Body count!!!

[TheFalcon]

1 B]Real Life- 15 Escorts 10 - Crossover of Both )2) (Im mostly massage enthusiast to explain the lower numbers)[/B]
2, Do you remember it or do you make some list? - Hmmn not sure- I do get flashbacks of a few encounters in particular.
3, Is body count of your partner important to you? Why? - I guess not hugely- If the connection is there- Im not overly thinking of this
4, Is there some ideal body count for woman? For man? - I remember in conversation one night - I said virgins are possibly the most attractive but most of the guys said No they actually prefer experience Probably my favourite sexual partner has had a lot of encounters so I guess it doesnt matter to me really
5, Are you asking about it? Not particularly- woman like to enjoy themselves- you are not expecting a virgin at my age.


Oh, age 43

[Stephanie]

It seems to be a popular topic in these days. It’s not from my head. There is so many videos in Youtube when random walking people aswer. Or they choose a group of people in all age categories and later they talk about it.

I found it interesting.

Most of guys answer they wouldn’t be happy if their girl would have a huge body count. Girls also answered they would be worried they wouldn’t be enough for him if he would have many of sexual partners before.

They are talking about some factors like relationship with father etc. Or some stereotype like girls should have less body counts than guys. I can’t say i agree for hundred person but still… it makes a sense to me.

Old woman in her 60’ answered she had only three sexual partners. In same group was a teen boy who has tents of sexual partners. Iťs interesting to see how all is changing in the time.

Lol i love answer from Stephanie. Enough sounds like a smart and ellegant asnwer. Counting people with who we make love is great.

How i said there is no right or wrong answer. I never asked before about it in my personnal life. I also don’t care too much but when iam older then guys with a wild past make me less interested. Actually it’s same with clients if iam thinking about it. Huge number of reviews for different girls don’t impress me at all. Lol i know it’s very strange. Anyway it’s a forum, isn’t?

Thank you , Michelle x

[JennyIrish]

I have a background in psychiatry and used to be a counsellor. I have seen this be a major issue for couples of all ages, I once had a couple who had been dating for 4 years , were engaged (they were about mid twenties) , and the topic had never come up in discussion with them till one night they had a party with friends and the woman's friend told her partner that she had been a big slut when they were in college together. The man asked his fiance then about it and she said she didn't know the exact number but it was over 50. It totally changed his opinion of her and they could never get past it and he ended the relationship. As I said it will absolutely matter to most men. I'm sure this seems unfair to a lot of women but as I mentioned men and women have different standards and different expectations from their partner. Most women (particular the 'high value' attractive women) almost exclusively care about a man's financial income as a key aspect of pursuing a relationship with him , where as almost all men give 0 fucks about a woman's job or finances. Different standards as I said and neither is wrong , its just how we are programmed as humans. Women are naturally wired to seek a partner who can provide for them and a potential family , where as men had totally different parameters in things they seek from a woman. It's the way of the world.

Of course in an ideal world we could all find partners who would love us unconditionally despite all our history or our flaws , and lying is not a good habit to get into obviously , but sometimes a little white lie is needed to protect both people in a relationship. I can promise you there isn't a single person alive on this planet that operates on 100% pure honesty.

I really enjoyed your first post, I agree with a lot of it, Although I don’t agree with this concept of high-value men, Maybe this is what some women strive for, but I think the majority of women will marry someone they love, as opposed to a provider or a textbook high-value male.

There is a big difference between marrying for love and marrying for “high value”, just because a guy might be text book “high value” dosnt mean a lady is going to love him. We fall in love with the soul not the material things.

[Irelandbeautyyy]

I really enjoyed your first post, I agree with a lot of it, Although I don’t agree with this concept of high-value men, Maybe this is what some women strive for, but I think the majority of women will marry someone they love, as opposed to a provider or a textbook high-value male.

There is a big difference between marrying for love and marrying for “high value”, just because a guy might be text book “high value” dosnt mean a lady is going to love him. We fall in love with the soul not the material things.

I agree Jenny. In same time iam saying iťs not completely true. It’s natural thing - every female in nature is looking for someone who will care about her descendats.

I think i have really good values in things like this. I will never be with someone with who i have not feelings but i really need to feel a potential in him. It means he should be able to care about me (for example when iam pregnant and few yesrs after giving a birth) and later about our childs as well. I need someone who will teach our childs. Iam not teen girl anymore to care only about my feelings. It’s my honest opinion.

