Unconditional it needs to be

[beautyaddict]

If you help an escort in any way, money , advice , admin like a PPS number or anything else

If you see an escort a lot , become a regular , spend a lot of money

If you promote /support her on here

Or any other help

It cannot have strings/expectations attached. It has to be unconditional , no you owe me , no she used me , no you betrayed me or any other such nonsense , If you are helping, you made that decision not her you are the owner of it. She owes you nothing beyond time and companionship . If she allows you some additional access like private number thats not a vow .

And accordingly do not become a monster /stalker or any shade of that . Do not start harassing her . She is making a living and if you over read it thats on you. Expect nothing and be very very very surprised if she of her own volition goes further , and even then it will have boundaries .

Expect her to retire , treasure the memory and leave her in peace .

Why post this ?

Because in last few months I have seen/ been involved in several situations where it has got out of hand some of it public, some of it private none of it right no matter how intense the guy sees it. Do not put stress or indeed fear into a provider because you lost the run of yourself. And if have fallen for someone then be a man and take the pain , not easy but no amount of stalking, harassing pleading is going to help , just the opposite. So man up if it happens to you . I have been there but did not go all bonkers so I get it , I understand that pain

Yes I have strong feelings about this as I have seen the damage done and believe me girls have enough other shit to deal with with bad clients/ stupid messages etc etc besides someone they thought was a good guy/reliable mature going psycho as well.

Rant over