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    Exactly how I see it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by dublindweller View Post
    .....Find something else to do for the couple of hours you would be usually punting..... do some DIY or simple cleaning and organising the house or car.
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    Quote Originally Posted by morelovin View Post
    For many in this community, visiting escorts is why you’re here. You may have nothing to lose if caught. Many here too may have much to lose and are playing a delicate game that probably involves a lot of anxiety. This is me. Question is, are there people here that want to stop but fall foul of compulsively returning to make a visit. I began this behaviour in the summer and thought I could purge it from my system. However, now with a few visits under my belt it’s all too easy. The difficulty is the longer it continues the greater the risk of something happening with catastrophic consequences(I m not really talking about the law). So, how do you get out and stay out. Probably the wrong forum! Interested all the same if there are similar thoughts or experiences.
    Don't ask Joelegs anyway

    Just be extra careful and don't get caught, the danger / risk adds to the buzz.

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    Quote Originally Posted by IrishSarahBarra View Post
    Idk, we could run some sort of campaign or something.

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    Hey, I love all the replies. Food for thought.

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    Quote Originally Posted by AngelsFan View Post






    Ha ha angelsfan .. I know that look alright lol

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    Am I addicted? I don’t think so or that could be denial. Planning a meet compulsively is probably a red flag and I have been guilty of that. I just went through some severe anxiety about my behaviour and was confronted with the worst case scenario happening.That’s a frightening thing. I still feel that it is something I was going to get out of my system. I do appreciate the will power point. I like the idea of weaning off rather than cold turkey and seize the moment when it feels it’s over. I need to prove to myself over weeks and few months that I can control it and ultimately stop. In my situation I don’t want to think this is something I can normalise in the long term. Might work for some. Appreciate the engagement.

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    Quote Originally Posted by morelovin View Post
    For many in this community, visiting escorts is why you’re here. You may have nothing to lose if caught. Many here too may have much to lose and are playing a delicate game that probably involves a lot of anxiety. This is me. Question is, are there people here that want to stop but fall foul of compulsively returning to make a visit. I began this behaviour in the summer and thought I could purge it from my system. However, now with a few visits under my belt it’s all too easy. The difficulty is the longer it continues the greater the risk of something happening with catastrophic consequences(I m not really talking about the law). So, how do you get out and stay out. Probably the wrong forum! Interested all the same if there are similar thoughts or experiences.
    Quote Originally Posted by morelovin View Post
    Am I addicted? I don’t think so or that could be denial. Planning a meet compulsively is probably a red flag and I have been guilty of that. I just went through some severe anxiety about my behaviour and was confronted with the worst case scenario happening.That’s a frightening thing. I still feel that it is something I was going to get out of my system. I do appreciate the will power point. I like the idea of weaning off rather than cold turkey and seize the moment when it feels it’s over. I need to prove to myself over weeks and few months that I can control it and ultimately stop. In my situation I don’t want to think this is something I can normalise in the long term. Might work for some. Appreciate the engagement.
    can only really speak for myself but sure many others had the same adrenaline/thrill for the first year or two, where was on a visit to a few different girls a week. like a kid in a candy shop, I did begin to think I had prob. but the thrill/adrenaline wore off , just a reg. or two or three would do me now,
    life developed different ave's too

    not sure if that helps but good luck on your journey whatever you choose to do

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    Quote Originally Posted by BarryD View Post
    can only really speak for myself but sure many others had the same adrenaline/thrill for the first year or two, where was on a visit to a few different girls a week. like a kid in a candy shop, I did begin to think I had prob. but the thrill/adrenaline wore off , just a reg. or two or three would do me now,
    life developed different ave's too

    not sure if that helps but good luck on your journey whatever you choose to do
    Great post, sums up my past, present and future in one paragraph.
    The candy shop effect wore off about a year ago and now I’m happy enough with my “monthly girlfriend”
    I’d rather have one guaranteed 5 star meet per month than any number of random “meh” ones.
    variety is grand but I know what I have and I think that’s really important.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Clubcard View Post
    Ahh no canteen or work break was complete without it.
    I worked a welding job in my teens. The bathroom in this place had three stalls and each of them had a massive overflowing stack of some of the most German porn mags I've ever seen in my life. I remember one evening at end of shift rolling up a couple of the mags and shoving them down my leg to smuggle home for a proper look.
    The next morning I came in early and put them back in the pile and swore to myself I'd never have sex.

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