady once and only once i wouldn’t be in this situation, no attachment or feelings, no personal chats just business.

I’m not really asking a question here just venting my feelings on the matter lol.

Thanks for the responses, she’s a lovely lady she takes care of me and I of her, as lads have said there’s limitations to this type of arrangement. Before every time I meet her I always say I’m going to a new lady, but knowing she’s independent, dosent smoke, In a clean appartment and know how to get to her is another big bonus, I’ve been up some providers and my clothes do be stinking and nearly meet another punter on the steps on the way up. I think I’ll try someone new next time and take a chance.

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[AmorInfinito8]

I think sometimes people just click and the chemistry is there, you just get each other and know what you both like without saying a word, its like a dance I suppose. In my experience if it is there then I tend to visit more than once, but theres few I have seen numerous times and still counting.

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