Having being heavily dominated a few times now, I realise that it is actually more of a fantasy than a fetish. Even tho it was enjoyable, and I'm left with some great memories and experiences, I think it was not as enjoyable at the time than I thought it would be. I'm definitely into being dommed, but I think I'm more of a soft-dom guy. Hard-dom is my fantasy, and it should probably just stay a fantasy from now on!