Anyone in a LTR yet still punt with a clear mind?

[AbsoluteNoob]

Whats the craic, E-I!

Havent posted on here in an age. So, as the title suggests, how many here are in LTR's and punt regularly?

I'm with my current partner half a decade, I still find her immensely attractive, and love the bones of her and I want to spend the rest of my life with her.

Here's the thing, I also want to fuck other people, no strings attached.

Not on a night out, or a secret fling.

Just a once off, business/pleasure (exclusively with escorts), and be on my way.

I know its a severe case of having your cake and eating it too, but I just want to mix it up a bit.

I wanna taste another womans pussy. A new smell and touch. I want to see trans women again. Its a magical experience looking at a pretty girl with a rock hard cock boucing on top of you.

But I also dearly love my partner.

The itch is strong.

I hate being a man lol.

[TonyB]

You only live once.
I'll sure you're partner thinks the same.
From my experience women are worse than men, they just hide it better

[passive1]

15 years in an open relationship, see escorts when in the mood and have met a lot of married women for what they ain't getting at home from a few apps.

[Barney Rubble]

LTR's. Had to read the OP's full post to work out what it meant.

And no. I'm old and all alone.

[Mrbean76]

Whats the craic, E-I!

Havent posted on here in an age. So, as the title suggests, how many here are in LTR's and punt regularly?

I'm with my current partner half a decade, I still find her immensely attractive, and love the bones of her and I want to spend the rest of my life with her.

Here's the thing, I also want to fuck other people, no strings attached.

Not on a night out, or a secret fling.

Just a once off, business/pleasure (exclusively with escorts), and be on my way.

I know its a severe case of having your cake and eating it too, but I just want to mix it up a bit.

I wanna taste another womans pussy. A new smell and touch. I want to see trans women again. Its a magical experience looking at a pretty girl with a rock hard cock boucing on top of you.

But I also dearly love my partner.

The itch is strong.

I hate being a man lol.

The vast majority of punters are in long term relationships or married.

[Dieve]

I'm really glad someone already mentioned being in an open relationship. I wish more people tried to present this alternative to their partners without the fear of repercussions, so the "clear mind" wouldn't even be a question at all. My mind is clear as I'm literally just minding my own business, if they don't cheat with me, they'll cheat with someone else, but I felt so much happier when the client told me that he asked his girlfriend's approval whether he chose the right escort to visit before he came. I understand some people do it specifically because it's not allowed, the taboo element gives them the buzz they miss in their lives, but in most cases they said it's either secret or divorce, as their partners are still stuck in the middle ages of mononormativity. Actually it's not rare that both parties cheat, they just don't have the guts to confront the other to propose what would clearly suit both of them if they were willing to drop the pretense of a basic couple.

[TonyB]

Don't have a relationship.
Simple

I don't know the number of my friends who have sexless marriage only to move on to another partner and after a few years they have a sexless relationship.

How do you stop a woman having sex?
Marry her

[TommyH123]

Don't have a relationship.
Simple

I don't know the number of my friends who have sexless marriage only to move on to another partner and after a few years they have a sexless relationship.

How do you stop a woman having sex?
Marry her

Bit simplistic there T, just blame the woman and move on, not always the case, maybe the woman loses interest in sex because she wasn’t getting enough from her guy, cause and effect kind of thing.
Personally speaking I know that my missus could go weeks at a time and have zero interest in sex until I make a bit of an effort and then she’ll be as up for it as me, it takes two to tango.
I don’t see escorts nearly as much as I did a few years back, there’s one or two that I can’t resist, sexy ladies, great personalities, fun to be with an to be around, I see them just to keep the excitement/fantasy element in my life, we all need that.
There’s nothing to deep in my reasons for seeing escorts, I like pretty young women and I like sex, it’s nothing more than that

[TheFalcon]

"But I also dearly love my partner. "

Im probably at the same stage now where my relationship could be called Ltr,

I doubt myself on the quoted there- I think there is something missing , particularly a sexual spark and thats why Im still attracted to visiting escorts,

I think back ten years to my previous relationship (which was with a former escort) and maybe I never can truly let go of that,

Sometimes I wonder could that relationship be rekindled and thats why I still see other escorts, I cant let go of that desire for being in the company of beautiful young women even if its just for an hour a month or something fleeting

Regardless of whether I visit escorts or not, Id like to be able to say your quoted words with conviction but am hesitant on that. I think if I stay in the relationship- the desire to liaise with other women and continue to visit escorts or certain escorts will only grow stronger

[FullIrish]

I like pretty young women and I like sex, it’s nothing more than that

Pretty much lol.