I love this attitude and I LOVE that you have found ladies who treat you well and that it's almost like therapy for you, I totally get that.
I would say to clients that if its impacting you financially then step back for a minute or set a budget and stick to it.
If it's not affecting you financially then rock on and enjoy it, we will be a long time dead, I dont worry about the amount I spend on chocolate, cheese, make up & perfume, I just think of the happiness they bring me!
TommyH, I'm howling at that one, WHERE do you get these!