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    Red face the fine art of flirting??

    being someone who likes a little flirt now and then...... besides its a light-hearted topic for a change...

    This advice makes perfect sense. We enjoy being with friendly, cheerful people who make us feel good about ourselves, and it's only logical we'd be attracted to the same sorts of people too.

    Right, so you've spotted someone you're attracted too. What do you do? Experts say the first step is to establish eye contact. Just glance directly at his or her face and look away after, at the most, one second. Holding someone's gaze for longer is intimidating, and that's the opposite of how you want to appear. If he or she glances back at you, it's a pretty good indication your interest is reciprocated.

    If you blush or smile shyly, so much the better. Flushed cheeks and dilated pupils are nonverbal signals that you're attracted to someone, while a smile will make you appear attractive and approachable.

    It's also important to appear attractive yourself, and this isn't just about looks.

    Laugh a lot. Be a good listener. Pay compliments. Innuendo is never appropriate between strangers. Ask questions. Most importantly, be confident.

    "The better you know you look, the more confident youíll feel and self-confidence is a powerful aphrodisiac. Itís all in the posture. Walk tall and keep your shoulders back. Automatically youíll feel sexier.

    Once you're sure of yourself, you can also try out these basic flirt moves:
    # Flicking hair over one shoulder

    # Arching the back to draw attention to the breasts

    # Crossing and un-crossing legs

    # Tucking hair behind the ear

    # Smile properly. Relax all your face muscles and let your eyes crinkle up. Smiles are everyone's best feature.

    # Think sexy thoughts ó but keep them to yourself. Your face will indicate your interest, but saying them out loud will only make you appear crass.

    Flirt secrets

    A friend once said she found showing a hint of lace on her dates worked wonders. Other women say they find gorgeous lingerie makes them feel sexier and more confident.

    Your clothes should reflect your personality, advises a friend. She says she chooses clothes which fit in with her self-image and the image she wants to project to the world. "Think about it," she told me. "If you dress like everyone else, who's going to know you're any different?"

    Wardrobe staples no woman should be without are a pair of drop-dead sexy high heels and a decent mascara. High heels accentuate the curve of the leg, make you look taller, and force you to move your pelvis forward in order to balance. They're also pretty bad for the back, so don't indulge all the time.

    Smell fabulous. Wear an exotic perfume or a lovely body lotion. Take the time to pamper yourself. If you don't, why should anyone else?

    Be interesting to talk to. Brush up on your general knowledge and collect a couple of jokes. Have hobbies or interests outside of work.

    Don't try too hard. There's nothing more off-putting than desperation ó unless it's insincerity. Just be yourself, and be comfortable with yourself. The rest will happen by itself.

    so what other tips are there out there boys and girls???

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lynne View Post
    being someone who likes a little flirt now and then...... besides its a light-hearted topic for a change...

    This advice makes perfect sense. We enjoy being with friendly, cheerful people who make us feel good about ourselves, and it's only logical we'd be attracted to the same sorts of people too.

    Right, so you've spotted someone you're attracted too. What do you do? Experts say the first step is to establish eye contact. Just glance directly at his or her face and look away after, at the most, one second. Holding someone's gaze for longer is intimidating, and that's the opposite of how you want to appear. If he or she glances back at you, it's a pretty good indication your interest is reciprocated.

    If you blush or smile shyly, so much the better. Flushed cheeks and dilated pupils are nonverbal signals that you're attracted to someone, while a smile will make you appear attractive and approachable.

    It's also important to appear attractive yourself, and this isn't just about looks.

    Laugh a lot. Be a good listener. Pay compliments. Innuendo is never appropriate between strangers. Ask questions. Most importantly, be confident.

    "The better you know you look, the more confident youíll feel and self-confidence is a powerful aphrodisiac. Itís all in the posture. Walk tall and keep your shoulders back. Automatically youíll feel sexier.

    Once you're sure of yourself, you can also try out these basic flirt moves:
    # Flicking hair over one shoulder

    # Arching the back to draw attention to the breasts

    # Crossing and un-crossing legs

    # Tucking hair behind the ear

    # Smile properly. Relax all your face muscles and let your eyes crinkle up. Smiles are everyone's best feature.

    # Think sexy thoughts ó but keep them to yourself. Your face will indicate your interest, but saying them out loud will only make you appear crass.

    Flirt secrets

    A friend once said she found showing a hint of lace on her dates worked wonders. Other women say they find gorgeous lingerie makes them feel sexier and more confident.

    Your clothes should reflect your personality, advises a friend. She says she chooses clothes which fit in with her self-image and the image she wants to project to the world. "Think about it," she told me. "If you dress like everyone else, who's going to know you're any different?"

    Wardrobe staples no woman should be without are a pair of drop-dead sexy high heels and a decent mascara. High heels accentuate the curve of the leg, make you look taller, and force you to move your pelvis forward in order to balance. They're also pretty bad for the back, so don't indulge all the time.

    Smell fabulous. Wear an exotic perfume or a lovely body lotion. Take the time to pamper yourself. If you don't, why should anyone else?

    Be interesting to talk to. Brush up on your general knowledge and collect a couple of jokes. Have hobbies or interests outside of work.

    Don't try too hard. There's nothing more off-putting than desperation ó unless it's insincerity. Just be yourself, and be comfortable with yourself. The rest will happen by itself.

    so what other tips are there out there boys and girls???


