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I find there are few diff kinds of guys re ‘going down’ .
1 . Doesn’t . No inclination , no interest . : it’s perfectly fine . I get to have more fun with Him 😁
2 . Thinks he’s Supposed to . : no joy in it for Him , likely no skill ; I sense it immediately and redirect
3 . Does it for his Own pleasure for as long as it please Him without regard of how the girl might feel :
play around long enough to elicit a response , to have her turned On : but then moves on .. .. .. .
4 . Very enthusiastic , he’s loving it , but not well versed in the art of it : if the moment allows or if
he’s open to gentle direction / interested in learning : great ! Otherwise I just enjoy it for what it is
for a bit , then we move on to other things .
5 . Oh he Knows ! He Knows How , and he Loves doing it . : can sense it in the first fraction of a second .
: I know I can relax and let the moment take me , I know he will stay to the apex , oh my , the pleasure !!
Each person is different , and at the end of the day I am here to please my guest and cater to His needs —
while of course respecting my own boundaries ; : I won’t put up with being mishandled , but I am
empathetic to my partner’s needs / wants — and that of course doesn’t always involve My orgasm .
R/O or otherwise .
MY greatest pleasure derives from my partner’s bliss - corny as it sounds : those who know me , know it 😍 x