[Stephanie]

Simply put :

Women seek Security in a potential partner : may that be ‘high value man’ or a man with Potential , and ambition ;

But all that ^^^ is meaningless without the other qualities : kindness , honor , Integrity .


Men seek Fertility , Fidelity , and a warm meal x ……………………………………later on : Companionship

Or a quick roll in the hay to ‘sow their seed’ — biology 🧬

[Averageatbest93]

I really enjoyed your first post, I agree with a lot of it, Although I don’t agree with this concept of high-value men, Maybe this is what some women strive for, but I think the majority of women will marry someone they love, as opposed to a provider or a textbook high-value male.

There is a big difference between marrying for love and marrying for “high value”, just because a guy might be text book “high value” dosnt mean a lady is going to love him. We fall in love with the soul not the material things.

Once upon a time I'd say this was true Jenny , and I am absolutely sure there are plenty of people out there who would absolute marry for love. But with how the dating scene works now, it is for the vast vast majority of people , all online connections via dating apps. As a result women have a much higher screening process now , almost gone are the days where if you were a charming funny lad you could meet a girl on a night out and hit it off and really little else mattered bar that initial connection and attraction.

Now if you aren't above average in terms of physical appearance, put a lot of effort into your social medias, be an extremely high earner and open about that , you aren't even getting the chance to take a woman on a date.

As I mentioned , approximately 80+ of women are chasing the top 5% of men. There's been a tonne of studies and tests done via the various dating apps to confirm this as well as in colleges and with the younger demographics. The number of men who are virgins over the age of 23 is growing year after year, the average number of sexual partners for people in the 20-30 age bracket is dropping year after year. The divorce rate is now over 60% , this is no doubt correlating with the increasing number of sexless marriages where men report they were only ever a pay check for their partner almost immediately after marriage , this is in line with women being happy to settle with men who can provide as opposed to men who almost exclusively marry for love.

Honestly the whole dating/modern relationship world is absolutely fucked for a large percentage of people and I almost exclusively blame social media for it. I broke up with my partner of 9 years this week myself and I have absolutely no desire to go looking for another one with how things are out there at the moment.

[tiptopguy]

Iam coming with some interesting topic which is discussing a lot.

It’s a body count! Let’s start to explain what does it mean for people who don’t know. Body count is number of sexual partners you have had.

Let’s be honest and tell me…

1, What is your body count? Mention your age please.
2, Do you remember it or do you make some list?
3, Is body count of your partner important to you? Why?
4, Is there some ideal body count for woman? For man?
5, Are you asking about it?

Let’s be honest and remember there is not right or wrong answer.

1, What is your body count? Mention your age please. Count 40-50 Age: 37

2, Do you remember it or do you make some list? Remember, don't make lists

3, Is body count of your partner important to you? Why? No

4, Is there some ideal body count for woman? For man? No

5, Are you asking about it? No, why would you?

[JennyIrish]

Simply put :

Women seek Security in a potential partner : may that be ‘high value man’ or a man with Potential , and ambition ;

But all that ^^^ is meaningless without the other qualities : kindness , honor , Integrity .


Men seek Fertility , Fidelity , and a warm meal x ……………………………………later on : Companionship

Or a quick roll in the hay to ‘sow their seed’ — biology ��

But Stephanie, if you were to marry for security and not for love do you not think it would feel like being at work for the rest of your life? Having to cater for a man you are not in love with?

I look at Melania Trump, I don’t believe that she married to Donald for love, the thought of having to get into bed every night for the rest of my life with a man I am not in love with makes me shudder.

I’m blessed enough to have been in love and to have been loved in return, so I know what love it. This person I was in love with I was not even attracted to him in the beginning, but once I got to know him, he was funny and a great guy, we had many happy years together.

So having experienced love I know that I could never settle just for security, I’ve had that option money a time, and I’m sure money established escort here have had the same, but no I just couldn’t do it I would be unhappy for the rest of my life to just settle with somebody because they are a provider but if I was not in love with them.

