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    It's a good topic. Two young men have talked about the shame of buying escorts.
    Maybe it's not as glamorous as the older posters claim it to be.

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    Quote Originally Posted by AmorInfinito8 View Post
    I see you've been a member for three years with no reviews!? and only starting to post.
    Welcome to the Forum. 👍.

    The girls that Escort know what and why they do what they are doing!!
    (Well at least the girls I meet)

    Most I've met have an end game, this is just a way to a means!
    If you're mutually enjoying each other's company and you're treating the girls you meet with respect and a little love you've nothing to be ashamed of.

    If you're caught up in some moral dilemma because of the way society has training you to feel or act then it's something you have to deal with on your own terms.

    As for religion, I don't see the contradiction, there are those who believe that Jesus feel in love,married and had a child with Mary Magdalene
    an Escort!!

    https://www.history.com/news/mary-ma...ostitute-saint

    I'm not taking advantage of any girls,
    and I don't feel they are taking advantage of me, the only thing I ever feel guilty about is not spending more time with them.

    Only you know were your guilty feeling stem's from,
    but the term in your post
    "USING ESCORTS"
    might have something to do with it?

    Try making a human connection with a girl (Escort) it's a different experience
    I gave you harsh stick the other night. I apologise...(couldn't be bothered sending a PM).

    I agree with your post.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Rockerman View Post
    I gave you harsh stick the other night. I apologise...(couldn't be bothered sending a PM).

    I agree with your post.
    It's fine, 👍.
    You had a valid point on the other post, which I acknowledge. But I guess I just go your goat.
    Sometimes I do feel my point of view is more a lecture, so no problem 🙂.
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    People getting along. Nice to see

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    Went on a date recently, dinner and cinema after , very enjoyable, girl was stunning and much younger than me..really enjoyed the night, cost close to €300, got a nice kiss. Over the next week she turned psycho wanting to book hotels even though I live near her, I am single... anyway alarm bells and ending up blocking her number.

    For the same money I could have had an hours great company with most ladies here. To me the only difference is choice. Sometimes I want a nice date others I want beautiful company and sex. Either way it's costing me.

    No reason to feel guilt unless you are telling porkies to a girl to get her to do something she doesn't want to.
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    Sounds like you actually do have some regrets

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    Quote Originally Posted by Freewilly9797 View Post
    Doesnt anyone else feel ashamed to be using escorts regularly? 25 year old here dont get much success with women but every time I visit an escort even tho the excitement and adrenaline ringing and on the way to location is insane afterwards I just feel ashamed of myself.
    I lost my virginity to an escort, (fully acknowledge that was quite some time ago) , dabbled with escorts in my 20's but only dabbled and Im glad it was that way cos I had some really good long term relationships .. Im now at a point where those relationships have ended and I find escorts just great company and its a great two way street with respect being key at all times ..

    Shame , none , never, nothing to be ashamed of.. Its a cycle of life and you choose how you want to participate ..

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    Thanks all for your input. I dunno the shame is probably from my own failure to make connections with women without needing to pay them for their company. It's definitely a result of my own issues and perception of myself I'm by no means an unattractive guy but have struggled to make any real connections with a woman since probably 20 years old always thought it's because what woman wants to be with a 5 '4 guy and as a result of the loneliness have resorted at a young age to paying for the company of escorts. To put a long story short it's a me problem and maybe I should probably (definitely) get off this site and try resolve it before I go too far down the rabbit hole that being said I've had some great times with these ladies much appreciated

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    I've been a single pringle for nearly 9 years now. I wonder if I didn't avail of escorts would I have met someone by now.

    I've zero interest in dating, I have a very happy family unit now and another person in the house or just in the mix would turn it upside down.

    I get the odd escape away to meet some truly fantastic women..... its pure escapism and now feels Normal.

    Guilty or shameful no.... regrets maybe!!!

    But I Love the way I feel meeting an escort.

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    I’m 25 aswell and visit escorts somewhat regularly. The way I see it is if you enjoy sex then why not? I think it’s been drilled into us that sex is something private or taboo when it isn’t.

    Id rather do it and maybe feel some guilt rather than years down the line regretting I didn’t start sooner and tbh the guilt goes away if you do it enough 🤣

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