The difficulty using hotels for escorts

[Joelegs]

I actually think there's been a fair amount of helpful discussion in this thread. I see the ladies sharing tips they've picked up along the way in order help each other. I see the gents sharing experiences and reminding us that we always need the keep an awareness about us. Overall, I think everyone needs to make their own assessment of the risk they are willing to take. The more information one is armed with, the better decisions they can make for themselves.

Sure, I don't want to see any girls loose out on bookings, but I also don't want to see them used in some hotel shakedown. Nor do I want punters put in a position where they are harassed by hotel management or the authorities (if the managers are over zealous) because those stories would put a real damper on the bookings. If there is a known issues somewhere, then it's better to avoid that location.

I would even say this isn't limited to hotels. I know that many apartment buildings have CCTV in the corridors or at the elevators. Granted, it's typically not as actively monitored as a hotel but if complaints start rolling in it will get looked in to. This is why it's important for both parties to act appropriately. But if you're ignorant to this and treating your trip up to the room like you're headed to your mate's to watch MMA, that's probably not going to end up as a good situation for the girl (sometimes posts like this are a good reminder of that to some of the fellas). That's not meant to scare anyone off but hiding the facts doesn't make them go away. At least if we're made aware of certain situations we can take the appropriate precautions.

Well thank you for being the voice of reason. I'm glad I wasn't trying to scare anybody, but I was trying to help anyone who perhaps decided to use this venue to keep their hard earned cash and save a client the embarrassment of being stopped in this particular hotel and asked what they were doing.

There appears for whatever reason to be a crackdown in the hotel in question. I presume that the two ladies who I know for sure lost all their money, the could be more would have liked someone to have taken the time to warn them.

Thanks for your sensible words.

[Joelegs]

Some friend you are using her problems for a silly thread
Big note to them don't confide in you
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What if all they can find is a hotel now and u just scared clients from using hotels
Great mate

Hello Annabel it's been while since you popped up for a wee snipe. Have a lovely day darling 😁

[Clubcard]

Note.. I Didn't read all of this thread.

Am I the only one who regularly visits girls in hotels and never had a problem?

Some girls in cork actually put their location in a part of cork with one hotel in that area and then show their face on their profile. Now that's just plain stupid stuff.

[AngelsFan]

Aren't you retired and living happily ever after.

Go live your life and leave all this behind you

[Joelegs]

Aren't you retired and living happily ever after.

Go live your life and leave all this behind you

I am retired thanks, I just felt it was the right thing to alert people about what was going on in Derry. It's a very small place, there are not many hotels and people know each other. I didn't want to see any more escorts caught. The management seem to allow girls to pay and then ask them to leave, but keep their money. I also didn't want clients embarrassed if they were thrown out of the hotel or worse if the hotel called the police. News travels fast in this town an a person could easily have their name blackened in Derry.

I have had a few PMs about this thread and I'm glad l tried to help. As for me I'm done with the life unless things don't work out, but I'm enjoying life and enjoying a real relationship again.

[carlarios]

I know I'm retired, but I thought this information would be useful for the members of the community living in and about the Northwest and escorts who work out of hotels there.

Hotels have been the subject of many threads. This week, an escort who is a good friend of mine had a rude awakening about working in hotels. She has worked from a well known, city hotel, in Derry for years without any issues. This city hotel has been the venue for many a pleasant morning for me in Derry and holds great memories.

The escort in question and her friend checked in separately. The hotel placed them in different floors, in rooms opposite the lifts. These rooms were covered by CCTV outside the lifts.

My friends colleague saw one client for a 30 min appointment. Directly after the appointment the manager knocked on her door and told her to leave, otherwise he would call the police.The hotel kept all the ladies money, no refund was offered for the remaining nights she had booked.

My escort friend contacted me in a very difficult and stressful position to ask my advice. She had seen no clients as yet, but had a 30min booking in one hour. She knew that the same fate was going to happen to her once she saw her client.

My advice was not to see the client. She knew that she would have to leave the hotel anyway. I told her it would be better for her to leave on her own terms and avoid the humiliation of being asked to get out. She had asked twice for a change of room, but the hotel refused, they had placed these ladies where they could monitor them with CCTV and funneled them into a trap.

