Privacy vs Security

[MistressMonique]

In the current climate I appreciate how we all wish to protect our privacy and private lives and whilst we want discretion we either as a worker or client give a little bit away during a booking...phone number, face, car, address, etc

The more comfortable we feel with the person generally shapes the amount of personal information shared

How would you feel as a client if you had to provide say your passport or driving licence to book a session as a countrywide initiative for sex worker safety ... would you still punt? Would you think your privacy is more important than the workers safety ?

I'm just interested in how both clients and workers feel

[TommyH123]

In the current climate I appreciate how we all wish to protect our privacy and private lives and whilst we want discretion we either as a worker or client give a little bit away during a booking...phone number, face, car, address, etc

The more comfortable we feel with the person generally shapes the amount of personal information shared

How would you feel as a client if you had to provide say your passport or driving licence to book a session as a countrywide initiative for sex worker safety ... would you still punt? Would you think your privacy is more important than the workers safety ?

I'm just interested in how both clients and workers feel

Not a chance , it’s a discretion game,

[MistressMonique]

Not a chance , it’s a discretion game,

Even for safety if your information was guaranteed discretion say on for example an EI database? The workers don't get your details but they get assurance that who you are is known by a regulatory or safety body?

[TommyH123]

Even for safety if your information was guaranteed discretion say on for example an EI database? The workers don't get your details but they get assurance that who you are is known by a regulatory or safety body?

Everything gets hacked eventually and I’d definitely not want EI having access to my info, it’s a non runner for me, others might think differently

[Rockerman]

For the first time in my punting life I would now completely understand an escort wanting a look at your driver's license to have a bit more security. I would have been completely against it previously.

Discretion is too important for me so I'd be unlikely to visit a girl who wanted this.

I'm definitely sticking with regular girls and I'm glad I know quite a few girls really well. I'd meet a new girl for myself from time to time, but she'd have to be very well established.

Game is changing. Ireland is now a violent country with huge diversity. I would understand girls being very cautious now. I couldn't blame them. Thankfully I'm very well established with quite a few girls and they're all brilliant.

[MistressMonique]

Everything gets hacked eventually and I’d definitely not want EI having access to my info, it’s a non runner for me, others might think differently

So it would stop you punting ?

Excluding the obvious is it the fear of people finding out or the risk of say prosecution or just everything

[bananabox999]

Cant say i would be on board with this. I understand where your coming from but i cant imagine anyone handing over their passport/id to someone they dont know. A girl i trust and have met a few times, sure, i might do. I have shared plenty, maybe too much.

What if a client requested your id, with your real name and address?

For something like you suggest the entire thing would need to be legalised and some outside authority would need to manage something like this.

[Privet]

I think asking any person to provide verified identification of who they are when they are committing what is currently deemed a crime by the laws of the state would be a big ask and a person would really want to consider doing it very carefully.

I appreciate the large risk ladies take and understand why it would be a big assistance to ladies.

However, digital images and information can never be stores 100% safely.

Discretion works both ways and whilst not a guarantee of anything is probably as good as it gets.

As rocker says, regulars is probably the best for both side.

Me personally, too much to lose so verification would be an absolute no for me.

[TommyH123]

So it would stop you punting ?

Excluding the obvious is it the fear of people finding out or the risk of say prosecution or just everything

Yes, 100%, I’d be done
Fear?..all of the above, understand the safety concerns but I’d not give up my info

[MistressMonique]

I don't mean give your information to every girl you book I mean you be a vetted database number