Lone hot looking girl in a pub

[anon361]

Honestly, at worst you blew your chance to have a pleasent evening chatting to a beautiful woman, a best you could have been telling us about your next date... Woman aren't like men, they are not superficial and judge on looks alone like we do, it's your own confidence that let you down, not your average looks

[Forrest]

like westie said, start a conversation with her, whats the worst can happen she say sorry but i have a bf!
my motto is, in this situation, and i have gorgeous blue eyes and smile,so im told

if you dont ask, you dont get!

It's a very cheeky smile Delboy.

[am386]

great story but you were just out of luck that sound like something that would happen to me mabe she was an escort

Only because she was South American . . . Harry . . . you are F.... with me

Haha, spot on Harry.

I was in that same venue a couple of months ago with a couple of lads. They don't know I'm punting and they don't even know the punting scene exists in Ireland

We were at the club-part of the venue dancing and one of the girls was really trying to attract attention. She wasn't really my cup of tea, but my friend was really into her so he chatted her up. After two minutes her reply was: "Sure, 250€ and I'm all yours".

He told me that story later that night and I was curious and started looking at the photos on E-I. And yes, I found her profile and showed it to my friend, who has completely shocked. Dunno why I believe her profile is up right now, hope she's not reading this.

BTW Jasmin, I've been trying in vain to get an appointment with you for months (literally!), your phone always seems to be either ringing endlessly or going straight to voice mail. Am I on some kind of black list or something?

[MET-RX]

I'd say she had been stood up by a friend and was trying to make it seem as if she was with you so as not to attract the attention of the group of guys. I work in niteclub security and very often a girl will ask me to pretend to be her boyfriend/brother if she is alone and finds herself in a vunerable position with a guy/group of guys. Just my opinion hi
Also while i'm on the subject of pubs, girls it makes you look very unattractive having to be carried out of a niteclub to a taxi deadweight covered in your own vomit. Is is also extreemly dangerous for your own personnel safety........

[Forrest]

Hi boys & girls,

I am looking for your honest opinion about the following story. I will not disclose my personal opinion, because I am looking for unbiased replies.

It's a dull Sunday night. I'm an average looking guy and I head out alone for a pint or two to a popular pub & club in central Dublin. It's around 7.45 when I arrive. The pub is quiet and half empty. I sit down opposite a little stage and order a pint.

A little later a band starts performing on stage and the bar starts filling up. I enjoy the music and my pint. Suddenly this gorgeous looking woman (and I mean *REALLY* hot) comes into the bar. She looks exotic, South American I would say. Very short (almost non-existant) mini skirt, her hair pulled back and bound. She sits next to me, at a safe distance.

I continue to enjoy the music and my pint while she also orders a pint. A little while later a bunch of guys come in and crowd around the bar next to her. She moves closer towards me. Her legs are crossed and pointed at me. Her pint is on the bar behind my back, so in order to reach it she has to move her hand behind my back every single time. I continue to enjoy the music and my pint.

She seems to enjoy the music too and swings her left foot up and down to the rhythm, touching my foot every time she swings in my direction. She's looking at her phone, reading texts. 15 minutes later she heads for the loos. When she comes back she again sits next to me.

Now I have to go to the loo. When I come back she's gone. I notice she's standing next to the exit, looking at her phone. No eye contact. 5 minutes later she's gone.

Guys and girls (especially girls), what's your honest opinion of this situation?

Maybe she was waiting for a friend and, being a confident lady, was just enjoying the music while waiting for her friend to arrive. She might not have even noticed that she was touching your foot.

Or, maybe, as NBT said, she was trying to steal your wallet.

[am386]

Maybe she was waiting for a friend and, being a confident lady, was just enjoying the music while waiting for her friend to arrive. She might not have even noticed that she was touching your foot.

Trust me, she knew she was touching my foot. She initially touched it once. After I didn't respond the frequency of touches increased. At one point she actually even moved her chair closer without having a reason for that (the fellas next to her haven't moved).

Or, maybe, as NBT said, she was trying to steal your wallet.

Quite possible, with my initial position she was sitting behind my back and my wallet was in my back pocket.

