To bring a gift or not?

[Blahdamo]

Hi all, any advise on bringing gifts to appointments if you have not previously met?
If good idea what do people generally bring?
Thanks

[Mrbean76]

Hi all, any advise on bringing gifts to appointments if you have not previously met?
If good idea what do people generally bring?
Thanks

I don't usually bring a gift when I'm meeting a lady for the first time. I'd imagine ladies who tour don't really want gifts as they're moving on constantly, extra cash is always appreciated

I do always bring my regulars a little token of my appreciation, wine, chocolate, flowers, scented candles, perfume.

[enfr]

Hi all, any advise on bringing gifts to appointments if you have not previously met?
If good idea what do people generally bring?
Thanks

I do. Most of times.

Generally speaking I'd threat the escort I'm about to meet like I'd do with a girlfriend or any woman I'd go out. Someone may say it's stupid, whatever.

I would bring with me a simple chocolate, although I noticed girls gets tons of it.
Sometimes I'd bring something more personal, especially on recurrent encounters.
Maybe a perfume, maybe a flower, even some plush toy, it depends much on the day/mood and how much time I have in advance.
When I'm keen to meet someone and I can to surprise them, I'll do.

Here in the forum you will find plenty and plenty of discussion where people say: money's is king.

I did tip few times, sometimes a bit, sometimes generously. IMHO, it does make a difference. In my personal experiences, an escort may not even thank me for a very delicate and nice chocolate box, but always thanked me on cash/tip. Maybe just coincidence, who knows.

To be fair, in a first meeting I bring something tiny, just as appreciation.

If personalities and chemistry allows, after some more regular appointments, I try to be nicer and nicer. People pleasing someone may tell.
Even some people may say I'm trying to get freebies. That's never my point.
Someone once told me, these gifts are getting you nowhere. I never thought someone would misinterpret me so bad. But I understand where it is coming from, and I respect that.

I heard from a girl, she didn't like guys like me who try to be nice. Because she avoids and don't want to give any room for expectations. Fair.

Well, back to the point.

Bring something if you want to start right and have an ice breaker and set a good mood for the session. Chocolate may just be a beaten path, some escorts hate flowers, some like. Can't predict. With cash you can't go wrong.

[FredBiscuits]

I would bring with me a simple chocolate

Like a Curly Wurly?

[Irelandbeautyyy]

I think the best gesture which you can do is asking her what she likes. I think i always reply something like chocolate, fruits, nuts… most of times i reply something like he is enough but if he really want to bring me something, he could bring me fruits like blueberries or rasperries. I love it! Its important to ask, many times i receive a wine but i dont drink… but it still dont take my smile as its really nice to see some clients care more than its only necessary…
Its also nice if clients read our reviews and pay their attention to dettails. Sometimes there is said a lot of useful about us.

Anyway if client bring something small for first time… lets talk what does it mean… this client has really interest to make a good impression on me. I know he made some effort about it earlier before our appoitment… when he was standing in shop and was wondering what to bring. It can show a lot about him. Or if he ask if there is something what i like.

[Rockerman]

I think the best gesture which you can do is asking her what she likes. I think i always reply something like chocolate, fruits, nuts… most of times i reply something like he is enough but if he really want to bring me something, he could bring me fruits like blueberries or rasperries. I love it! Its important to ask, many times i receive a wine but i dont drink… but it still dont take my smile as its really nice to see some clients care more than its only necessary…
Its also nice if clients read our reviews and pay their attention to dettails. Sometimes there is said a lot of useful about us.

Anyway if client bring something small for first time… lets talk what does it mean… this client has really interest to make a good impression on me. I know he made some effort about it earlier before our appoitment… when he was standing in shop and was wondering what to bring. It can show a lot about him. Or if he ask if there is something what i like.

Bananas off Bananabox? Or is the main banana enough ?

[Irelandbeautyyy]

Bananas off Bananabox? Or is the main banana enough ?

I think you are childish now

[FullIrish]

I think i always reply something like chocolate, fruits, nuts… most of times i reply something like he is enough but if he really want to bring me something, he could bring me fruits like blueberries or rasperries. I love it!

You're the only escort who I brought a piece of fruit for as you'd said you kept getting chocolate and had too much! Felt a bit silly on my part but you seemed happy enough with it at the time Can't beat a healthy snack before some exercise I suppose! I'll bring more next time!

[rockonallnite]

Let's put this way...I brought small gifts before the appointments wanting nothing in return and I got unexpected services!!
Moral of the story: it paid off to be nice.

[Irelandbeautyyy]

You're the only escort who I brought a piece of fruit for as you'd said you kept getting chocolate and had too much! Felt a bit silly on my part but you seemed happy enough with it at the time Can't beat a healthy snack before some exercise I suppose! I'll bring more next time!

Everyone knows i love chocolate and everything sweets but its important to keep some balance lol. I didnt only seem to be happy but i really was!

You are always welcome if you make a trip to Kildare.