Am I unreasonable

[bmw528]

I do agree with your disposition towards the "free now..." mind set (it is at the very least inconsiderate).
However, I don't think that is how TonyB framed this particular issue.

Seems to me that he had reached out to make an appointment.
Was basically told to check back later.
Did check back later and was eventually told she took another booking and would be available in 30min.

I do understand how this could be seen as a slight towards the punter (from his perspective).
If he felt he was the first to reach out and then was "jumped" by an other.

As others have stated he could reach out to the girl to hear out her side.
There is a chance the the fella that "jumped" him had actually reached out first and the girl was scheduling appropriately.
There is also a chance that the girl was trying to squeeze in a quick visit before taking the longer one.
Be it greed, necessity, poor management skills or a crappy roommate the visit was lost and there is almost always going to be a bit of disappointment in that.

I appreciate that he didn't call out the girl over what doesn't seem to be a habitual offence.
I am glad he was able to vent a bit, see some comradery and take in a few alternate views.

Whats the point in complaining about it though?. Maybe the situation was beyond her control?. Who knows.

[IAmLIAm]

Whats the point in complaining about it though?. Maybe the situation was beyond her control?. Who knows.

True.
Though, sometimes a good bitching helps get it out and you can move on.
Hopefully no lingering animosity and the realization that sometimes that's just life.

[TommyH123]

Only one thing left to do now

Call Joe Duffy

He loves listening to aul fellas complaining

[JennyIrish]

True.
Though, sometimes a good bitching helps get it out and you can move on.
Hopefully no lingering animosity and the realization that sometimes that's just life.

Agree with this. I’m no stranger to a good rant every now and then, giving out and generally being a contrary arse, but then it’s out, over and done with, move on, and I don’t care ha ha ha. Not into bitching about people (apart from TonyB, ha ha ha, joking Tony, I don’t talk about you, I just snap at you here every now and then as you know yourself ) bitching about people is not my style but giving out about circumstances or things that bug me about d GAA ha ha stuff like that!!!!

[JennyIrish]

Only one thing left to do now

Call Joe Duffy

He loves listening to aul fellas complaining

Bah ha ha, u crack me up,

Definitely NOT another candidate for post of the month, nope!!!!!

[TommyH123]

Bah ha ha, u crack me up,

Definitely NOT another candidate for post of the month, nope!!!!!

Ah I think the old post of the month competition is as dead as VHS at this stage

feck this place, time to move on to that stand up club you were telling me about

I'll see you there.....front row, short skirt ideally

[MikeJ36]

Whats the point in complaining about it though?. Maybe the situation was beyond her control?. Who knows.

gets it off his chest... allows him to 'vent'... a fairly healthy mental exercise.

While I don't fully agree with him and think maybe he was being a *little* unreasonable, at least he didn't name the lady in question.

[Thoreau]

She wouldn't take a booking because her friend was in bed asleep.
I was in constant contact.
When her friend got up she took a booking from someone else ahead of me and she knows me.
And she knows I usually book at least an hour.
So she prioritised an unknown for 30 minutes over someone she knows is safe for an hour.
No she did it because she thought she'd get away with it and get 2 bookings
I have to say I feel a bit insulted by her behaviour

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[TonyB]

Unreasonable? No. You are just being a gobs**te.

This poor lady is not obliged to you.

You have one or two unpopular opinions that I have actually really agreed with, however some of the things I disagree with you on aghhhhhhh just boils my blood.

You and I had this argument before, I do not believe that these ladies who need to see a conveyor belt of clients in order to make any sort of profit are happy, I And the very definition of happy hooker, I love what I do, but no way would I be able to see back to back clients for a day, my mental health simply would not be able to take it.

I despise this “free now/free in 20 mins” Attitude, like a lady should be sitting around waiting for your phone call and a lady should rearrange her plans to suit YOU, As if she is somehow responsible for your lack of ability to plan ahead and make a booking at a time that will suit you both.

With me, I, gratefully, am not stuck for business and there is never going to be a case where I am “free now”, because I plan my my days between bookings and personal commitments, I will always look after my regulars or previous customers because I am very grateful for their support and business, but these ladies who need to see a high volume of clients in order to make profit, they owe you NOTHING, They are doing the best they can in their circumstances.

My attitude to this “free now” craic is Would you ever kindly fcuk off, If you could not plan ahead and arrange a time with me that will suit us both That is your problem not mine, I pay a small fortune for my advert on EI, As do these ladies who you go to see TonyB, where are my times and dates and diary are clearly available, ,

TonyB Have you never been tempted to go and see one of us ladies who are not under pressure to see a high volume of clients in order to turnover profit in order to see what a TRULY Outstanding service is like? Not me now, because I’m pretty sure the two of us would end up killing each other, but you get what I’m saying. I just don’t understand you seem to be constantly complaining about these ladies who are simply doing the best that they can.

If think you could read properly what I wrote.
I asked when she was available.
I didn't ask if she was free now. Not that any of you are ever free. Lol

The poor lady as you put it could have the manners to respond to a regular customer and not take "free now" merchant in an attempt to maximise her takings for the time.

[TonyB]

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I didn't make a booking so I can't review.
What would I say?
She didn't make a booking, annoying.
Lol

But doesn't it show how little regard many of these women have got their customers.
The things they get away with they wouldn't last a week in any other business.