[JennyIrish]

Once upon a time I'd say this was true Jenny , and I am absolutely sure there are plenty of people out there who would absolute marry for love. But with how the dating scene works now, it is for the vast vast majority of people , all online connections via dating apps. As a result women have a much higher screening process now , almost gone are the days where if you were a charming funny lad you could meet a girl on a night out and hit it off and really little else mattered bar that initial connection and attraction.

Now if you aren't above average in terms of physical appearance, put a lot of effort into your social medias, be an extremely high earner and open about that , you aren't even getting the chance to take a woman on a date.

As I mentioned , approximately 80+ of women are chasing the top 5% of men. There's been a tonne of studies and tests done via the various dating apps to confirm this as well as in colleges and with the younger demographics. The number of men who are virgins over the age of 23 is growing year after year, the average number of sexual partners for people in the 20-30 age bracket is dropping year after year. The divorce rate is now over 60% , this is no doubt correlating with the increasing number of sexless marriages where men report they were only ever a pay check for their partner almost immediately after marriage , this is in line with women being happy to settle with men who can provide as opposed to men who almost exclusively marry for love.

Honestly the whole dating/modern relationship world is absolutely fucked for a large percentage of people and I almost exclusively blame social media for it. I broke up with my partner of 9 years this week myself and I have absolutely no desire to go looking for another one with how things are out there at the moment.

Yea I agree I am hearing a lot of this from younger clients. I also have a client in his late 20s who has a very good day job and is a full-time farmer when he goes home, he is handsome, so would be considered a high-value man right? Well he tells me he has given up on dating women his own age because they all complained that he does not give them enough of his time!!!!!!!! So I think some ladies just cannot be pleased, but this will be the downfall of them also because if they are out for a textbook perfect man, it’s either not going to happen and they will not end up married or with children, or they will just settle and end up in a loveless marriage which is a recipe for disaster in so many ways.

Although I don’t think every 20 something is like this, I have to say I’m very impressed with some twentysomething-year-olds I meet as clients, they really have their head screwed on and are far more intelligent or have far more life awareness than I had in my 20s.

[Stephanie]

This whole conversation about BodyCount is rather interesting :

Over a millennia girls and women were to be chaste , save themselves as virgins for wedding night ;

While no such same restrictions were ever put on men : they to roam far and wide , spread their

genes ( by intent or by instinct ) to as many by force , by cajole , by conquer , by deceit , by ‘love’ .


Historically and biologically men were never inclined to raise another man’s offspring ::

when a new male lion takes over a pride of females first thing he does is kill All the

innocent cute little cubs of the pride : those would’ve been sired by the now deposed

former ‘king’ . He does this to bring the females into estrus so he can mate right away

and ensure His genes should carry on .

For males , for a millennia and beyond female Fidelity was forefront . And the females

seek , choose Providers , Protectors to be able to raise their own offspring in a semblance

of security .

Now over the last ‘bit’ with the Pill in 70s , and now with more aggressive ‘feminism’ ,

young girls and women are steered down the road that casual sex , sexualizing and

objectifying themselves , indiscriminately sleeping around is Liberating ,

it’s ‘self affirming’ of their Freedoms . They don’t ‘need men’ .

Men have been emasculated , in name of gender ‘equality’ . The innate roles abolished .

I don’t agree with this .



New generation is not getting married : “DINK”s >>> Dual Income No Kids ;

Women are not having babies : “SINK”s >>>“Single Income No Kids” so common now

they’ve come up with their own acronyms for simplicity in explaining their status , and to

Validate their choices .

Study after study shows that men with social standing and the financial resources to be Providers

do Not want a woman who’s ‘been around the block’ a few too many times .

Study after study shows that these ‘Liberated’ young women are aiming for men who do Not want them .

Now the few men who are ‘desirable’ in this age of Social Media do Not want the girls with the

high ‘bodycount’ : they’re looking for a clean living self respecting nurturing woman , who has Not

thrown herself around indiscriminately in search of outside validation by allowing indiscriminate access to her body .


It Is a ‘free’ world , each do as they see fit , but I feel modern society is shortchanging their people

by promoting values that are not compatible with a thriving bustling emotionally nurturing future .

Or matter of fact , even an economically thriving future .

For That you need children ,

and demographic numbers are alarming in most developed western societies .

In the name of ‘do whatever the hell you want’ , ‘don’t need men’ :: ie. fkc around , stay single , no kids .



/ lol , as you were x

Let’s get back to simple numbers x