alot of ppl would come along and say something like "buts thats avoiding reality or you can only take positive thinking so far or you have to be a realist etc etc etc".

My answer to these ppl is i do the best i can and let the chips fall where they may but i rather be in control and have my health than read constant bs thats out of mu control and ruin my health by dwelling on it.

seems like the obvious choice really,
Westside.