Body count!!!

[TommyH123]

Ah it’s mostly down to luck…some of us just get lucky…I remind herself that she’s one of the lucky ones every day ��

[IrishSarahBarra]

I hope all the men seeking low body count and all the women seeking security will be very happy together.

[Stephanie]

But Stephanie, if you were to marry for security and not for love do you not think it would feel like being at work for the rest of your life? Having to cater for a man you are not in love with?

I look at Melania Trump, I don’t believe that she married to Donald for love, the thought of having to get into bed every night for the rest of my life with a man I am not in love with makes me shudder.

I’m blessed enough to have been in love and to have been loved in return, so I know what love it. This person I was in love with I was not even attracted to him in the beginning, but once I got to know him, he was funny and a great guy, we had many happy years together.

So having experienced love I know that I could never settle just for security, I’ve had that option money a time, and I’m sure money established escort here have had the same, but no I just couldn’t do it I would be unhappy for the rest of my life to just settle with somebody because they are a provider but if I was not in love with them.

I had the option several times in my life to marry for money .

I could never do it , I would never do it . You pay such high price ; would destroy My soul .


It’s not in my Nature to be subservient or obligated to Anyone : I could Not imagine

being with someone I didn’t love . I would Never commit myself to someone merely for

financial security - That I took care of myself a Long time ago x


I had a stepmother who married my father for social standing and financial security for her own self

and for her son from another man .

I was still a young girl , she kept telling me “it’s just as easy to fall in love with a rich one ,

as it is with a poor one” — yet I’d seen with my own young eyes .

What she said ^^^ : sure , if love is there First , but not for Gain !!


Love of my life was ‘well to do’ — I had no idea of it when we met and fell in love .

It was beautiful 🥰 .

He was beautiful . A beautiful human being

[rockonallnite]

Body count? I never keep track of it, not important. Including escorts, must be around 100 I guess. I never cared. I never asked my former partners and they never asked me either. What's in the past must stay in the past.

Sex is just a physical need, and love is a different thing.

By the way this thread, for some strange reason reminds of this classic. I know is sound cheesy, but that's the first song that came to my mind when reading some posts. Enjoy it or hate it.

[JMastodon]

Prior to joining this site in 2012 it was a big fat zero.

[IrishSarahBarra]

Feels somewhere around the 200. Age, 38.
I don't remember or list.
No ideal for either.
We might chat about partner numbers but it's only curiosity on my part, not judgement.

[Irelandbeautyyy]

I hope all the men seeking low body count and all the women seeking security will be very happy together.

If that would be so easy like you are saying.

Of course it has to be about all complex but we mooved to little bit different topic. I found all psychology around “body count” so interesting how there is connection with so many things.

[IrishSarahBarra]

If that would be so easy like you are saying.

Of course it has to be about all complex but we mooved to little bit different topic. I found all psychology around “body count” so interesting how there is connection with so many things.

How my psychology works >> I associate ppl interested in body count as currently having one or more negative emotions like insecurity, pride, jealousy, judgement. For me that trumps someone who might have previously been promiscuous for whatever reason. Long term, I want someone who's calm and logical so if I met someone who was interested in body count, that would be an instant red flag for me.

[Irelandbeautyyy]

I hope all the men seeking low body count and all the women seeking security will be very happy together.

Anyway your thought made me confused. I think there is no connection together between body count and feeling to be safe. Or? Not every woman should be looking for this? Maybe if we all will be, there are not so many mothers with child without their father. No hate as i admire all ladies who are strong and substitute a father. But all disscusion little bit mooved.

[Irelandbeautyyy]

How my psychology works >> I associate ppl interested in body count as currently having one or more negative emotions like insecurity, pride, jealousy, judgement. For me that trumps someone who might have previously been promiscuous for whatever reason. Long term, I want someone who's calm and logical so if I met someone who was interested in body count, that would be an instant red flag for me.

It’s interesting.

I think logical person makes his thougts based on something. Past is one of important factor i would say.

I still didn’t say anything about me. Iam just disccusing.