Tell me…

[koopa98]

Lol next time i will prepare a lot of complaints for you!

I agree with your posts. Its definetely a mutual connection. Something very natural.

The most immersive GFE for me then... what have I done

Natural is key, I don't mind if it takes 20 minutes of chatting/bantering to get to anything sexual but that's probably just me considering how many guys only go for 30 minutes... lol

[koopa98]

Koopa, Always firing jokes

It's all I got going for me

[Silvergrey25]

From my own perspective and experience GFE looking at this thread is way more than just presentation and looks, services etc, it's always about intent, connection/appreciation between a man and woman. A real girlfriend is coming at you with intent, not just mirroring your energy. They like you too to analogize, Because what makes it immersive is that feeling of mutuality. Whether it be cool and relaxed playing approach through to she's attacking you coming through the door because it's her personality. At the heart of it is behavior and intent, mutuality, creating desire. Quite often in this universe the man lets the lady lead until there's trust established.I like the fiery type but I also appreciate the laid back approach but a real GFE leaves you with a feeling of mutuality and reciprocity there's no exact answer ie service way of doing things . Some people will never connect in a meaningful way because their personalities and communication styles are too different and it's disjointed and awkward as fuck. But regardless you should never leave the toilet seat up and yes I did.

[bananabox999]

Your very inquisitive here lately michelle

I posted a similar answer in another thread recently.

For me, i feel it needs to blur the lines between fantasy and reality. It needs to feel real, i need to feel wanted.

Iv just said feel a lot. Lol. I guess i need to feel it.

And no gfe would be complete without kisses and cuddles

[oldfool]

I agree with 64west when he says cim facials is more PSE than GFE.

GFE is a mood, a moment where the. French kissing is intimate and not forced. It’s where events happen rather than working off a list of favourites. It’s where the lady makes me believe she is enjoying the moment rather than tolerating it. ( she should be a good actress as expecting that level of intimacy to be repeated several times a day is a tall demand)

It’s therefore a harder thing to deliver, as it’s not an action, than one might think. There are a few ladies who do it naturally. Remembering your requests from the last time, starting a conversation which shows that the lady remembers, maybe your name, occupation etc.
it’s the first few words which shows the lady remembers enough to pick up where the last meeting ended.
In other words it’s how you start when we meet

[IAmLIAm]

I agree with 64west when he says cim facials is more PSE than GFE.

GFE is a mood, a moment where the. French kissing is intimate and not forced. It’s where events happen rather than working off a list of favourites. It’s where the lady makes me believe she is enjoying the moment rather than tolerating it. ( she should be a good actress as expecting that level of intimacy to be repeated several times a day is a tall demand)

It’s therefore a harder thing to deliver, as it’s not an action, than one might think. There are a few ladies who do it naturally. Remembering your requests from the last time, starting a conversation which shows that the lady remembers, maybe your name, occupation etc.
it’s the first few words which shows the lady remembers enough to pick up where the last meeting ended.
In other words it’s how you start when we meet

As everyone has already stated GFE is all the little things (cuddling, kissing, caressing, remembering the odd detail) done in a way that seems natural. I think Silver said it best with "feeling of mutuality and reciprocity".

I also agree with Oldfool, the difficulty to deliver this level of intimacy (especially if multiple times in a day) must be mentally exhausting. I am in awe of all the ladies who can manage the physical and mental stress' of the job.

[DFK]

An amazing girlfriend experience for me is one when it feels like a real connection has been made with my lady. There will be lots of French kissing which feels real and natural.

Essentially, it is when it feels like a mutual connection has been made and the meet feels like an experience rather than a transaction.

[Stephanie]

From my own perspective and experience GFE looking at this thread is way more than just presentation and looks, services etc, it's always about intent, connection/appreciation between a man and woman. A real girlfriend is coming at you with intent, not just mirroring your energy. They like you too to analogize, Because what makes it immersive is that feeling of mutuality. Whether it be cool and relaxed playing approach through to she's attacking you coming through the door because it's her personality. At the heart of it is behavior and intent, mutuality, creating desire. Quite often in this universe the man lets the lady lead until there's trust established.I like the fiery type but I also appreciate the laid back approach but a real GFE leaves you with a feeling of mutuality and reciprocity there's no exact answer ie service way of doing things . Some people will never connect in a meaningful way because their personalities and communication styles are too different and it's disjointed and awkward as fuck. But regardless you should never leave the toilet seat up and yes I did.

If I could Read your post , I might be thanking your post x


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[AmorInfinito8]

If I could Read your post , I might be thanking your post x


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Totally Agree!!!!!!!

Your not the only one Steph 🫤😤☹️

Guys!

Use Paragraphs

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Or page breaks on long posts
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PLEASE

My eyes drown In a sea of words!!


So I just give up

Stop reading your post

And move on

You may have an otherwise good valid post

But it gets lost!!!




If not for me!!





No offence meant but......…....

[TommyH123]

Mmm that’s a difficult question to answer, we all know the text book answer, the definition, the check list of services that are required for a GFE experience but sometimes despite all these things coming together it feels off, it feels staged and that’s because the magic is missing.

The magic is what makes the difference, the missing ingredient that just elevates an appointment from ordinary to extraordinary and I’m telling you now guys…the magic is rare and hard to find, the magic is personality

I’ve visiting a lot of ladies who claim to offer GFE but what they offer is a list of services which they engaged in with varying levels of enthusiasm but rarely genuine enthusiasm, fk..check, eye contact…check, bj…check, sex in 2-3 positions…check, shower and leave.
Great you say, what more do you want?

What I want is fun, banter, a bit of craic, I want to laugh during a meet, I want to chat and share stupid stuff, to connect on a level other than the physical, the cerebral, sex is easy, any escort can make me cum but very very few ladies make me genuinely happy, give me that boost that lasts for days, both pre and post meet.

Genuine GFE is a random thing, there’s no check list and there’s no script, no two meets with a lady should feel the same, it evolves, from the minute the door opens I’ve no idea what’s going to happen, which direction she’s going to choose, it unbalances me, unsettles me but in a good way, I leave my comfort zone for a few hours and cede control, it’s genuinely liberating.

It’s not all on the lady either, it’s a two way thing, chemistry, connection, call it what you want, it needs to be nurtured to grow but when it takes root it’s a wonderful thing, it will keep you coming back to her, in my case for years because it never gets old.