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    Quote Originally Posted by mr maxi View Post
    If the wife caught me she would accuse me of cheating.
    When i first started punting i use to feel guilty afetrwards but after 3 or 4 punts that changed.
    In my view it is only cheating if you feel guilty afterwards.
    We all have our reasons for visiting escorts and i don't have any other vices in life.
    I see it as my hobby which i obviously enjoy. I know the risks and the consequences and my hobby is not regarded as cheating in my view.
    Cheating is when you are having an affair.
    Sorry, I have to disagree, cheating is cheating, there's no two ways about it, once you have stepped across that line, whether it's an affair or being with an escort, you have broken a perhaps beautiful bond with your wife, you can't dress it up, you've been unfaithful. I wish my wife would cheat on me, then I wouldn't feel so guilty. To conclude, I'll just say that I'm a two-timing hoare, but I'm so besotted with escorts, I'll take the risk, even though I'm gambling on losing a beautiful woman.

    (I often wish I was separated, then it would be a free for all), I haven't got that much time left, so I wan't to see as many escorts as I can, to me, that's what life is all about, I'll admit, I could be grossely misinformed and have my priorities assways. (how do you spell grossely)?
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    Quote Originally Posted by rover View Post
    Sorry, I have to disagree, cheating is cheating, there's no two ways about it, once you have stepped across that line, whether it's an affair or being with an escort, you have broken a perhaps beautiful bond with your wife, you can't dress it up, you've been unfaithful. I wish my wife would cheat on me, then I wouldn't feel so guilty. To conclude, I'll just say that I'm a two-timing hoare, but I'm so besotted with escorts, I'll take the risk, even though I'm gambling on losing a beautiful woman.

    (I often wish I was separated, then it would be a free for all), I haven't got that much time left, so I wan't to see as many escorts as I can, to me, that's what life is all about, I'll admit, I could be grosely misinformed and have my priorities assways.
    well said my friend if you can have your cake and eat it why the hell not I say

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dirty Harry View Post
    well said my friend if you can have your cake and eat it why the hell not I say
    It's just like being a kid in a candy shop, you can't stop yourself, these women are so stunning. I don't care about paying for it, I just can't get enough of it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by rover View Post
    It's just like being a kid in a candy shop, you can't stop yourself, these women are so stunning. I don't care about paying for it, I just can't get enough of it.
    i am with you there brother i do the same and am loveing it

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    Quote Originally Posted by rover View Post
    Sorry, I have to disagree, cheating is cheating, there's no two ways about it, once you have stepped across that line, whether it's an affair or being with an escort, you have broken a perhaps beautiful bond with your wife, you can't dress it up, you've been unfaithful. I wish my wife would cheat on me, then I wouldn't feel so guilty. To conclude, I'll just say that I'm a two-timing hoare, but I'm so besotted with escorts, I'll take the risk, even though I'm gambling on losing a beautiful woman.

    (I often wish I was separated, then it would be a free for all), I haven't got that much time left, so I wan't to see as many escorts as I can, to me, that's what life is all about, I'll admit, I could be grossely misinformed and have my priorities assways. (how do you spell grossely)?
    Rover,dont beat yourself up about seeing an escort now and again,its no big deal.I remember you telling me before that your 59 or 60 years old,so i persume you have been married 30-40 years,had and raised children and provided well for your family,i think its important for you to continue enjoying you wifes company as she too has earned the right to enjoy her twilight years, have abit of fun along the way from time to time with a few escorts,just get the balance right and dont spend all day on e-i.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Notatwork View Post
    Rover,dont beat yourself up about seeing an escort now and again,its no big deal.I remember you telling me before that your 59 or 60 years old,so i persume you have been married 30-40 years,had and raised children and provided well for your family,i think its important for you to continue enjoying you wifes company as she too has earned the right to enjoy her twilight years, have abit of fun along the way from time to time with a few escorts,just get the balance right and dont spend all day on e-i.
    Wise words, especially about getting the balance right, if you put half as much effort into your marriage as you do into E-I, you'd probably have a good marriage. You have A.A. and G.A., I wonder is there an E-I A. (I LOVE ESCORTS TO BITS).
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    Quote Originally Posted by rover View Post
    Wise words, especially about getting the balance right, if you put half as much effort into your marriage as you do into E-I, you'd probably have a good marriage. You have A.A. and G.A., I wonder is there an E-I A. (I LOVE ESCORTS TO BITS).
    Rover,its like all marraiges,its a work in progress,and it wont fail from lack of trying on my part,hope we get there in the end.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Notatwork View Post
    Rover,dont beat yourself up about seeing an escort now and again,its no big deal.I remember you telling me before that your 59 or 60 years old,so i persume you have been married 30-40 years,had and raised children and provided well for your family,i think its important for you to continue enjoying you wifes company as she too has earned the right to enjoy her twilight years, have abit of fun along the way from time to time with a few escorts,just get the balance right and dont spend all day on e-i.
    its probably no big deal to you because you wont be the one getting hurt if caught.

    How any guy who has a wife and kids says "its no big deal going to escorts" can say that is beyond me.Unless breking up the marraige and the family is no big deal either.

    It would be a big deal if it was the other way around though.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Westsidex View Post
    its probably no big deal to you because you wont be the one getting hurt if caught.

    How any guy who has a wife and kids says "its no big deal going to escorts" can say that is beyond me.Unless breking up the marraige and the family is no big deal either.

    It would be a big deal if it was the other way around though.

    All excuses,
    Westside.
    I respect your opinion,however i dont agree with you,there are 168 hours in a week and if i take an hour or two out in a week to visit an escort i dont see the harm in it if everything else is looked after,obviousely i wouldnt want to hurt my wife but you dont know my circumstances.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Westsidex View Post
    its probably no big deal to you because you wont be the one getting hurt if caught.

    How any guy who has a wife and kids says "its no big deal going to escorts" can say that is beyond me.Unless breking up the marraige and the family is no big deal either.

    It would be a big deal if it was the other way around though.

    All excuses,
    Westside.
    I never would consider going to an escort "no big deal" it is a big deal and if caught could end the relationship and me the punter would come out pretty bad.

    Whether it's cheating depends on how you look at it, if sex is withdrawn within a relationship and there no effort to try resolve this or explanations why, or even if it gets to a stage where you cant even talk about it what can you do? The woman is perfectly within her right not to have sex with her husband but is this not the wife being kinda unfaithful in a way? Lets face it if men were getting it at home most would not go wandering.

    A shag once a month would stop me wandering. lol

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