As my friend had not seen any clients yet, technically she was just another guest until the hotel could prove otherwise. I told her to go to the reception and ask for her money back because the room was older, tired and shabby. I also told her to say she was a light sleeper and that the noise from foot traffic using the lifts would keep her awake all night. I further advised her that if they accused her of working as an escort to become angry, stand her ground and tell they how dare they accuse her. The important thing was to get out with a refund.

My escort friend took my advice and the manager gave her full refund and checked her out. The hotel needed evidence and without this they couldn't prove that she was working from their premises as an escort. However, they did let her know that they were monitoring the website and that her friend had been asked to leave. My friend just told them she didn't know what they were talking about and insisted on a full refund; fair play to her for standing her group and following through.

I worked for years in conflict and I was always trained to do the unexpected because it threw people off, to attack instead of runt and to withdraw out of a situation on my terms while staying in control of the environment around me. This is exactly what my friend did, the hotel never expected her to have the balls to walk up to the front desk and demand a refund; this threw them off guard.

I have heard that the city hotel in Derry that I am writing about has done this before to escorts. They have asked them to leave without refunding the money for the other nights they had booked that week.

So what do you think, are hotels still safe to visit escorts in, this city hotel in Derry certainly seems burned as a location for meeting ladies.

Perhaps, someone can advise escort their legal rights are if they are asked to leave a hotel; does the hotel have the right to keep all their money, or should the hotel refund the escort for other nights they had booked?

The city hotel I'm writing about was a great spot, but it seems that the management are now monitoring the website which is a real shame.

Perhaps, I have retired at just the right time lol. If anyone is interested I'm still loving my new way of life and being in a relationship. I have known this lady for 26 years and I have seen a whole new firey side to her that I didn't know existed.

So guys and girls if you are going to use hotels in the city say frosty and keep your head on a swivel because you never know who is watching you on CCTV lol!
While I was active I always preferred a quiet apartment to hotels and with this final thread I respectfully rest my case and say goodbye.

Joe ��

Unfortunately, the accommodation crisis in Ireland has led more and more escorts to stay in hotels! I personally don't find it comfortable at all because I'm stuck in a room all day, I have no space to relax other than the bed!
And there is still the possibility that someone will try to take advantage of us! And that was the case! Because this is nothing more than taking advantage of the person! Canceling your stay is your right, but not making a refund is taking advantage!
I think this is nothing more than prejudiced people! And in many cases these same people later call us asking for an appointment in a "private and discreet location".
But this work is risky in different ways, we all know that!
So I feel sorry for the girl who went through this situation! What we have left is to move forward and not let this get us down!

[Noregrets]

Note.. I Didn't read all of this thread.

Am I the only one who regularly visits girls in hotels and never had a problem?

Some girls in cork actually put their location in a part of cork with one hotel in that area and then show their face on their profile. Now that's just plain stupid stuff.

No your not the only one. Ive never had any issue at all.
People book hotels all the time purely to have sex, weather they are in a relationship, having an affair or just after having hooked up.

I do agree girls are mad in my opinion to have clear.photos on their profile.

As for guests in the room next door complaining, how.would they know.. they are probably only in the hotel for a night or.2 and wont be concerned about whos in the next room.

Your more likely to have concerned neoghbours in an apartment.

[Sonya007]

Lately has been very hard for me finding accommodation. Last time I went to a hotel which I paid for 4 days and couldn’t work and been thrown out because someone recognised me from the website profile i could not do nothing about it, after that I went to an Airbnb which I paid for 1 week and been thrown out after 3 days in the morning because of “ suspicious activites “ ( just had 3 visits, all quiet no problems ! ) . I do not know what to do further, i would be interested about Cork, Galway, Derry or anywhere outside Dublin ( because the work is dead here ) does anyone have any recommendations? Thanks.

[Joelegs]

Accomodation is a problem everywhere. If you pm me I can send you a couple of addresses in Derry. That seem to operate with no problems. I dare say the landlord knows what his houses are being used for.

[Sonya007]

Hi Joe, just tried to PM you, i would be more than interested to receive some infos about those accomodations .