Originally Posted by
Averageatbest93
Probably not going to get much of a varied answer here giving the demographic that use this site , but it is an interesting topic.
Won't matter to many here I'd say , given most of us are knowingly visiting ladies with hundreds upon hundreds of views, and with less than 50% of punters leaving a review , that number is a conservative one. But this echos the general social media consensus of average men , no problem having sex with a woman with a high body count , but date/marry ? Different story usually.
For me personally mine is somewhere in the 150-200 range , I stopped counting. I slept around a lot in my early twenties , 30 now , probably seen around 50-60 escorts. I genuinely couldn't care less , I wouldn't even bring it up when dating a girl. Her numbers irrelevant , people change and our pasts don't necessarily define our current personalities or tendencies , so to me personally it doesn't matter, but for the average man who doesn't participate in this hobby of ours , it matters to most men.
It can vary from insecurity , many men , and indeed women , will find it intimidating if their partners have had a lot of sexual partners before them , if they aren't confident in themselves. Men , in particular , and I hate this term, 'high value' men , will prefer women who have low body counts. It's been shown that basically 80+% of woman want the top 5% of men. The average man has way less options than the average woman and so often times won't be as selective. But the top percent of men can afford to be extremely picky in their sexual partners due to their own demand in the dating scene. High body count often correlates with some poor personality traits (as men perceive them) , loose morals , lack of self respect , the need for constant validation, promiscuity can be an indicator for disloyal tendencies and thus is perceived that she is more likely to cheat.
Social media does paint a bad narrative around it but 'modern' women don't help themselves , tonnes of videos of women being interviewed on nights out , asked about high body counts , then if high asked if they have cheated on previous boyfriends , overwhelmingly the women with high body counts admitted to being cheaters while almost all women who said they had a low body count (10 or less) had never cheated.
Of course everyone is free to choose how they live their lives , but like anything , actions have consequences, I hate the narrative that it's double standards if a man vrs a woman having a high body count where it's a negative thing for the woman but a positive for the man. Men and women are different , always have been and always will be. There are different standards for each gender , whether people think that's fair or not is irrelevant , the real world isn't fair and that's how it operates. Most women will find a man who won't care about their body counts if the woman is the more attractive/successful one in the relationship , but unfortunately the harsh reality is that the type of men that most women will want for marriages etc absolutely do care.
Seeing escorts dispelled many of the stereotypically prejudices that the average man has about women with high body counts have for me personally so it doesn't matter to me at all, I don't ask about it and my advice to all women is if you are dating a man and he asks , do yourselves both a favour and lie about it.
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