Originally Posted by
TommyH123
Mmm that’s a difficult question to answer, we all know the text book answer, the definition, the check list of services that are required for a GFE experience but sometimes despite all these things coming together it feels off, it feels staged and that’s because the magic is missing.
The magic is what makes the difference, the missing ingredient that just elevates an appointment from ordinary to extraordinary and I’m telling you now guys…the magic is rare and hard to find, the magic is personality
I’ve visiting a lot of ladies who claim to offer GFE but what they offer is a list of services which they engaged in with varying levels of enthusiasm but rarely genuine enthusiasm, fk..check, eye contact…check, bj…check, sex in 2-3 positions…check, shower and leave.
Great you say, what more do you want?
What I want is fun, banter, a bit of craic, I want to laugh during a meet, I want to chat and share stupid stuff, to connect on a level other than the physical, the cerebral, sex is easy, any escort can make me cum but very very few ladies make me genuinely happy, give me that boost that lasts for days, both pre and post meet.
Genuine GFE is a random thing, there’s no check list and there’s no script, no two meets with a lady should feel the same, it evolves, from the minute the door opens I’ve no idea what’s going to happen, which direction she’s going to choose, it unbalances me, unsettles me but in a good way, I leave my comfort zone for a few hours and cede control, it’s genuinely liberating.
It’s not all on the lady either, it’s a two way thing, chemistry, connection, call it what you want, it needs to be nurtured to grow but when it takes root it’s a wonderful thing, it will keep you coming back to her, in my case for years because it never gets old.