Sex addiction and new year resolutions!

[morelovin]

So as 2023 draws to a close and we make some New Year resolutions. The usual ‘get fit, drink less, eat healthy’ etc all feature for many. What about visiting escorts? You may want to visit more or you may actually be thinking visit less or stop altogether for 2024. Which leads me to ask. Is visiting escorts a sure sign of sex addiction? Do you have limits that you stick to rigidly or are you compulsive? I started this 7 months ago and worry that it may be a habit. What I thought would be a kind of experiment has become more than that. I have spent more than I thought I would. Most of the experiences have been amazing hence the continued visits. Could you stop if you wanted to. I am still of the mind it will run its course but maybe I m fooling myself. Just interested if anyone is in similar mindset.

[TonyB]

I plan on seeing more escorts

[TommyH123]

So as 2023 draws to a close and we make some New Year resolutions. The usual ‘get fit, drink less, eat healthy’ etc all feature for many. What about visiting escorts? You may want to visit more or you may actually be thinking visit less or stop altogether for 2024. Which leads me to ask. Is visiting escorts a sure sign of sex addiction? Do you have limits that you stick to rigidly or are you compulsive? I started this 7 months ago and worry that it may be a habit. What I thought would be a kind of experiment has become more than that. I have spent more than I thought I would. Most of the experiences have been amazing hence the continued visits. Could you stop if you wanted to. I am still of the mind it will run its course but maybe I m fooling myself. Just interested if anyone is in similar mindset.

Yes, I can quit anytime I want, I’ve quit 4 or 5 times at this stage..no problem 😉.

[mellors]

I gave up seeing escorts about 5 years ago and used to be a regular poster on here.
I think your situation is very similar to a lot, my initial meets where all good, that and there are/were such fabulous women on here, fueled me visiting a different woman on a regular basis for probably two years. Over that time a few became favorites and I would visit repeatedly, eventually I found this more fulfilling than meeting a new girl each time. However, over time, I hate to say this, but even this lost its sparkle and going back to see new girls just didn't do it for me as much as before, so it just sort of trailed off and eventually it just stopped.
Not saying I will never visit an escort again, but certainly not in the way I did before.
Just my personal journey

[thehighwayman]

For a few years I was just seeing one or two a year. Then 3 years during the lockdowns and getting out of the habit I didn't see any. This year I have seen more than I have for along time. I can stop anytime. There are so many beautiful women advertising I want to see more again this year. I can stop anytime and I have. At the moment I don't want to.

[Justforfun303]

Heres to 2024 and going full throttle 😜

[AmorInfinito8]

This year I've went from twice a week for Eight months with one regular to currently Zero!!

I haven't seen any girl's in 7 weeks dispite hoping to have an amazing build up to Xmas/New year

The girls I've met and would like to meet again or either gone or just too far away unfortunately with work and family commitments 5hour trips have been out of the question

I've had a lot of luck in my choices overall and I believe that in itself has probably become both a gift and curse

I do my research and one red flag is enough to put me off visiting
I won't break my own rules

So I wouldn't say I have an addiction
Well maybe for certain girls if they stayed around but other than that
I wait patiently

Who knows maybe the last girl I met will actually be the last!!🤔

[bmw528]

So as 2023 draws to a close and we make some New Year resolutions. The usual ‘get fit, drink less, eat healthy’ etc all feature for many. What about visiting escorts? You may want to visit more or you may actually be thinking visit less or stop altogether for 2024. Which leads me to ask. Is visiting escorts a sure sign of sex addiction? Do you have limits that you stick to rigidly or are you compulsive? I started this 7 months ago and worry that it may be a habit. What I thought would be a kind of experiment has become more than that. I have spent more than I thought I would. Most of the experiences have been amazing hence the continued visits. Could you stop if you wanted to. I am still of the mind it will run its course but maybe I m fooling myself. Just interested if anyone is in similar mindset.

I think too much of anything can be bad for you, however, depending on your finances and experiences in most cases things normally level themselves out after a while. I think most of us have gone through what you are describing in your post. If you have a moderate life style your wallet will probably help you along the way with your decisions.

[TommyH123]

My journey is very much like what mellors described, I’ve reached the point now where I’m happy to slow down, less is definitely more, my aim for this year is for a few longer meets, more quality but less frequent, memorable experiences, nice hotels, good wine, dinner dates maybe, I’m just to see where the chips fall, roll on 24

[bobbyj]

I think it varies per person but for me age has slowed me down from more regular meets. As well as some bang average meets has put me off. So would not be an addiction. If you can’t afford it and can’t stop, you are definitely in trouble.