Least you'd expect

[Dieve]

Love to try meet up with a guy for some fun. But im not into anyone that is obviously gay. He'd have to be straight acting like myself. But how do you identify a like minded guy without coming out?

You obviously gotta try Grindr, there are plenty of average-looking and discreet dudes looking for hookups. Real life would only work in a gay bar unless you get extremely lucky.