What is wrong with people?

[AyannaMelek]

I just read some answers here…

Maybe there are really girls who are available all day, sitting and watching their phone all the time and waiting for text “free” or “available” ….

Maybe there are girls who text their location in first text even you have not booking and you are a new client.

Rates really should be mandatory in profile as we are not in market place. Then you should have a zeroo reason to ask how much cost our company.

I have also zeroo interest to make dialogue when someone is interested about booking. Iam professional all the time. I make booking in two texts. If someone starts to ask me about more, then i automatically cancelled and answered them they are considered as timewasters.

In the end its me and my way. But all my original post is about READING our advert. Every single girl has her way how to accept bookings etc but you should respect her trom first contact.

My all point - READ our advert and then if you are comfortable what is offered, contact us in a way how is mentioned in our advert. Its so simple and so appreacite.

I fully agree with you on this. I appreciate it when someone takes time to read my advert, comes to show that he is interested just as myself to make the appointment work smoothly and naturally . Yes, I am bothered by texts like ‘free now’(I’m not a taxi), ‘available’, ‘sex’ as I am not a drive through, nor work at a meat factory. I am human and if whoever calls expects to be treated in a decent way I expect it to work both ways. I don’t like being snarky over the phone or rude, although it will happen if I’m provoked.

I work by appointments so confirmation is important to me. Just because I may be free at a certain time doesn’t mean I will entertain ‘available’ texts or take appointments. I have a private life aside of escorting.

My WhatsApp as the advert clearly says is just for virtual appointments. I don’t appreciate calls, video calls, or texts non related to that.

Every person seeking for a service should understand that we don’t take just their call in a day. We take 10,20,30 or even more calls a day and the way they speak over the phone will get them to actually meet us or not.
Texts take even more work.

Professionalism when booking an appointment is great and will take you a long way. Works both ways. The naughty talk is reserved for the actual appointment x

[bananabox999]

It really is simple

Read the advert

It does surprise me that some do in fact say not to call/text unless your ready to visit, but each to their own. I like to book in advance. Right here right now doesnt work for me.
For some reason i feel uncomfortable with that kind of advert.

[90sGunther]

Thank you Gunther for your honest reply , you say 10% out of 90 are like this (and we had a good example a couple post back) while I am saying the majority (although even 10% its already too much for my liking)

Possibly you are more accurate than I am though and maybe the ones with shitty attitudes are the minority while they stand out more . Unfortunately for me when it comes to the human race I tend to be more pessimistic

I work up close and personal with the public every day and I would say that 90 to 95% are lovely, or at least courteous and mannerly.
Unfortunately it's the others that are assholes that stick in your head and that you remember at the end of the day.
So I understand why escorts frequently feel frustrated enough to start threads complaining about their customers.
And perhaps the percentage is far higher among escort clients. I really don't know.

[Noregrets]

Sadly common sense is a rare commodity.

In my business prospective customers receive an automated message after they contact us requesting the basic information required to quote / book, and still most reply without the required information.

You do need some amount of patience dealing with the public.

[Launcelot]

Sadly common sense is a rare commodity.

In my business prospective customers receive an automated message after they contact us requesting the basic information required to quote / book, and still most reply without the required information.

You do need some amount of patience dealing with the public.

As the song goes “oh lord please don’t let me be misunderstood”

One persons version of short and quick can be another persons version of rude.

You may think you are being light and casual but the listener may perceive it totally different.

Communication has so may layers, and everyone has different expectations of norm depending on age, culture, means of communication - eg text vs phone call, tone etc.

If one works in a customer facing role one is taught to always return calls promptly.

And this gets even more complicated when the topic of conversation is intimate/confidential eg money, health, sex.

Lastly we are all overwhelmed. I can have some days where I have 60-70 calls and that doesn’t include actually doing the work.

The more we can step into the others the less likely we will take it personally.

People in high contact roles can easily get overloaded unless the manage their time and c