It's a good topic. Two young men have talked about the shame of buying escorts.
Maybe it's not as glamorous as the older posters claim it to be.
It's a good topic. Two young men have talked about the shame of buying escorts.
Maybe it's not as glamorous as the older posters claim it to be.
AmorInfinito8 (12-01-23)
Rockerman (12-01-23)
People getting along. Nice to see
AmorInfinito8 (12-01-23)
Went on a date recently, dinner and cinema after , very enjoyable, girl was stunning and much younger than me..really enjoyed the night, cost close to €300, got a nice kiss. Over the next week she turned psycho wanting to book hotels even though I live near her, I am single... anyway alarm bells and ending up blocking her number.
For the same money I could have had an hours great company with most ladies here. To me the only difference is choice. Sometimes I want a nice date others I want beautiful company and sex. Either way it's costing me.
No reason to feel guilt unless you are telling porkies to a girl to get her to do something she doesn't want to.
Last edited by Noregrets; 12-01-23 at 20:14.
AmorInfinito8 (12-01-23), bmw528 (12-01-23), Rockerman (12-01-23), Silvergrey25 (12-01-23), SteveB (12-01-23)
Sounds like you actually do have some regrets
I lost my virginity to an escort, (fully acknowledge that was quite some time ago) , dabbled with escorts in my 20's but only dabbled and Im glad it was that way cos I had some really good long term relationships .. Im now at a point where those relationships have ended and I find escorts just great company and its a great two way street with respect being key at all times ..
Shame , none , never, nothing to be ashamed of.. Its a cycle of life and you choose how you want to participate ..
AmorInfinito8 (12-01-23), bmw528 (12-01-23), Rockerman (12-01-23), Rooney2808 (13-01-23)
Thanks all for your input. I dunno the shame is probably from my own failure to make connections with women without needing to pay them for their company. It's definitely a result of my own issues and perception of myself I'm by no means an unattractive guy but have struggled to make any real connections with a woman since probably 20 years old always thought it's because what woman wants to be with a 5 '4 guy and as a result of the loneliness have resorted at a young age to paying for the company of escorts. To put a long story short it's a me problem and maybe I should probably (definitely) get off this site and try resolve it before I go too far down the rabbit hole that being said I've had some great times with these ladies much appreciated
beautyaddict (13-01-23), MidlifeCrisis (13-01-23), Rooney2808 (13-01-23)
I've been a single pringle for nearly 9 years now. I wonder if I didn't avail of escorts would I have met someone by now.
I've zero interest in dating, I have a very happy family unit now and another person in the house or just in the mix would turn it upside down.
I get the odd escape away to meet some truly fantastic women..... its pure escapism and now feels Normal.
Guilty or shameful no.... regrets maybe!!!
But I Love the way I feel meeting an escort.
AmorInfinito8 (12-01-23), beautyaddict (13-01-23), bmw528 (12-01-23), JAMESCORK (14-01-23), Rockerman (12-01-23), Rooney2808 (13-01-23), Toolbox (14-01-23)
I’m 25 aswell and visit escorts somewhat regularly. The way I see it is if you enjoy sex then why not? I think it’s been drilled into us that sex is something private or taboo when it isn’t.
Id rather do it and maybe feel some guilt rather than years down the line regretting I didn’t start sooner and tbh the guilt goes away if you do it enough 🤣
AmorInfinito8 (14-01-23), beautyaddict (13-01-23), bmw528 (12-01-23), Mrbean76 (12-01-23), Noregrets (12-01-23), Rockerman (12-01-23), Rooney2808 (13-01-23)