Originally Posted by
Nononsense111
FreeWilly, I'm the same age as you and have been punting for 3/4 years, longer than my current relationship with my gf lol
How people feel after a meet is personal. To my earlier contribution, I don't feel any shame, I really enjoy the time spent and chemistry developed with these woman, from all corners of the planet. As a lad in my 20s, a lot of people our age don't truly know what they want, and often rush into things just to keep family, friends and nosy relations satisfied. A lot of my close friends are in terrible relationships, like me. I don't know why we do it to ourselves. They fight, they bicker, they lose interest and its all over the most ridiculous stuff. I know my and my friends situation doesn't speak to everyone, some people have the most wonderful relationships. But I do question the sustainability and long term future of many relationships people my age are in.
For me, punting is my time where I can forget about the daily shite that goes on. I don't have to worry about car repayments, my job, my gf nagging me or giving out. I spend most of my waking hours keeping working, going to the gym, helping my gf with her final year of studies or looking after my parents. Its nice to have my own time, where I can slip off and visit a lady.
There's 168 hours in a week, if I spend 0.5-1.5 of those hours punting, my week gets better tenfold.
Freewilly, for you, your mental and physical wellbeing is paramount. If meeting ladies on here brings you feelings of shame, then perhaps you should try to find other ways to be happy.
All the best my man