Tell me…

[TommyH123]

From my own perspective and experience GFE looking at this thread is way more than just presentation and looks, services etc, it's always about intent, connection/appreciation between a man and woman. A real girlfriend is coming at you with intent, not just mirroring your energy. They like you too to analogize, Because what makes it immersive is that feeling of mutuality. Whether it be cool and relaxed playing approach through to she's attacking you coming through the door because it's her personality. At the heart of it is behavior and intent, mutuality, creating desire. Quite often in this universe the man lets the lady lead until there's trust established.I like the fiery type but I also appreciate the laid back approach but a real GFE leaves you with a feeling of mutuality and reciprocity there's no exact answer ie service way of doing things . Some people will never connect in a meaningful way because their personalities and communication styles are too different and it's disjointed and awkward as fuck. But regardless you should never leave the toilet seat up and yes I did.

[IAmLIAm]

Mmm that’s a difficult question to answer, we all know the text book answer, the definition, the check list of services that are required for a GFE experience but sometimes despite all these things coming together it feels off, it feels staged and that’s because the magic is missing.

The magic is what makes the difference, the missing ingredient that just elevates an appointment from ordinary to extraordinary and I’m telling you now guys…the magic is rare and hard to find, the magic is personality

I’ve visiting a lot of ladies who claim to offer GFE but what they offer is a list of services which they engaged in with varying levels of enthusiasm but rarely genuine enthusiasm, fk..check, eye contact…check, bj…check, sex in 2-3 positions…check, shower and leave.
Great you say, what more do you want?

What I want is fun, banter, a bit of craic, I want to laugh during a meet, I want to chat and share stupid stuff, to connect on a level other than the physical, the cerebral, sex is easy, any escort can make me cum but very very few ladies make me genuinely happy, give me that boost that lasts for days, both pre and post meet.

Genuine GFE is a random thing, there’s no check list and there’s no script, no two meets with a lady should feel the same, it evolves, from the minute the door opens I’ve no idea what’s going to happen, which direction she’s going to choose, it unbalances me, unsettles me but in a good way, I leave my comfort zone for a few hours and cede control, it’s genuinely liberating.

It’s not all on the lady either, it’s a two way thing, chemistry, connection, call it what you want, it needs to be nurtured to grow but when it takes root it’s a wonderful thing, it will keep you coming back to her, in my case for years because it never gets old.

This + This = hilarious ��

I know, I know... It's the formatting, but sometimes the subtle irony does me in.

[64west]

Mmm that’s a difficult question to answer, we all know the text book answer, the definition, the check list of services that are required for a GFE experience but sometimes despite all these things coming together it feels off, it feels staged and that’s because the magic is missing.

The magic is what makes the difference, the missing ingredient that just elevates an appointment from ordinary to extraordinary and I’m telling you now guys…the magic is rare and hard to find, the magic is personality

I’ve visiting a lot of ladies who claim to offer GFE but what they offer is a list of services which they engaged in with varying levels of enthusiasm but rarely genuine enthusiasm, fk..check, eye contact…check, bj…check, sex in 2-3 positions…check, shower and leave.
Great you say, what more do you want?

What I want is fun, banter, a bit of craic, I want to laugh during a meet, I want to chat and share stupid stuff, to connect on a level other than the physical, the cerebral, sex is easy, any escort can make me cum but very very few ladies make me genuinely happy, give me that boost that lasts for days, both pre and post meet.

Genuine GFE is a random thing, there’s no check list and there’s no script, no two meets with a lady should feel the same, it evolves, from the minute the door opens I’ve no idea what’s going to happen, which direction she’s going to choose, it unbalances me, unsettles me but in a good way, I leave my comfort zone for a few hours and cede control, it’s genuinely liberating.

It’s not all on the lady either, it’s a two way thing, chemistry, connection, call it what you want, it needs to be nurtured to grow but when it takes root it’s a wonderful thing, it will keep you coming back to her, in my case for years because it never gets old.

Can we Copy & Paste this into the GFE definition link on the profiles.

I’ll also add, I have on the rare occasion had GFE on a first meeting but usually it is something built from the second meeting on. It’s unrealistic to expect amazing GFE always on the first meeting with a new girl. Like TH said here “it needs to be nurtured”. Difficulty is finding your match then building the GFE over time.

[64west]

This + This = hilarious ��



I know, I know... It's the formatting, but sometimes the subtle irony does me in.

The problem was SG25 had 3 of those paragraphs in one block. Stephanie on other had gives a paragraph to every sentence.

[IAmLIAm]

The problem was SG25 had 3 of those paragraphs in one block. Stephanie on other had gives a paragraph to every sentence.

I understand the critique (I've been there myself), it's just the timing. I'm not even sure if the page break in-between diminishes or enhances the impact.

[TommyH123]

The problem was SG25 had 3 of those paragraphs in one block. Stephanie on other had gives a paragraph to every sentence.

Yeah, it’s a bit sad you needed to explain the concept, you nailed it though, a single space between paragraphs is what’s traditionally required, anyway two unrelated posts but I guess the obvious isn’t that obvious to some ��

[TommyH123]

Can we Copy & Paste this into the GFE definition link on the profiles.

I’ll also add, I have on the rare occasion had GFE on a first meeting but usually it is something built from the second meeting on. It’s unrealistic to expect amazing GFE always on the first meeting with a new girl. Like TH said here “it needs to be nurtured”. Difficulty is finding your match then building the GFE over time.

I guess I’ve just been very lucky, not something you expect on a first meet and yet….

[mascol]

From my own perspective and experience GFE looking at this thread is way more than just presentation and looks, services etc, it's always about intent, connection/appreciation between a man and woman. A real girlfriend is coming at you with intent, not just mirroring your energy. They like you too to analogize, Because what makes it immersive is that feeling of mutuality. Whether it be cool and relaxed playing approach through to she's attacking you coming through the door because it's her personality. At the heart of it is behavior and intent, mutuality, creating desire. Quite often in this universe the man lets the lady lead until there's trust established.I like the fiery type but I also appreciate the laid back approach but a real GFE leaves you with a feeling of mutuality and reciprocity there's no exact answer ie service way of doing things . Some people will never connect in a meaningful way because their personalities and communication styles are too different and it's disjointed and awkward as fuck. But regardless you should never leave the toilet seat up and yes I did.

I often feel that I am not doing your posts justice when I'm reading them silvergrey25, I mean that as a compliment. They make me feel like I need to do more recreational reading.

Great post bud, at 1:51 this AM you weren't going to let your creativity be constrained by conformity.

[IAmLIAm]

Yeah, it’s a bit sad you needed to explain the concept, you nailed it though, a single space between paragraphs is what’s traditionally required, anyway two unrelated posts but I guess the obvious isn’t that obvious to some ��

Clearly...

This + This = hilarious ��



I know, I know... It's the formatting, but sometimes the subtle irony does me in.

It's all just a bit of fun, it's okay to sit back and enjoy the serendipitous, unintentional comedy.

[TommyH123]

Clearly...



It's all just a bit of fun, it's okay to sit back and enjoy the serendipitous, unintentional comedy.

If you say so bud, not sure on your definition of “comedy” but fair play if you found some in there