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At your age you should have no problems meeting plenty of girls looking for casual sex.Originally Posted by Inexperienced6
Once you treat girls as people and not objects you should have a great and varied sex life.
Regardless of who you have sex with, if you want tye best sex, learn how to pleasure a woman and make her cum first. That will get you the best sex ever.
oldfool (30-09-23)
Wow, I'm actually shocked by the discouraging responses. I'm young at heart, so it makes me feel better about my "ripe" 31 years if a guy eleven years younger chooses me. It's socially accepted if a man chooses a younger woman, but if he chooses someone older, she's already labelled milf/mature/cougar... Fuck that. I don't want to feel like I'm already past my youth. From the shop's viewpoint, I don't care as long as you're 17+. Earlier he started a thread about wanting to be taught how to kiss. I think it's hard to find a civillian girl without being established friends already who's not only attractive, but also doesn't look down on someone who's inexperienced at age 20, especially if it comes with social anxiety. Escorts are great to discover your sexuality and a limited level of companionship with, like he said he's not interested in more than that at this stage. I often feel like I'm a therapist, because everyone has a problem that they want to alleviate by visiting me. If inexperience is yours, it's one of the many normal problems that I handle day by day. Some escorts put age limits on their profile, some don't. Simply include your age and special request in your booking, and disregard those that disregard you. I took a 21-yr-old client's virginity without any issue, I even found it interesting to broaden my portfolio with, and he left happy. He wasn't the youngest. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
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I think I commented a few years ago about my first time with someone in the profession. I was a similar age (>20 years ago) and it was mostly during a time that I lacked self-confidence, but also someone else was paying (yep) so I wasnt going to argue. My age was never an issue in my experience, but it obviously depends on who you see. Dont overthink it. I was fortunate enough to gain some experience in countries where it was legal, which really helped me relax and not overthink things. In this fair country legality is a challenge though, so I would consider longer term pros and cons (read: risk) of continuing down this path.
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Barney Rubble (29-09-23)
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A lot of the ladies advertising here don't see anyone under 25/30.
But there are a lot that are your age bracket and I can't see it been an issue.
Just ask if your age is an issue when making the booking. If it is move on.
As for the replies saying that a 20 year old shouldn't be seeing escorts as they can get it for free.
I remember when I was 20.
Maybe self confidence issues but I didn't see much action.
Maybe if this site had been available way back then I would have learned a thing or 10.
I did grow out of my shyness and self confidence issues. Well mostly.
Are we there yet ?
Different times Barney
I would say we are from the same era
Girls held back by the church
And parents
Not the same now
He’d have no bother getting some
These days without visiting escorts
Just needs to make the slightest
Effort
Maybe that’s his problem here
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Yeah different times surely. But issues with self confidence and shyness don't change . To say that he just needs to make the slightest effort is unfair. Definitely was in my case anyway...
Last edited by Barney Rubble; 29-09-23 at 19:50. Reason: Well they do but with time and a few life lessons.
Are we there yet ?
Nothing changes without effort
But it took huge amount back in the day
To get through the layers of clothes
Was achievement alone
Parkas heavy jumpers shirts etc
It was tough work
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Studies would disagree with you. Whilst things might be more open for young people these days, they in fact seem to be less experienced and having less sex, etc...
Young people are totally anxious and self concious these days, all the dateing apps have them questioning their worth on a daily basis.
Ps.. dieve.. 31? Still a baby
AmorInfinito8 (01-10-23), Barney Rubble (29-09-23),
Good pointStudies would disagree with you. Whilst things might be more open for young people these days, they in fact seem to be less experienced and having less sex, etc...
Young people are totally anxious and self concious these days, all the dateing apps have them questioning their worth on a daily basis.
Ps.. dieve.. 31? Still a baby
But we are getting sidetracked
The op said he didn’t want
A relationship
My take on this is he doesn’t want to put
The effort into one
Nothing to do with being self conscious
Self centred maybe
Its not an issue in right meaning.
I never ask about age. But i will not lie… iam always confused if i see someone very young in first moment. But lets say sometimes iam surprised in good way. Actually i have a few regular “Benjamins” in their 20’ - its not always about age. Some of them know how to treat a woman. If so, iam curious and ask if they had some long relationship earlier or how is it possible… mostly they answer they did. Its same when i can guess easily who is watching and learning from porn.
My answer would be i have not problem with young guy who has some experience…
Iam probably a bad teacher. All what i can say its something like close your eyes and stop thinking.
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