Sex addiction and new year resolutions!

[Larrii]

So as 2023 draws to a close and we make some New Year resolutions. The usual ‘get fit, drink less, eat healthy’ etc all feature for many. What about visiting escorts? You may want to visit more or you may actually be thinking visit less or stop altogether for 2024. Which leads me to ask. Is visiting escorts a sure sign of sex addiction? Do you have limits that you stick to rigidly or are you compulsive? I started this 7 months ago and worry that it may be a habit. What I thought would be a kind of experiment has become more than that. I have spent more than I thought I would. Most of the experiences have been amazing hence the continued visits. Could you stop if you wanted to. I am still of the mind it will run its course but maybe I m fooling myself. Just interested if anyone is in similar mindset.

Nature designed us men to want to play with sexy women, and The Game has been around for ever as a result. Each of us has his own paths and preferences, and a "habit" is another way of saying it's interfering too much with your ordinary life. The limits are time and money. You might start collecting cars or GAA medals instead - but again you could spend a load of time and money on that sort of thing, and not on what matters in your everyday life.

Same as with the drink, most of us like a drink but you know your limits.

This site is well designed for the occasional punter and the more obsessive type. I'm in the first group, and gave up reviews some years back as they did some sort of software upgrade that didn't work for me. There's no right or wrong involvement, you do what suits you best. Variety is the spice of life.

There was a poster here called Ray some years back, who was hard on us all. Very hard. But he had a great signature : " I believe that sex is the most beautiful, natural and wholesome thing that money can buy".

G'wan out there and enjoy 2024