But for now I still believe she was an escort looking for a client (that's why I didn't react), although I'm a little baffled by the fact that I was the only target. Did I look so horny?

[Forrest]

Of course she knew she was touching your foot. She was coming on to you - whether she was an escort, I suppose anything is possible.

She might have picked you because you were sitting on your own.

[Westsidex]

I'd say she had been stood up by a friend and was trying to make it seem as if she was with you so as not to attract the attention of the group of guys. I work in niteclub security and very often a girl will ask me to pretend to be her boyfriend/brother if she is alone and finds herself in a vunerable position with a guy/group of guys. Just my opinion hi
Also while i'm on the subject of pubs, girls it makes you look very unattractive having to be carried out of a niteclub to a taxi deadweight covered in your own vomit. Is is also extreemly dangerous for your own personnel safety........

eating a chinese takeaway.You wouldnt might that but he was standing in his own vomit while doing so.

all down his leg it was too,
Westside.

[mrbee]

A very nice well written account buddy
love the petite slim cute girls myself..

She didnt order a pint did she? i doubt the south americans drink pints
Sounds like she was bored, had no company so went out anyway, alone. thinks nothing wrong with spending the night with a new man. Grand way to spend a boring sunday night

you should have made some small talk buddy, with a polite smile then you'd know instantly if she was game.. texting is sometimes to make it look like theyre not alone and so they feel less awkward about being out alone, i think

Body language says it all but some lads like myself arent great at reading it.. the amount of bloody times i missed out on 1 night stands makes me feel so stupid, especially when i was abit younger, 2 lovely austrailian girls on different occasions, theyre accent alone is a total turn on for me.. so obvious at the time but didnt realise till the opportunity had passed.. probally thought i was a stuck up dick. all about being tuned in and alert at the right time.. thats my downfall plus a shortage of confidence

i know the feeling bud, i dont think of it at the time, only regret it afterwards..

Welcome to my world!! still you'll know for next time hopefully

[am386]

She didnt order a pint did she? i doubt the south americans drink pints

In fact she did. Believe it or not she ordered a pint of Carlsberg and drank the whole lot of it.

Sounds like she was bored, had no company so went out anyway, alone. thinks nothing wrong with spending the night with a new man. Grand way to spend a boring sunday night

I thought gorgeous women are never alone (except if they are escorts on a night out)

you should have made some small talk buddy, with a polite smile then you'd know instantly if she was game.. texting is sometimes to make it look like theyre not alone and so they feel less awkward about being out alone, i think

I was constantly swaying between "she's an escort" and "no she's not, go chat her up" and that's why in the end I didn't make a move. Real shame, I know.

Body language says it all but some lads like myself arent great at reading it..

Yep. And sometimes women try to make it sooooo obvious. This girl had her handbag on the floor between her and my stool. To take the phone out of it she had to lean down, almost putting her head into my lap

the amount of bloody times i missed out on 1 night stands makes me feel so stupid, especially when i was abit younger, 2 lovely austrailian girls on different occasions, theyre accent alone is a total turn on for me..

Oh yeah, gotta love the Australian accent. Although recently the Irish accent was voted as the sexiest accent for females:

Irish brogue voted world's sexiest accent ? The Register

so obvious at the time but didnt realise till the opportunity had passed.. probally thought i was a stuck up dick. all about being tuned in and alert at the right time.. thats my downfall plus a shortage of confidence

i know the feeling bud, i dont think of it at the time, only regret it afterwards..

Welcome to my world!! still you'll know for next time hopefully

Ah yes, I've done more blunders like that. A couple of years ago me and my friend were invited to a closed party at a club. We were in the parking lot walking towards the club when suddenly this big group of fantastic looking girls emerged out of nowhere. They were obviously already having fun. They asked if we could help them out and make a photo of their group, to which we gladly said yes. After the photo was taken one of the girls offered us tickets for the event, but we declined because we had our own. My friend and myself started walking towards the venue, but we stopped dead half way because the message finally arrived in the little brain: we were the dumbest idiots ever. We should have accepted the offer for the tickets and joined the girls for a great night out. I felt so stupid I wished the ground would open up then and there and eat me alive