    Honestly the best tip I have for getting a lady in the sack is to get she smashed on Snakebite and ride her before she wakes up.

    That and holding eyecontact.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lynne View Post
    being someone who likes a little flirt now and then...... besides its a light-hearted topic for a change...

    This advice makes perfect sense. We enjoy being with friendly, cheerful people who make us feel good about ourselves, and it's only logical we'd be attracted to the same sorts of people too.

    Right, so you've spotted someone you're attracted too. What do you do? Experts say the first step is to establish eye contact. Just glance directly at his or her face and look away after, at the most, one second. Holding someone's gaze for longer is intimidating, and that's the opposite of how you want to appear. If he or she glances back at you, it's a pretty good indication your interest is reciprocated.

    If you blush or smile shyly, so much the better. Flushed cheeks and dilated pupils are nonverbal signals that you're attracted to someone, while a smile will make you appear attractive and approachable.

    It's also important to appear attractive yourself, and this isn't just about looks.

    Laugh a lot. Be a good listener. Pay compliments. Innuendo is never appropriate between strangers. Ask questions. Most importantly, be confident.

    "The better you know you look, the more confident youíll feel and self-confidence is a powerful aphrodisiac. Itís all in the posture. Walk tall and keep your shoulders back. Automatically youíll feel sexier.

    Once you're sure of yourself, you can also try out these basic flirt moves:
    # Flicking hair over one shoulder

    # Arching the back to draw attention to the breasts

    # Crossing and un-crossing legs

    # Tucking hair behind the ear

    # Smile properly. Relax all your face muscles and let your eyes crinkle up. Smiles are everyone's best feature.

    # Think sexy thoughts ó but keep them to yourself. Your face will indicate your interest, but saying them out loud will only make you appear crass.

    Flirt secrets

    A friend once said she found showing a hint of lace on her dates worked wonders. Other women say they find gorgeous lingerie makes them feel sexier and more confident.

    Your clothes should reflect your personality, advises a friend. She says she chooses clothes which fit in with her self-image and the image she wants to project to the world. "Think about it," she told me. "If you dress like everyone else, who's going to know you're any different?"

    Wardrobe staples no woman should be without are a pair of drop-dead sexy high heels and a decent mascara. High heels accentuate the curve of the leg, make you look taller, and force you to move your pelvis forward in order to balance. They're also pretty bad for the back, so don't indulge all the time.

    Smell fabulous. Wear an exotic perfume or a lovely body lotion. Take the time to pamper yourself. If you don't, why should anyone else?

    Be interesting to talk to. Brush up on your general knowledge and collect a couple of jokes. Have hobbies or interests outside of work.

    Don't try too hard. There's nothing more off-putting than desperation ó unless it's insincerity. Just be yourself, and be comfortable with yourself. The rest will happen by itself.

    so what other tips are there out there boys and girls???
    im not wearing lace sweetie and i dont care how nice she is.

    However im currently learning the art of de-flirting in case that big drunk baby beached whale comes over to me again.So im wearing the same jocks for six weeks now,grown a beard,shaved my eyebrows and to top it off i am wearing a sleeveless white hoodie with a blue shirt underneath and levis shorts with orange socks and black shoes.

    Sincerely (part of the art of flirting)
    Westside.

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    I'm a little more forward I tell the girl ''U look wonderful today'' ask her where she comes from & say ''maybe you'd like to come for a drink later'' I've had limited success....

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    Quote Originally Posted by Westsidex View Post
    im not wearing lace sweetie and i dont care how nice she is.

    However im currently learning the art of de-flirting in case that big drunk baby beached whale comes over to me again.So im wearing the same jocks for six weeks now,grown a beard,shaved my eyebrows and to top it off i am wearing a sleeveless white hoodie with a blue shirt underneath and levis shorts with orange socks and black shoes.

    Sincerely (part of the art of flirting)
    Westside.
    lol westie, i'm not suggesting you wear the lace, thats for the chicks, although some guys are into wearing girls underwear

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lynne View Post
    lol westie, i'm not suggesting you wear the lace, thats for the chicks, although some guys are into wearing girls underwear
    I could use a bra as my man boobs are big.I stopped wearing panties after rumours of some guys stealing them.I pefer to be honest and tell them im wearing them.

    Up Ann Summers,
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    Talking get stuck in there!

    me. i love a good flirt and the thrill of the chase, get stuck in there make them laugh, keep the conversation clean but flirty, and dazzle them with my gorgeous blue eyes and smile
    thats not my seeing, i was told by a gorgeous escort and she fell in love with my eyes!

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    Lynne ur goddess among women - i d say you could say fart and make it sound sexy.
    Personally I think its in the eyes alone - Theres no better feeling than catching the eye of a girl in checkout queue or anywhere for that matter. One glance can tell a thousand stories.

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    Quote Originally Posted by experienced punter View Post
    I'm a little more forward I tell the girl ''U look wonderful today'' ask her where she comes from & say ''maybe you'd like to come for a drink later'' I've had limited success....
    limited sucess???---ex p`s cheeks been slapped so many times particulry when the girl finds her knickers missing next morning.


    limited sucess???---ex.p`s only success involved resorting to the us of rohyphnol and duct tape.

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