Post of the Month: January

[Dieve]

your first sentence makes no sense to me

on your 2nd point , I will not vote as there is an a ulterior motive on play and on a technical point poll set up wrong but polls take minutes , the main work is collecting the nominations , if you win dont forget to thank Stephanie

Your last point , abuse can and is scaled so I am disappointed in the casual dismissing of what I described , as to feeling better, I buried that guy so I trust you understand , fortunately 2 of those girls will not read your reply which is good.

I have in the past turned the other cheek when a issue developed with an advertiser , because I think you deserve certain understanding , its your place of work and phone number /location available . I prioritize their welfare/safety over my ego on this site . Your guy Liam is not able to do that is he ? Now 4 advertisers maybe in this as a result of his fragile ego , he should still can be a better man than this

How do you 2 see this ending I wonder , Stephanie has a v loyal group of supporters built up over many years , an advertiser ban indeed a life ban does happen , personally I dont see Stephanie getting one, even if she did you think Liam would have a nice run ? nope he would not
One of my favourite people ISB is caught up in this , but it counts zero for Liam , to me he is a v small man indeed , he sent me a PM awhile back assuring me that advertisers welfare/safety was his priority , well Liam time to step up and put a stop to all of this , be better than this . I see your post to Barry and you pulling an eminent threat to an advertiser , you do understand the process , I do not agree your conclusion BTW and good of you to eventually show up at 4.25 am

Liam be a better man than this , live up to your own words

Dieve I am not against you, you made some brilliant posts here early on , I hope this can be at least stopped for awhile , preferably permanently .

My first sentence means I don't understand why it's an issue for you that I was the one who sent you the link of Stephanie's PotM thread instead of Liam.

Ulterior motive giving an honourable mention to a notorious deleted post that proved my innocence? I think it's worth giving it an honourable mention indeed because I never got an apology for being falsely accused of threatening one of Liam's bully, when in reality I tried to compassionately calm her down. My name was never cleared, all the threads in question were simply closed and everything is back to where it was, not in the good sense.

Like I said I don't dismiss what happened to you, I stand my ground that just because you had it worse, the current situation should still be taken seriously.

Liam's ego is fine. Anyone would get offended and should speak up indeed when they are defamed by accusing them of being a past abuser's new account with no proof but speculation. I think he's a great debater who actually listens to the other person and tries to solve issues. What I think is that simply being a new account makes certain people paranoid for being so invested in the life of the forum, worrying that he steals the spotlight by being an articulate person with his own opinion, and because this reminds them of someone problematic from the past, they're hypervigilant when his dark side will pop out, and it frustrates them that it doesn't.

I'm not sure I understand how you expect Liam to be a "better man".

I was the one advocating for the bullying to stop, that's why the dominoes are where they are right now.

[beautyaddict]

My first sentence means I don't understand why it's an issue for you that I was the one who sent you the link of Stephanie's PotM thread instead of Liam.

Ulterior motive giving an honourable mention to a notorious deleted post that proved my innocence? I think it's worth giving it an honourable mention indeed because I never got an apology for being falsely accused of threatening one of Liam's bully, when in reality I tried to compassionately calm her down. My name was never cleared, all the threads in question were simply closed and everything is back to where it was, not in the good sense.

Like I said I don't dismiss what happened to you, I stand my ground that just because you had it worse, the current situation should still be taken seriously.

Liam's ego is fine. Anyone would get offended and should speak up indeed when they are defamed by accusing them of being a past abuser's new account with no proof but speculation. I think he's a great debater who actually listens to the other person and tries to solve issues. What I think is that simply being a new account makes certain people paranoid for being so invested in the life of the forum, worrying that he steals the spotlight by being an articulate person with his own opinion, and because this reminds them of someone problematic from the past, they're hypervigilant when his dark side will pop out, and it frustrates them that it doesn't.

I'm not sure I understand how you expect Liam to be a "better man".

I was the one advocating for the bullying to stop, that's why the dominoes are where they are right now.

I am also trying to stop bullying , Liam looks to me unable to manage conflict , and that comes with the site , always has always will . I take offence at your minimizing of past on behalf of my friends but wont go howling on about it, on that thread , an absolute car crash , no winners . Perhaps you should do some research as to where I stand on it , you might be surprised

I have done my best to get a damage limitation in place but I should have known it is pointless

Liam is a good debater , I look forward to seeing that . No matter what I put to you no change will occur , so away it goes .

[BarryD]

So, you've gone from rampant speculation in the backroom, to bringing EM section conversations to General Chat, to manipulating Quote Replies and are now escalating to posting threats on the forum... This actually seems like it might be an imminent threat toward an advertiser, as the punters here are fairly well anonymous.

not aware of any rule break bringing EM section conversations to Gen .. if is let me know.
manipulating quotes which were then verified by the same handle
wouldn't call it rampant or speculation .. when it turns true
and that has been the case each and every time

deep down your butt is hurt, you want to pull others down to your level, ruin rep.
you are uncomfortable and frustrated you spotted, even when hiding your digital prints
you want to have your own little party, be the green/main man, and be liked.
no problem go ahead be the man - floor all yours - won't bother you one bit.

however, don't start the same cheap shot crap again with specific advertiser. you can't have it both ways. your choice.

and if you can't do that instead of being the little drama queen maybe run along to the mods have them check me out.

you do understand the process

P.S with Inspector ethos, was "Negative" this morning , then went to "No comment Made" _ twins _

[beautyaddict]

The use of post of the month to make a point is confirmed in Dieve last response to me , hopefully Mods / Roger will take this over again . I see Dieve promoting potm on whatsapp , which I would applaud normally . Liam wants to be according to Barry one of the players, a Mr Big on here , true or not he will always be somewhat small to me , who he is/was I known not , but what I see .... not much to be interested /impressed

Wouldn't it be fun to have him here in say 2018 , he would be in care still .

Dieve will win, I will not participate /congratulate anyone till Mods take over

I understand her anger with deleted thread , there is nothing stopping a thread on that being started, is there ?

I really hope this threats stuff to advertisers will stop

Members roaring at each other " Meet me at The Spire" so what, thats just what Escort Inspector.... well loves