Good man christy , fair play for having the guts to put this out there . And don't mind what Westlife says , you're not gay ... i think you're just confused . You could be bi ? But being a virgin is what's possibly confusing you i.m.o. . Pluck up the courage and arrange a visit with a girl off this site for a half hr .
I'd recommend you choose an escort to which you are VERY attracted to , simply because us men are visually stimulated . A half an hour later you should have a good idea whether or not you are gay ! By all means book a male escort , but i'd do that only after you see a female one , cause i'd hate to walk out from the male escort thinkin you have just made a horrendous mistake and you're not gay or even bi .
Hope all goes well and this is of some use to you
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