Is riding an escort cheating?

[Stewie]

I don't consider that men seen escorts are cheating his wife/girlfriend.

As an escort I am just providing a service, moreover, I am not a threat to the client's relantionship (I am not ringing him, asking him to see me, asking for explanation, asking him to leave his family and live with me etc) what is completely different than if I was having an affair with a married man (which I never did ).

Of course I wouldn't like to know as a wife/girlfriend that the person I love is seeing escorts however it would be much worse to know that he was having an affair.

For sure there are many different opinions and I respect all of them but I still believe that men can separate well sex and feeling (love) which women not always can, then if a woman cheats then she easily could walk away from the relantionship that she is in, not always a woman would cheat only for the sex itself, most of the times she is looking for something else (maybe another thread: why women cheat? )

I agree

Like all things in life it's not black and white yes technically it is cheating and if your wife/gf found out I'm sure they would be pissed. But it is not the same as having an affair falling in love with someone else. It's sex that's it. Maybe it could lead to an affair but that is in a tiny minority of cases 99% of the time it is sex and both sides go back to their own lives.

[rover]

I agree

Like all things in life it's not black and white yes technically it is cheating and if your wife/gf found out I'm sure they would be pissed. But it is not the same as having an affair falling in love with someone else. It's sex that's it. Maybe it could lead to an affair but that is in a tiny minority of cases 99% of the time it is sex and both sides go back to their own lives.

There's no two ways about it, it is cheating if you are married, I know if my wife found out, she'd NEVER forgive me and my ass would be kicked out the door. I know there are claimed mittigating circumstances, but I myself can offer no excuse, I'm just a two timing cheat who can't resist beautiful women.

[he who dares wins]

I don't consider that men seen escorts are cheating his wife/girlfriend.

As an escort I am just providing a service, moreover, I am not a threat to the client's relantionship (I am not ringing him, asking him to see me, asking for explanation, asking him to leave his family and live with me etc) what is completely different than if I was having an affair with a married man (which I never did ).

Of course I wouldn't like to know as a wife/girlfriend that the person I love is seeing escorts however it would be much worse to know that he was having an affair.

For sure there are many different opinions and I respect all of them but I still believe that men can separate well sex and feeling (love) which women not always can, then if a woman cheats then she easily could walk away from the relantionship that she is in, not always a woman would cheat only for the sex itself, most of the times she is looking for something else (maybe another thread: why women cheat? )

come on jasmin, i know your not chaseing the guy for dates, but if a guy goes to get sex from somewere, ie escort, bar, club or were ever its cheating, full stop!

yes your providing a service, which is a great sevice, but if a married man or a guy who has a partner goes to see you its cheating, and if hes found out he will have his balls cut off

[rover]

I don't consider that men seen escorts are cheating his wife/girlfriend.

As an escort I am just providing a service, moreover, I am not a threat to the client's relantionship (I am not ringing him, asking him to see me, asking for explanation, asking him to leave his family and live with me etc) what is completely different than if I was having an affair with a married man (which I never did ).

Of course I wouldn't like to know as a wife/girlfriend that the person I love is seeing escorts however it would be much worse to know that he was having an affair.

For sure there are many different opinions and I respect all of them but I still believe that men can separate well sex and feeling (love) which women not always can, then if a woman cheats then she easily could walk away from the relantionship that she is in, not always a woman would cheat only for the sex itself, most of the times she is looking for something else (maybe another thread: why women cheat? )

No ones blaming you Jasmin, or any other escort, the owness lies with the punter, he knows the difference between right and wrong.. By the way what's your phone number?

[Bossman]

I to have though about this and to be honest I love my partner and children and have everything I could desire from this relationship. However my partner has no sex drive and little interest in sex so what can I do.

Visiting an escort is an easy option as its keeps the family together and me sane. I know its cheating but I dont have the same attachment to an escort and can live with it.

