Am I unreasonable

[TonyB]

That’s where you go wrong

You should be booking ones who want You - not just your money x



I know on My end - life is wonderful that way .

I'm 40 years looking for one of them. lol

[ladiesman217]

Yes.... for refusing to leave without your 1 cent change after spending €999.99, Stingy McStingerson!

[happydon11]

Understand your annoyance but I seem to have had an even worse run over these last few weeks,when I have gone to the trouble to book in advance (day before) by text and then - no show.The cycle was
1.Rose Ferrari.Booked afternoon before.Confirmed date and time and service.Arrive at location next day call and ..."sorry,I thought you meant yesterday and am out now"
2.Truly English Meaghan.Booked date and time the evening before by text and confirmed.Address sent.Wake next day to text message about being in A&E.I joke you not and then see review for same day.
3.Klarice Da Silva.Booked time and date the day before.Asked to confirm next day and 30 min before.Did both confirmations and acknowledged.Text to see if I am on way.Arrived at location.Called and then silence.Repeated a few texts but no reply

Am pretty pissed off as I was looking forward to all 3 and have had pretty good success on this site up until these events

Strange this. Usually book same day/morning and nearly always worked out well but when I give advance notice I am let down. WTF !!!

Such is life !

Same with one of the above and another Lady.
Booked in advance too.
But hey there's other Ladies that dont disappoint the appointment. Lol.

[mellors]

Only happened to me twice and yes it really pissed me off as well. A girl who I saw regularly, had never messed about, who I had arranged to meet at a certain time texted me 5 mins before and said she had another appointment and could I come back in 45 mins. Could I fuck, respect goes both ways. Now, double booking I understand to a certain extent because of the problem with time wasters, but surely not with someone you've meet before plenty of times. Texted her how I felt about it and that I had better things to do and not to take good punters for granted. Got a very apologetic text back !

[Blue60]

I'm 40 years looking for one of them. lol

To be fair, you have given it your best shot !

[Blue60]

Only happened to me twice and yes it really pissed me off as well. A girl who I saw regularly, had never messed about, who I had arranged to meet at a certain time texted me 5 mins before and said she had another appointment and could I come back in 45 mins. Could I fuck, respect goes both ways. Now, double booking I understand to a certain extent because of the problem with time wasters, but surely not with someone you've meet before plenty of times. Texted her how I felt about it and that I had better things to do and not to take good punters for granted. Got a very apologetic text back !

You are a very experienced client. . Very frustrating.

[thehighwayman]

That's the risk trying to book last minute. Things don't always go to plan. I wouldn't be too harsh on her. Sounds a bit hectic. Her friend was still in the appartment. From her point of view she has to do what's best for her.

[bigthiefmasterpiece]

I think it's reasonable to expect a girl to be professional in arranging their appointments. I've generally found if this is the case, then the service is also good. It's a good rule of thumb that hasn't led me astray yet. The 'good clear comms' comments in reviews convey so much more.

[AmorInfinito8]

Now I know I am a grumpy fuck and easily annoyed.

About 1pm I sent a message to a young lady asking when she was available.
She said in a little while so I left it an hour and asked again
She replied I can't now because my friend is sleeping.
Ok well let me know when.

I'm close by so I could be there in 10 minutes.

I get a message now stating that she's available in half an hour because another punter has just booked.

This pissed me off, she takes someone she doesn't know over me who she does know.
Because I can just wait.
Well I'm not waiting, I booked someone else who wants my money

I can understand your annoyance
but you didn't technically book a time!?

Next time or in general
ask for a specific time 1pm/2pm etc
If it doesn't suit her and she doesn't give you the option of an alternative time then just say

"No problem I'll contact someone else"

That way you'll get a straight answer to your booking one way or the other and not be left hanging around

I've only ever been let down once and accepted the valid reason given so continued to see the girl in question

I'm used to traveling long distance to see girls so I book well in advance and I'm not used to being stood up especially not for another client

If that ever happened no matter the distance or who the girl was I'd be turning around and the girls number would be blocked and then deleted

But only if we had actually agreed a time!!
which unfortunately Tony going by your post your going to have to hold your hands up on this one and admit you hadn't booked a time!?

If you like this girl!?
If it were me I'd consider giving her another chance only next time don't generalize don't be vague

Book a time!!

If she lets you down then she's no one to blame but herself for getting a bad review for being a time waster!!

[TonyB]

I can understand your annoyance
but you didn't technically book a time!?

Next time or in general
ask for a specific time 1pm/2pm etc
If it doesn't suit her and she doesn't give you the option of an alternative time then just say

"No problem I'll contact someone else"

That way you'll get a straight answer to your booking one way or the other and not be left hanging around

I've only ever been let down once and accepted the valid reason given so continued to see the girl in question

I'm used to traveling long distance to see girls so I book well in advance and I'm not used to being stood up especially not for another client

If that ever happened no matter the distance or who the girl was I'd be turning around and the girls number would be blocked and then deleted

But only if we had actually agreed a time!!
which unfortunately Tony going by your post your going to have to hold your hands up on this one and admit you hadn't booked a time!?

If you like this girl!?
If it were me I'd consider giving her another chance only next time don't generalize don't be vague

Book a time!!

If she lets you down then she's no one to blame but herself for getting a bad review for being a time waster!!

She wouldn't take a booking because her friend was in bed asleep.
I was in constant contact.
When her friend got up she took a booking from someone else ahead of me and she knows me.
And she knows I usually book at least an hour.
So she prioritised an unknown for 30 minutes over someone she knows is safe for an hour.
No she did it because she thought she'd get away with it and get 2 bookings
I have to say I feel a bit insulted by her behaviour