Sex assault incident in Kerry....

[luther]

No, nothing at all like that has ever happened to me in any way. I just don't like the pitchforks, I like things to be fair.

He was convicted in a court of law. How is that not fair???

NOW the other guy here said that yeah, he got what he deserved. So maybe he really did. I don't know.

What other guy here???

I shouldn't have commented at all as I don't know anything of the case apart from what's told in the media.

Correct, but the media have also reported that this man has been found guilty of this crime, yet for some strange reason, you have chosen to defend him in some way, or to justify his actions, based, according to yourself, on what's reported in the media................

[Doozer]

Are we sure it wasnt just E-X P trying to add to his knicker collection?

[dumbledore]

Sex assault victim asks locals not to judge her - The Irish Times - Mon, Dec 21, 2009

I think this girl/woman is milking it for all it's worth. Does there not seem anything odd to you about this...

I think she led him on, he was probably drunk out of his head and now she's playing the victim. Real victims don't say things like what's she's saying. They're not all dramatic like she is being, and they really hate the people who committed the act against them. They don't ask the locals "please don't judge me"... they get on with their lives.

"She added that Foley had effectively got five years for sexually assaulting her, but that she had to live with that for life." ==> what a dramaqueen. She's playing to the media, parroting away what she heard she's supposed to feel like. People like her disgust me.

It was only a single incident. She wasn't raped. I know it's a very serious thing, but she doesn't have to live with it for the rest of her life. She'll forget about it.

He got five years in prison for that? I think it's ridiculous. I blame the media and the unnatural way we're brought up. It's all messed up. People are so extremely sexually repressed that they don't understand how to deal with things like this. The judge probably thinks he's such a valiant knight putting 'scum of the earth' away while the girl thinks she's a courageous woman. And worst of all, people are unable to think for themselves.

Well that's all I have to say on it. But before you come in on your high horse, just think that some day you too might be the real victim, the person noone believes because it's not "the cool thing to do nowadays". And spare a thought of that poor man sitting inside in jail tonight because of something that he did on the spur of a moment.

Are you one of his mates?

[westcorklad]

Sex assault victim asks locals not to judge her - The Irish Times - Mon, Dec 21, 2009

I think this girl/woman is milking it for all it's worth. Does there not seem anything odd to you about this...

I think she led him on, he was probably drunk out of his head and now she's playing the victim. Real victims don't say things like what's she's saying. They're not all dramatic like she is being, and they really hate the people who committed the act against them. They don't ask the locals "please don't judge me"... they get on with their lives.

"She added that Foley had effectively got five years for sexually assaulting her, but that she had to live with that for life." ==> what a dramaqueen. She's playing to the media, parroting away what she heard she's supposed to feel like. People like her disgust me.

It was only a single incident. She wasn't raped. I know it's a very serious thing, but she doesn't have to live with it for the rest of her life. She'll forget about it.

He got five years in prison for that? I think it's ridiculous. I blame the media and the unnatural way we're brought up. It's all messed up. People are so extremely sexually repressed that they don't understand how to deal with things like this. The judge probably thinks he's such a valiant knight putting 'scum of the earth' away while the girl thinks she's a courageous woman. And worst of all, people are unable to think for themselves.

Well that's all I have to say on it. But before you come in on your high horse, just think that some day you too might be the real victim, the person noone believes because it's not "the cool thing to do nowadays". And spare a thought of that poor man sitting inside in jail tonight because of something that he did on the spur of a moment.

You really are clueless arent you.

[scratch cup]

Would you not think this lady has been through enough with out having her case revisited on an escort website by a very an invidual that either posted this thread to provoke a reaction or else has no compassion for ladies in similar situations


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[Mousey]

"victims" on rare occasions get it into their heads sometimes and run with it. It might be only 1 in 1000 people that does it or has the mentality to do it, but some people get the victim mentality into their heads and love that feeling.

God help me, but I actually agree with that particualr statement. You see it all the time regarding knackers and minorities etc. I think the mistake nicegirls made was directly associating this behaviour with this particular victim - nicegirls, you would have been far better making this point as a general topic for a debate. There doesn't seem to be a doubt in anyone's mind that this poor woman was indeed a victim of a sexual assault.