Have to agree with Cavanman I screwed an escort two weeks in a way that I would never be allowed at home(like a rampant jackhammer)I then just got up and walked away can't even remember her name so no complications and I am kept sane for another little while.It is a bit like formula 1 every now and again you need to refuel(aka splash and dash)

[Dirty Harry]

I don't consider that men seen escorts are cheating his wife/girlfriend.

As an escort I am just providing a service, moreover, I am not a threat to the client's relantionship (I am not ringing him, asking him to see me, asking for explanation, asking him to leave his family and live with me etc) what is completely different than if I was having an affair with a married man (which I never did ).

Of course I wouldn't like to know as a wife/girlfriend that the person I love is seeing escorts however it would be much worse to know that he was having an affair.

For sure there are many different opinions and I respect all of them but I still believe that men can separate well sex and feeling (love) which women not always can, then if a woman cheats then she easily could walk away from the relantionship that she is in, not always a woman would cheat only for the sex itself, most of the times she is looking for something else (maybe another thread: why women cheat? )

its the guys choice if he wants to see an escort or have an affair but its still cheating there is no difference jasmin if the wife or girlfriend ever found out the relationship would still end for sure i know in some relationships the wife and husband are having no sex and the guy will naturally visit a beauty like you for what he cant get at home he may still love his wife and never leave her all the same we are all only human

[Stewie]

There's no two ways about it, it is cheating if you are married, I know if my wife found out, she'd NEVER forgive me and my ass would be kicked out the door. I know there are claimed mittigating circumstances, but I myself can offer no excuse, I'm just a two timing cheat who can't resist beautiful women.

I'm not saying it is ok just that it is not the same thing visiting an escort for sex is not the same thing as embarking on a relationship with another woman.

That does not mean that your wife or GF would be happy with one or the other.

Of course you have not been faithful sexually but for me there is a difference between not being faithful sexually and not being faithful emotionally. I realise your wife may not see the distinction if you got caught and perhaps it is a way of rationalising what we do but from personal experience for me the 2 are completely different.

[rover]

The majority of men are in the same position they love there wife and family and have no desire to leave them but sex is not high on the other half agenda this can be for a variety of reason but i often think thats its beacase most women have no idea how important and also irritating have a stifff dick can be ( like walking around with a monster in your trousers screaming let me out ooh look at the rack on that blonde ect also i think a lot of guys ( dont take this the wrong way please ) can be lazy when looking for extra sex hence the chat shows /magazine with the headlines of you slept with my best friend neighbour sister mother your secretary ect cos men dont tend to go very far when thinking about sex and tend to stay within there social circal of friends

At least with an escort YOU know where you stand - she is not going to start cutting your balls off unless paid to However if you have an affair with your neigbour wifes best friend ect you have no idea what her intention are and as a women they can be nothing or they can be everthing
You may very well just want uncomplicated sex blowjob ect but nothing least of all sex in uncomplicated with most women
she may want marriage children your house ect What starts off as just sex and a blowjob ends up costing you your house marriage kid possibly your job- remember fatal attraction guys

but if your other half dont know then try to keep it that way

Nicely put, ParisB.

[Westsidex]

Fairly simple.

In your opinion, is carrying on with an escort behind your wife or gf's back considered cheating?

guys who visit escorts and are in a relationship or marraige usually ask this knid of q ro make themselves feel ok with it.

Of course its cheating.If the gf /wife found out do you think her reaction would change if you said it was an escort?No it wouldnt change.

Any sexual contact with another person other than your gf / wife is cheating.

If a guy is man enough to call into an escort behind his gf back then he should be man enough to call himself a cheat too.

Westside.

[mr maxi]

If the wife caught me she would accuse me of cheating.
When i first started punting i use to feel guilty afetrwards but after 3 or 4 punts that changed.
In my view it is only cheating if you feel guilty afterwards.
We all have our reasons for visiting escorts and i don't have any other vices in life.
I see it as my hobby which i obviously enjoy. I know the risks and the consequences and my hobby is not regarded as cheating in my view.
Cheating is when you are having an affair.