Abuse - the Abuser - the Abused

[BarryD]

I think it’d be Best to start a New thread !! This matter IS important .

Agree and several others - some useful information on "Responsible Punting" thread, should try to keep clean/on topic. Can we have this other matter out here?
some of the posts below hopefully help with the topic

________________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________

I was involved in a similar event, threats to visit even though made clear they were v v not welcome , the threat alone is damaging , v damaging I have seen the harm first hand . I am not here much just now but if I see it starting , being copied will hammer it even if I get banned , Steph has been subject to this twice , so if either Ass hole is back they needs dealing with .Those were bad times

Actually, the best way to deal with trolls is to ignore them.

The best way to fight ignorance is with knowledge and facts. Sure, you are unlikely to change the understanding of those unwilling to accept the folly of their ways, but others may still be open to learning the truth.

You are missing the point, actual threats were made , not theory , actual threats , maybe show respect to those on the receiving end , it was not a debating society game

So the abused becoming the abuser is suitable then?
So long as the person themselves was a victim they should be able to victimize others.
Because there is a past trauma (that apparently, like 5 people know about) everyone else is supposed to walk on eggshells around here and not question poor behavior?

not a v good argument
Lets break it down. First are your details available here ? you see advertisers have a phone number , from there they can be found . Are you at same risk as advertisers accordingly, answer emphatic no

You equate what you are dealing with on a par with a man arriving to your room and then saying hi I am that guy you hate , you equate threats of violence to what you are dealing with here , really not even on same planet

Next you suggest trauma is related to how many know about it , do I need to dismantle that one !!!!

You feel hard done by , let me tell you its kid gloves stuff you are getting

A few here believe you are IDF , I do not know what the situation is but this post is not a great sign of you , suggesting your trauma is same as Steph = joke
If you want to make your way accept your under microscope , and deal with it not with ridiculous posts but by being able to understand others difficulties and be man enough to absorb it

I have seen damage done to another advertiser so its a hot button for me

If you are IDF it will emerge , I used to get on with him , then he went rouge . Some maybe be hyper vigilant, but with v good reason , just remember no one has your details, no one is coming to your home with mal intention to harass or harm you . Others have to real world manage that v dynamic, some empathy might go a long way

You Do understand , here you are interacting with the same person

who had harassed you on the forum a handful of years ago to the point

that you Archived your account at the time ?

Will I pull up the thread ??

Or would you rather PM .

Or neither .

Why the hell would you even want to expose someone to a past trauma intentionally. What purpose could that serve? Causing mental distress to an other just to prove your imaginary point. That is the height of classlessness. I'd say let it go, but clearly that didn't work.

Gosh Liam, you seem to be surviving that horrendous abuse , so brave
Avoiding answering me now several times , not a plan , stand over your posts or else fcuk off .

So, is that to say you do feel there is abuse directed towards me?
And that it is okay for the abuser to continue because they have been abused?
And that any person being abused should just sit there and take it because the abuser was once abused themself?

As far as avoiding... I'll have to go look at the other threads and see what I missed.

do not equate kid glove stuff you are experiencing with actual threats of violence , as for not noticing my posts, you on here non stop , BS that be , go back on responsibility punting thread and apologies to Steph for that post